Now that we have outlined the potential risks on not having caution when dealing with women, we're going to move onto the exciting part. The key really is to put women in the background, recognize your worth and never sell it cheaply and always stay focused on improving yourself while you put women in the background.
You want to know the KEY? The key is to not chase women, but rather to put yourself in a position to where they want to chase YOU. As a man, you will always have to go get them, so I will say it is more accurate to say to put yourself in a position to where women want to allow themselves to easily be caught by you.
When you're out here and got your body right, got your finances right, gear is looking so solid, conversation is proper, you're just fun to be around, you don't allow no sucka business to go on around you and you make sure women respect your time, man you'll be in a position to where A LOT of women are going to want you. The thing with women is that it's true that they do want that one fly negro and will be willing to 'share him' than deal with the mediocre negroes. They will deal with them when they 'fall off'.
Let me tell ya'll a secret though, and it's something you must maintain. if a girl screws you over, then do NOT keep her around, even if it means easy access to sex or whatever. You must make your time valuable and you MUST be a man who is respectable. Allowing a woman to screw you over and keeping her around lowers your value because it says that it is fine to disrespect you as long as she is offering access to her vagina. Remember, there are billions of women on this planet, so if respect doesn't come with her, she has to go.
Instead of spending your mental energy trying to catch some one particular female, spend it engaged in ways of improving yourself. When you do that, the females come with it and if one female goes bad, you'll have another one ready to take her place. On the other hand, if you spend all your efforts catching one girl, she has the power over you, and when she goes, you'll be left dusted and disgusted... and trust me, she WILL leave. Women always want to deal with a man she perceives as above her. Always increasing your self-value is the key to go... and that will give you tremendous bargaining power. If one woman flakes on you, you can laugh because another one is ready to get your time. If babygirl wants to be miss independent and doesn't want to move out the way and let you lead and if she doesn't want to be feminine, you don't have to get a second thought, because you can deal with the ones that do. Let's take this discussion from perils and pitfalls into how to make ourselves into better winners. Real talk, let's start shifting this discussion on ways to just live a more abundant lifestyle, whether that's discussing workout progress, fly travel destinations, nice colognes, clothes, etc. We, as men are problem solvers, so let's fix things up so we can have victory.
Also remember though, with this power comes tremendous responsibility. You always have to be a man of morals and principles. just because you have a lot of women interested in you, don't use that to screw them over. Choose the highest quality one, and that is determined through her BEHAVIOR towards you...