Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Only on the coli is it strange and lame to approach women. :dahell:

But maybe these coli dudes are right and I've had it wrong all this time.... maybe approaching women is no longer the wave in 2017

Nah fortune has, and always will, favor the bold. You gotta be willing to say fukk what everyone else is talking about and make your own way to get to your goals.

Last month, I got rid of all my social media accounts. I get mine the old fashioned way and I’m good with it. Do what works for you.
 

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Only on the coli is it strange and lame to approach women. :dahell:

But maybe these coli dudes are right and I've had it wrong all this time.... maybe approaching women is no longer the wave in 2017
i still think approaching is good but you gotta be more selective
i've been running into a lot of weird ass bytches but its probably my fault for forcing it too much and basing my approach solely off a physical attraction
 

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So i used to be a lame before and take girls i would meet from POF to nice restaurants just to better my chances ,
of course that would lead to nothing and they would pretty much get a free meal . So i stopped doing that , and instead
ask them to grab a coffee/small snack with me , about 9 out of 10 stop responding right after that :russ: i see it as
saving myself from a bullet . :yeshrug:Anyways, i dont really stress out about it since im pretty busy with college and all.


yep, if i were to date online, we only doing coffee the first few times, if i i think there is something there, maybe a little bit more after that. I don't head dive into a full course meal after just meetin her. glad you realize that
 

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So she called me and invited me over so I went.

She came out and said she felt vulnerable and never imagined doing what she did yesterday.

Then she said she wants to be in a relationship and it's been a month and that it's time we become exclusive and she's thought about it and was up all night praying about it.

I told her I need time. And she told me she's given me enough time and I'm just stringing her along.

She started to cry. Saying why did you kiss me why did you take me out, why did you do all that you did.

Basically told her that I like her but she's the first person I've been out with since my ex im just not ready for the whole relationship thing again

She told me I should go and yeah
 

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So she called me and invited me over so I went.

She came out and said she felt vulnerable and never imagined doing what she did yesterday.

Then she said she wants to be in a relationship and it's been a month and that it's time we become exclusive and she's thought about it and was up all night praying about it.

I told her I need time. And she told me she's given me enough time and I'm just stringing her along.

She started to cry. Saying why did you kiss me why did you take me out, why did you do all that you did.

Basically told her that I like her but she's the first person I've been out with since my ex im just not ready for the whole relationship thing again

She told me I should go and yeah
cold world:wow:
 

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cold world:wow:

my intent was never to hurt her or any chick.
I just don't want to be in a relationship, and its not like im going out with other women or even talking to other chicks.
I just don't want that label, I just don't want all that ish that comes along with a relationship.
The meeting families, talks about the future, falling in love, fights, being there and ish
 

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Only on the coli is it strange and lame to approach women. :dahell:

But maybe these coli dudes are right and I've had it wrong all this time.... maybe approaching women is no longer the wave in 2017
Who called it strange and lame? :russ:
It's not but in what's about to be 2018 its a dying practice and, like chivalry, women killed it :manny: if they aren't ringing off signals there's a very strong chance you'll be setting yourself up.
 

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Only on the coli is it strange and lame to approach women. :dahell:

But maybe these coli dudes are right and I've had it wrong all this time.... maybe approaching women is no longer the wave in 2017

The internet has changed life period..

Nah fortune has, and always will, favor the bold. You gotta be willing to say fukk what everyone else is talking about and make your own way to get to your goals.

Last month, I got rid of all my social media accounts. I get mine the old fashioned way and I’m good with it. Do what works for you.

i still think approaching is good but you gotta be more selective
i've been running into a lot of weird ass bytches but its probably my fault for forcing it too much and basing my approach solely off a physical attraction

Who called it strange and lame? :russ:
It's not but in what's about to be 2018 its a dying practice and, like chivalry, women killed it :manny: if they aren't ringing off signals there's a very strong chance you'll be setting yourself up.

For me it will never die and I do it for just simple questions and they take that shyt the wrong way like I’m gonna holler at them and I be like pump the brakes I just wanna know what aisle the comet is on :mjgrin:

I feel it’s still very effective but u either got it or don’t tho which makes it more harder nowadays
But with the right tools and mindset u can have a high success rate imo

Most underrated factor too it is eye contact and smiling both make a world of a difference
 
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