Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Zeu$ said:
Let ol girl pursue you, makes life easier.
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I be hitting them with the ether

Her: u wanna go out Friday
Me: Na I got a date already
Her: thought me and u were connecting
Me: thought wrong u kept rescheduling and stop texting so by rule means back of the line or cut off cuz u ain’t feeling me like that
Her: that’s mean I didn’t mean too reschedule I was feeling u and was busy so couldn’t txt really and what rule
Me: it’s my rule I go by and also u ain’t not once give me legit excuse for rescheduling or lack of txt cus if u did I’m reasonable and understanding that I be like oh ok no biggie. My time is valuable and it has a high premium. If u don’t use it properly i consider u not worth my time. It’s ok tho no worries ur lost not mines in the end
Her: I see um I made a mistake and I’m sorry u busy now we can meet
Me: in my head I was like this (Now u wanna meet now funny how that goes ) that’s fine u got a hour nothing past that
Her: Ok


I ended up smashing same damn day that’s the shyt I be telling brehs they can and will make time for u if they truly want too
Females who do that shyt too me become hit it and quit usually some do become more depending on what I see outta them but most I hit and quit or fukk buddies nothing more

I ain’t got time for games for damn females only games I play is with kids
 
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ZoeGod said:
Word this is me. My phone is drier than Ashy Larry's ankles. This semester has got me so stressed out I don't approach. I feel like i lost my approach mojo. I just go to class from 8am-5pm. Gym,get dinner then study. All the numbers I got were at parties or from circle of friends and these shyts gone nowhere.:beli: I am in a campus filled with fine sistas. Smh I'm slacking. And I see nikkas do the online game (tinder and IG) and are sucessful. I have tried it and it went nowehere. I guess I gotta do approaching. Been a dry ass semester. I'm stressed with this program, problems at home and in a dry spell. :francis: I gotta get back approaching.
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Take advantage of your time in school breh. How much longer you got until you graduate?

This is the EASIEST time in your life you will have around women. It's so much easier to cold approach on campus because you got that one thing in common - you are both in school, at the same school. Even if she's not in your class (you should be hollering at your classmates), at least on campus it's not as awkward because you're both students. You just have to figure out how you're going to do it because there's different ways to with chicks on campus......

Mostly, just spark a conversation somehow. If you're in line getting food or coffee, spark a conversation. It could be you simply complimenting her on her hair (this one is usually easy because you don't come off as creepy) or saying something about what she's wearing and that you dig her style. Once you get that out of the way - go straight into a conversation about school. What are you studying? Do you live on or off campus? Are you apart of this *insert group on campus* or do you head to any *insert any event on campus*? What do you want to do after school? literally anything and just make it school related to get some convo going... at this point, you could simply just be looking for a new friend and not necessarily a ting. Just be friendly. If this goes well, at the end, say something like "We should hang out sometime, maybe grab food on campus and hit the library sometime...... " ANYTHING. I'm just freestyling.

Another one I used to feast with was this : "Hey, what's up, I've seen you around campus before and I wanted to introduce myself..... " put out hand to shake, smile and that's when you can hit her with one of those compliments and jump right into the conversation about school. I'm still eating good off chicks I holla'd at in school and I've been out for over 5 years. Take advantage of this time bruh and feast.
 
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Patrick Kane said:
Take advantage of your time in school breh. How much longer you got until you graduate?

This is the EASIEST time in your life you will have around women. It's so much easier to cold approach on campus because you got that one thing in common - you are both in school, at the same school. Even if she's not in your class (you should be hollering at your classmates), at least on campus it's not as awkward because you're both students. You just have to figure out how you're going to do it because there's different ways to with chicks on campus......

Mostly, just spark a conversation somehow. If you're in line getting food or coffee, spark a conversation. It could be you simply complimenting her on her hair (this one is usually easy because you don't come off as creepy) or saying something about what she's wearing and that you dig her style. Once you get that out of the way - go straight into a conversation about school. What are you studying? Do you live on or off campus? Are you apart of this *insert group on campus* or do you head to any *insert any event on campus*? What do you want to do after school? literally anything and just make it school related to get some convo going... at this point, you could simply just be looking for a new friend and not necessarily a ting. Just be friendly. If this goes well, at the end, say something like "We should hang out sometime, maybe grab food on campus and hit the library sometime...... " ANYTHING. I'm just freestyling.

Another one I used to feast with was this : "Hey, what's up, I've seen you around campus before and I wanted to introduce myself..... " put out hand to shake, smile and that's when you can hit her with one of those compliments and jump right into the conversation about school. I'm still eating good off chicks I holla'd at in school and I've been out for over 5 years. Take advantage of this time bruh and feast.
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Young breh needs to focus on school and his future income prospects. Forget these college girls for now.
Too entitled and they have too many options including athletes his age and older men.

Find some divorcee or older woman if you desperately need to nut.

When you are more established in your late 20s and beyond. The tables will turn and that will be
the EASIEST time in your life to get women because you'll have leverage and resources.
 
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was really feelin this broad for a minute.. then about 2 months byke i noticed she was on some bullshyt. so i started hedging my bets :ahh:
she got an interview downtown this fri, i already know she gona ask if i wana chill after :mjpls:
but i just got flagged down by another girl so ima be like i got plans :jawalrus: and saturday too:takedat:

bout to get my beak wet aint go ttime for girls who are hot then cold then hot again then cant make up their mind about what they want
 
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twan83 said:
I be hitting them with the ether

Her: u wanna go out Friday
Me: Na I got a date already
Her: thought me and u were connecting
Me: thought wrong u kept rescheduling and stop texting so by rule means back of the line or cut off cuz u ain’t feeling me like that
Her: that’s mean I didn’t mean too reschedule I was feeling u and was busy so couldn’t txt really and what rule
Me: it’s my rule I go by and also u ain’t not once give me legit excuse for rescheduling or lack of txt cus if u did I’m reasonable and understanding that I be like oh ok no biggie. My time is valuable and it has a high premium. If u don’t use it properly i consider u not worth my time. It’s ok tho no worries ur lost not mines in the end
Her: I see um I made a mistake and I’m sorry u busy now we can meet
Me: in my head I was like this (Now u wanna meet now funny how that goes ) that’s fine u got a hour nothing past that
Her: Ok


I ended up smashing same damn day that’s the shyt I be telling brehs they can and will make time for u if they truly want too
Females who do that shyt too me become hit it and quit usually some do become more depending on what I see outta them but most I hit and quit or fukk buddies nothing more

I ain’t got time for games for damn females only games I play is with kids
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Too much texting tbh you sounded hurt but she gave you the p*ssy cause she felt bad :francis:
 
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Coli brehs I need some going to club game:francis: its Caribbean party sp i expect alot of grinding type shyt which i have no experience:hhh:
Anyway i watch a old Tariq video and he says its best to approach tons of females at 1st then leave them(ask how they doing....I'm see you later the nigh) then thru out the night it makes it less awkward to talk with them:ehh:
Does that still apply for 2017 clubs:francis:
 
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Patrick Kane said:
Take advantage of your time in school breh. How much longer you got until you graduate?

This is the EASIEST time in your life you will have around women. It's so much easier to cold approach on campus because you got that one thing in common - you are both in school, at the same school. Even if she's not in your class (you should be hollering at your classmates), at least on campus it's not as awkward because you're both students. You just have to figure out how you're going to do it because there's different ways to with chicks on campus......

Mostly, just spark a conversation somehow. If you're in line getting food or coffee, spark a conversation. It could be you simply complimenting her on her hair (this one is usually easy because you don't come off as creepy) or saying something about what she's wearing and that you dig her style. Once you get that out of the way - go straight into a conversation about school. What are you studying? Do you live on or off campus? Are you apart of this *insert group on campus* or do you head to any *insert any event on campus*? What do you want to do after school? literally anything and just make it school related to get some convo going... at this point, you could simply just be looking for a new friend and not necessarily a ting. Just be friendly. If this goes well, at the end, say something like "We should hang out sometime, maybe grab food on campus and hit the library sometime...... " ANYTHING. I'm just freestyling.

Another one I used to feast with was this : "Hey, what's up, I've seen you around campus before and I wanted to introduce myself..... " put out hand to shake, smile and that's when you can hit her with one of those compliments and jump right into the conversation about school. I'm still eating good off chicks I holla'd at in school and I've been out for over 5 years. Take advantage of this time bruh and feast.
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I got three more years. It's a doctorate program so shyt is intense but I hear you bro. So I'm living on campus in these graduate school apartments. I want some undergrad joints tho cuz my program got some fine broads but they all are either engaged or booed up. Anyway I'll take your advice. It's a small campus tho I hope I don't become the weirod approach guy on campus.
 
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