Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Smfh was chilling with wifey and she went to sleep on me when she knew I was Tryna get some p*ssy. I'm trying to make it work but sh1t like that pisses me off. Got me ready to hit up a old side jawn and fukk her brains out.

I feel like she has had the advantage in the relationship lately by doing sh1t like that cuz she knows it pisses me off. Of course she knows what buttons to push.

I gotta figure out a way to turn the tables.
 

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I can find someone better looking but she was down for me listened to me and even learned what food I liked so she could cook it. I never suspected her of cheating she was a homebody and was really funny. I will probably just travel for a while. There's a woman I'm interested now that is my type but I am honestly very jaded now.

see brehs. i am sure I said it before but this is whats fukked up.

we as men are so simple. here we have a dude who appreciates a women even with her fukkery because she:

A) Was considerate enough to learn how to cook his favoruite foods
B) Listened to him
C) Was down for the cause
D) was funny

i wonder what the average woman's list looks like. they dont even know themselves.
 

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Now that we have outlined the potential risks on not having caution when dealing with women, we're going to move onto the exciting part. The key really is to put women in the background, recognize your worth and never sell it cheaply and always stay focused on improving yourself while you put women in the background.

You want to know the KEY? The key is to not chase women, but rather to put yourself in a position to where they want to chase YOU. As a man, you will always have to go get them, so I will say it is more accurate to say to put yourself in a position to where women want to allow themselves to easily be caught by you.

When you're out here and got your body right, got your finances right, gear is looking so solid, conversation is proper, you're just fun to be around, you don't allow no sucka business to go on around you and you make sure women respect your time, man you'll be in a position to where A LOT of women are going to want you. The thing with women is that it's true that they do want that one fly negro and will be willing to 'share him' than deal with the mediocre negroes. They will deal with them when they 'fall off'.

Let me tell ya'll a secret though, and it's something you must maintain. if a girl screws you over, then do NOT keep her around, even if it means easy access to sex or whatever. You must make your time valuable and you MUST be a man who is respectable. Allowing a woman to screw you over and keeping her around lowers your value because it says that it is fine to disrespect you as long as she is offering access to her vagina. Remember, there are billions of women on this planet, so if respect doesn't come with her, she has to go.

Instead of spending your mental energy trying to catch some one particular female, spend it engaged in ways of improving yourself. When you do that, the females come with it and if one female goes bad, you'll have another one ready to take her place. On the other hand, if you spend all your efforts catching one girl, she has the power over you, and when she goes, you'll be left dusted and disgusted... and trust me, she WILL leave. Women always want to deal with a man she perceives as above her. Always increasing your self-value is the key to go... and that will give you tremendous bargaining power. If one woman flakes on you, you can laugh because another one is ready to get your time. If babygirl wants to be miss independent and doesn't want to move out the way and let you lead and if she doesn't want to be feminine, you don't have to get a second thought, because you can deal with the ones that do. Let's take this discussion from perils and pitfalls into how to make ourselves into better winners. Real talk, let's start shifting this discussion on ways to just live a more abundant lifestyle, whether that's discussing workout progress, fly travel destinations, nice colognes, clothes, etc. We, as men are problem solvers, so let's fix things up so we can have victory.

Also remember though, with this power comes tremendous responsibility. You always have to be a man of morals and principles. just because you have a lot of women interested in you, don't use that to screw them over. Choose the highest quality one, and that is determined through her BEHAVIOR towards you...

Okay.

1) Read.

2) Have a hobby.

3) Exercise.

4) Stay out of troublesome situations.

5) Be excellent at your career.

6) If you have not finished school, then finish. Undergrad or Grad level.

7) Treat everyone equally. Little children and the elderly are treated as VIP's.

8) Set a good example for your family in terms of conduct and outlook.

9) Create a dream and work toward it.

10) Use your power/charm/intelligence/abilities for good. Don't abuse it.

11) Have some form of spirituality.


Do all of this...things will open up for you.
 

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word, I like the idea of a relaxing, healthy, quiet life. having a good woman who puts as much I put into the relationship. me in my way, and her in hers. Id like a woman who isnt impressed with an "american life" and is impressed with a good man.

if I see a chick with clothes on that are meant to make men hawk at her, gaudy jewelry on, extra make up with the push up bra, I know what time it is. the visual, and her actions are always going to mean more than what she says. so we gotta always be on point. :ohlawd:
I agree with most of what your saying outside of clothes that make men hawk part. Now don't get me wrong there are times where it is inappropiate but sometimes they are cool as long as its not too far overboard. I also think most people don't have initial approach game and without they use their bodies the same way some men use material things to get the other sex attention. Thats why you notice most people are nervous until after they met a person then afterwards they can be their natural self and thats why imo.
 
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Why does it seem like these days that the only opinion that only mattered is the opinion of women...makes it seem like being a female is this big old profound fight and men don't really have a voice anymore
 

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**Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 6:**

I approached a woman while waiting to vote. This was by design. I wanted to see how I could play the risky game of political discussion when meeting someone for the first time, because I know it's a cardinal rule that you're not supposed to break. If I could manage to get past it, I might be able to learn some new things.

It wasn't too hard once I got past the hurdle of finding out who she was voting for (Obama). She was a blonde college student that was voting based on her right to choose and that she wanted to go to school without having to pay out the ass for it.

We were playing a little "cat and mouse" with one another when the conversation got going because we were having fun talking to each other but didn't wanna alienate the other, but if we gambled on agreeing and won, the rapport that we had with one another would have been totally worth the gamble. I approached it really lightly by saying that I was really just ready for the election to be over and that I wanted to have Facebook looking normal again, but once we began to reveal our leanings to each other, we began hitting it way heavier.

Finding out that you agree with a woman's politics takes you into a deep rapport with her. She'll feel like you're part of her "in group" and that you're a safe person to be around and talk to. She'll feel like you respect her ideas and will defend them, making her feel safe and special.

The fact that Obama won made her happy. We texted each other about it and have agreed to meet later this week.
 

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Now that we have outlined the potential risks on not having caution when dealing with women, we're going to move onto the exciting part. The key really is to put women in the background, recognize your worth and never sell it cheaply and always stay focused on improving yourself while you put women in the background.

Also remember though, with this power comes tremendous responsibility. You always have to be a man of morals and principles. just because you have a lot of women interested in you, don't use that to screw them over. Choose the highest quality one, and that is determined through her BEHAVIOR towards you...

I propose we rename this thread "Quick lil gems on dealing with women and life thread" (for men only) with the consistant regulation and proper mod work like we've had, only good shyt can come from it. :smugbiden:
 

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women are able to see through a guy with no game trying to act like he does. a fake, he tries to show it off and validate it with the girl. you dont do that. thats the mistake. just be ABOUT SOMETHING. have your own shyt going. ok he has the car, the money, and then ... he threw it all away so he could fawn over this bird like his world stopped around her. put her stranger ass on a pedestal SMH

bytches who look good already been run through and know a lot about the game. they dont jump at a man just because he has jewelry on or whatever. they know who is about something and who isnt. even a player, is really about something (himself), and it will show. that interests them because it shows them he can make something with himself and it will show with the confidence and self worth.

dudes who think that just money is the ticket are in for a rude awakening when they realize that they are lame and about to be used up for all their worth. guys like that get juiced until their pockets run dry.

The absolute worst is those dudes who get that annoying ass smirk on their face when they are going over to try to bag a girl they never met before. I mean if its in high school and a girl uve known for years....then that I understand

But an absolute stranger? .....Making cheesy ass "smirks"? Dudes like this never seem to get it

They need to watch all the episodes of Johnny Bravo, see what Johnny did and how thirsty he always was and compare themselves in the mirror to see how corny/wack that "I'm flirting with u and I'm gonna directly tell u that" mindset is.
 

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men who are stuck on women that are treating their relationship like it aint shyt, are addicted to the pain as much as the love theyre getting.

you HAVE to dust yourself off and start fresh, player. find and promote something else for your life.

dudes are on the gap band mode. letting her run in and out of your life when she already showed you what she was about. let her back, mayne - for what?





when reality is, shes acting like your pusher and jerking you around because youll still be her customer no matter what. straight junky status to her.



detox, brotha! clean yourself off :ufdup:
 
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The absolute worst is those dudes who get that annoying ass smirk on their face when they are going over to try to bag a girl they never met before. I mean if its in high school and a girl uve known for years....then that I understand

But an absolute stranger? .....Making cheesy ass "smirks"? Dudes like this never seem to get it

They need to watch all the episodes of Johnny Bravo, see what Johnny did and how thirsty he always was and compare themselves in the mirror to see how corny/wack that "I'm flirting with u and I'm gonna directly tell u that" mindset is.

LOL for real. once you present yourelf as thirsty and like youre in NEED of her, its game over. you just transferred power over to the dark side of the force.

always wear your game face on. you might feel like :takedat: but you at least want to approach her like :smugdraper:
 

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oye and other men who are stuck on women that are treating their love and relationship like it aint shyt, are addicted to the pain as much as the love theyre getting.

so let it go. it you HAVE to dust yourself off and start fresh, player! find and promote something else for your life.

dudes are on the gap band mode. letting her run in and out of your life. she already proved what she was about. let her back, mayne - for what?


The Gap Band "Yearning For your Love" - YouTube


when reality is, shes acting like your pusher and jerking you around because youll still be her customer no matter what. straight junky status to her.

Genesis Tonight, Tonight, Tonight (Official Music Video 1987) - YouTube

detox, brotha! clean yourself off :ufdup:


Here's the thing I am the one that was treating the relationship like it wasn't shyt. She loved the ground I walked on for pretty much the entire time we were together. Like I said I'm not blameless and didn't really want to go into too much detail but I started giving her the cold shoulder and ignoring her at times. What you described is true but its actually me that was jerking her around the last year or so. I never cheated or hit her but the way I treated her changed so like I said I'm not at all blameless. How she's acting after the fact is the issue.
 

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Here's the thing I am the one that was treating the relationship like it wasn't shyt. She loved the ground I walked on for pretty much the entire time we were together. Like I said I'm not blameless and didn't really want to go into too much detail but I started giving her the cold shoulder and ignoring her at times. What you described is true but its actually me that was jerking her around the last year or so. I never cheated or hit her but the way I treated her changed so like I said I'm not at all blameless. How she's acting after the fact is the issue.

well, cut her off cousin, you gotta leave her alone. that addiction to her is coming back and its leading you to talk to her at 3am about you two, and while she has a man. theres no good in that. move on and do better next time. you know whats up.
 
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