Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shadow King]

Dont hit up a chick that only talks to or text you when you intiate it. Smh

At what point is this evident though? The burden of initiation is always on the man so 9 times out of 10 we're initiating anyway.

To all my dudes 30 years old and below I think we have to adjust our expectations when dealing with women of the same kind. I've come to learn and accept that most women nowadays are just not interested in building with somebody from the ground up or dating traditionally. Maybe its just in Toronto, but you'll be hard pressed to find a woman with the qualities that any man of respect would want in his woman. If you have graduated from university/college and havent built some sort of solid relationship with a girl good luck. Even the ones that you think do/might have the qualities you look for in a woman are often so jaded or delusional when it comes to men and their expectations that it is just too hard get anywhere with them. Getting your foot in the door is one thing...hell...even fukking them is one thing (its easy as hell). But to build a steady, fruitful, long lasting relationship...the kind that takes effort and patience? It is damn near impossible. And it doesnt matter how good of a catch you think you are either. It dont matter how educated, good looking/fit, funny, gentlemanly you are. It don't matter what job you got. It dont matter what you drive. It dont matter how much bread you got. It dont matter where you live. Between the jadedness, delusion and overall mentality that the average girl has nowadays its just very difficult.


But hey...maybe its me

It ain't just you and it ain't just Toronto. At the end of the day the prevailing forces in 21st century relationships, casual or not, are lust, entertainment, and drama. Have the raw physical/aesthetic magnetism, possess and display your resources and knowledge in multiple fields, and the activity level and nonchalance to keep them at arm's length, clamoring for more and chasing. And that's on top of the jadedness and delusions prevalent in them.

This is why no matter what I'm told on here, I'm not playing till I have every good card in hand. Till I'm a 7'5" guard with a 50" inch vertical and the wet jumper from the other 3 point line. Till I'm a 6'8" 320 pound linebacker with a 4.2 40, 60 reps on the bench and a 50 Wonderlic. If your birth year is 199X as male you might as well stack every advantage possible, more so if you're a "late bloomer".

 

[Data-Hawk]

meh...thing with the abundance mentality is that an abundant amount of women aint really shyt. so when you come across one that you really vibe with or really like then they stand out and youre inclined to want them saying fukk the rest. if you wanna mac and be a player the rest of your life then sure the abundant mentality can gwan. but if youre truly looking find one chick that you can hold down the abundant mentality may be more detrimental than it is rewarding

I think the mentality is more of waiting to a girl really stands out though and shows the same level of interest( preferably more interest) and most importantly she stands the test of time.

Most of the time none of them really stand out , we just make it up in our head and magnify any little interest she shows. ( look up the movie 500 days of summer to see what we think vs reality ). I think by having the abundance mentality we don’t bush females for the one “we” like the most, you bush the rest for the one who earned it.

Plus In my opinion, you don’t have to be talking to a bunch of different females, it just helps to make sure you don’t latch onto any female lol.

 

[Shadow King]

I think the mentality is more of waiting to a girl really stands out though and shows the same level of interest( preferably more interest) and most importantly she stands the test of time.

Most of the time none of them really stand out , we just make it up in our head and magnify any little interest she shows. ( look up the movie 500 days of summer to see what we think vs reality ). I think by having the abundance mentality we don’t bush females for the one “we” like the most, you bush the rest for the one who earned it.

Plus In my opinion, you don’t have to be talking to a bunch of different females, it just helps to make sure you don’t latch onto any female lol.

I think that's a concept that'll just always be debated. Some dudes have the mental capacity to juggle 8 women, others will always prefer to deal with 1 until her offenses are too large or frequent and bush until the next candidate emerges.

I personally want to know starting points for dudes with different mentalities. There's gotta be a difference between dudes who had girlfriends/jumpoffs since 13 vs dudes who didn't eat till 20-something.

 

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[Dreamzeedream]

she told me, that I'm sleeping on myself and that's all she gotta say. And when I asked her how I'm doing that. She changed the subject

 

[Shadow King]

she told me, that I'm sleeping on myself and that's all she gotta say. And when I asked her how I'm doing that. She changed the subject

This deserves way more background

 

[Strapped]

She is nice

 

[315]

She is nice

Oops, I didn't mean to post this in here

 

[Ohene]

she told me, that I'm sleeping on myself and that's all she gotta say. And when I asked her how I'm doing that. She changed the subject

youre too modest or dont give yourself credit. be more aggressive in trying to fukk her

 

[MikelArteta]

Just got home brehs i dont get women.

I'm at the South Africans place I made her dinner for her birthday .

Anyways it's getting late and I say I have to go, she said it's so early I say I'm tired she takes off her shirt and asks for a massage

She's only wearing a bra and her big ol' titties are staring at me

Goes from a massage to me fingering then her giving me a bj. Next thing she shifts her thong and starts riding me

After like 15 min she just gets off me runs to the washroom locks the door and is in there for a good half hour

I'm at the door calling her name she doesn't answer. I say I'm leaving now still no answer and just took my stuff and bounce.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

youre too modest or dont give yourself credit. be more aggressive in trying to fukk her

This deserves way more background

That's What it was

 

[Solano707]

Let me tell you brehs one thing i learned this past weekend... Get your ass in the gym!

I was never a big dude, always skinny... recently I have been going o the gym, like 8 months now. Anyways, I've dated a few women here and there but nothing were it go to the point of sexual contact... except for this past weekend.

Long story short - she was rubbing my back putting some lotion on it, and for a quick second I guess she lost her reserve becaus she let out a big sigh and whispered under her breath "god".... all I could do is look back at her like this

Eventually, we get in bed and I'm on top her and she grabs my arms and squeezes, and she dead looks me in the eye and says "your arms are so strong"

Brehs, let me tell you I've never had any women actually compliment me on my physique - my confidence went through the roof. ain't no one could tell me shyt after that lol

What I will to yall, get to the gym, stay dedicated and watch what you eat. You have to be consistent, it's a must - and don't be concerned about seeing results overnight because you won't. However, sticking with it and eating right, in about a good 6 months - trust me, you will see change.

The only tihng I need to work on is my stomach, a small problem area, but honestly, i'm not even worry about it.

I mainly do deadlifts/back, squats, bench and pullups and of course arms and shoulders.

eat brehs, i wish i knew this before and all though brehs on here would say it, i never appreciated it until i've witnessed it first hand.

 

[TheArchitect]

I think that's a concept that'll just always be debated. Some dudes have the mental capacity to juggle 8 women, others will always prefer to deal with 1 until her offenses are too large or frequent and bush until the next candidate emerges.

I personally want to know starting points for dudes with different mentalities. There's gotta be a difference between dudes who had girlfriends/jumpoffs since 13 vs dudes who didn't eat till 20-something.

This. This can be very useful to some people, such as myself....

Let me tell you brehs one thing i learned this past weekend... Get your ass in the gym!

I was never a big dude, always skinny... recently I have been going o the gym, like 8 months now. Anyways, I've dated a few women here and there but nothing were it go to the point of sexual contact... except for this past weekend.

Long story short - she was rubbing my back putting some lotion on it, and for a quick second I guess she lost her reserve becaus she let out a big sigh and whispered under her breath "god".... all I could do is look back at her like this

Eventually, we get in bed and I'm on top her and she grabs my arms and squeezes, and she dead looks me in the eye and says "your arms are so strong"

Brehs, let me tell you I've never had any women actually compliment me on my physique - my confidence went through the roof. ain't no one could tell me shyt after that lol

What I will to yall, get to the gym, stay dedicated and watch what you eat. You have to be consistent, it's a must - and don't be concerned about seeing results overnight because you won't. However, sticking with it and eating right, in about a good 6 months - trust me, you will see change.

The only tihng I need to work on is my stomach, a small problem area, but honestly, i'm not even worry about it.

I mainly do deadlifts/back, squats, bench and pullups and of course arms and shoulders.

eat brehs, i wish i knew this before and all though brehs on here would say it, i never appreciated it until i've witnessed it first hand.

This is one advantage I have. I've been in the gym the past couple of years, and have seen a lot of results and gotten plenty of compliments. Thing is, my phone's still dry due to not having many opportunities to meet many females lately. I'ms till yet to witness what you did, but patiently waiting...

 

[Solano707]

This. This can be very useful to some people, such as myself....

This is one advantage I have. I've been in the gym the past couple of years, and have seen a lot of results and gotten plenty of compliments. Thing is, my phone's still dry due to not having many opportunities to meet many females lately. I'ms till yet to witness what you did, but patiently waiting...

So this girl in particular I am talking about, I saw her walk in to a bar that my friend and I were eating (not drinking bar, but like a Chile's/applebees type of place). I cold approached her.

I will say this - your phone will only stay dry if you don't approach women... you have to approach them. You know that, we all know that. I for one, saw her and I had to seize the moment. I was wearing a hoodie so she really couldn't see how jacked I was until weeks later.

But yeah, know that i am more muscular, my confidence have sky rocketed... i'm not too worried about rejection, it will happen, but i know that the ball is in my court now

 

[1thouwow]

The nikka behind her just wanna pass her