Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EA]

What's bothering you exactly, fam?
Care to share?

A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.

For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years

 

[MikelArteta]

Single moms are not build worthy,

 

[Turbulent]

Hell Nah *knock on wood*
She's self sufficient.. She lives in a nicer crib than me and has a career n everything. It's like back in hs when u hung out with a broad after school and eventually banged her. Every time I've seen her we've watched sports
Just 2 grown ppl enjoying each other's company
Edit: last thing she needs is to get pregnant, with how her shyt is right now. So I know I ain't in a risk to get trapped.

is this based on what she said? what a chick says and what she ends up doing when shyt hits the fan might be different. you never know how people react under pressure. hope you don't take her reassuring words as a greenlight to hit it raw

 

[MAGNETO.]

A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.

For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years

This same thing happened with me.
It shows how shallow they really are.
Coming out of high school I dropped mad weight and got into a good degree, Law/Arts. And what do you know, girls look at you different. Hence why when I meet girls I never mention it but my boys at work always slipping
In my experience it's made me reticent, especially around these types of women. Like Rein I have the luxury of being able to travel abroad too, so all these things lead these women to come back. But I digress.

 

[The ADD]

A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.

For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years

People doing silly shyt, that's life.

Your pool of chicks you deal with should be bigger than those old associates. Letting them impact your social life going forward isn't the move. Sounds like you are making moves, everything else will fall into place.

 

[Pyrexcup]

A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.

For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years

smash and dash only

 

[EA]

This same thing happened with me.
It shows how shallow they really are.
Coming out of high school I dropped mad weight and got into a good degree, Law/Arts. And what do you know, girls look at you different. Hence why when I meet girls I never mention it but my boys at work always slipping
In my experience it's made me reticent, especially around these types of women. Like Rein I have the luxury of being able to travel abroad too, so all these things lead these women to come back. But I digress.

It's irritating because I try really hard to keep my courteous, good nature but sometimes, I just feel to be the a$$hole itching to come out when these girls try to approach me

People doing silly shyt, that's life.

Your pool of chicks you deal with should be bigger than those old associates. Letting them impact your social life going forward isn't the move. Sounds like you are making moves, everything else will fall into place.

I'm hoping to expand my circles and meet some girls from different walks of life but that's secondary at the moment until I'm really on track in the way that I want to be. Until then, I'm stuck with girls I used to know and girls with 5k+ followers on Instagram that still share bedrooms with their younger siblings.

 

[sfgiants]

is this based on what she said? what a chick says and what she ends up doing when shyt hits the fan might be different. you never know how people react under pressure. hope you don't take her reassuring words as a greenlight to hit it raw

She's busier than I am and I go to school and work full Time. There's no way a new kid would benefit her whatsoever, she'd have to take time off work and school and the other shyt she has going on and derail her entire ecosystem. Plus I always put a sausage casing on, fukk going raw

 

[sfgiants]

I got in this situation the other day.
bytch hit me with she likes me talk etc but I aint playing no step daddy

Shut it down but told her im down for some...though

Nikka finna eat when i go her crib


Finna be in the bath like

I don't go to her house, been there once and the kid was gone. She always drives to my crib and then bounces that same night
I'd prob freak out if I showed up to some girls house horny as hell n saw her kid there.

 

[Captsmackabeat]

How does a brother be selfish in a mff threesome? Especially if the chick arrange said threesome.

 

[BamdaDon]

Didn't think I ever need this thread but got this shy chick. well chick with a man. Just hit me with ;)

Text was like me:
see you later

Her :ok ;)

Ain't that the same as ....ok

Or am I on some thirsty shyt right now. I already know I'm going to fukk but I'm not use to shy chicks anymore

 

[McPiff]

seeing a single mom right now and brehs

she's treating a nicca like he's the king of the world and we aint even talking about dating.

We just enjoy each other company, she's not trying to trap a nikka with a kid or something, she's a great woman, loyal, we have a outstanding chemistry and she's ok with not getting into a serious relationship

the other day my whip was broke and she let me used hers without even asking



single moms are the best

 

[MikelArteta]

seeing a single mom right now and brehs

she's treating a nicca like he's the king of the world and we aint even talking about dating.

We just enjoy each other company, she's not trying to trap a nikka with a kid or something, she's a great woman, loyal, we have a outstanding chemistry and she's ok with not getting into a serious relationship

the other day my whip was broke and she let me used hers without even asking



single moms are the best

ah the single mother trap

Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc, it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship. What is really going on is a shyt-load of help from the single moms friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc. No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.

One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated that single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc they seem to be ideal mates.

What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. I don´t know how many men have loudly complained that after marriage they were suddenly now doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and repairing around the house with zero time like they had before. I don´t know how many have said it was like night and day after they moved in. The kind compassionate woman the men met had some how now been replaced by a truly different woman, it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually this occurs just after marriage.

A lot of men though go for it and involve themselves in marriage with a single mom and do not really know some of the problems they will encounter. Here is a short list of several common problems that begin to creep up:

 

[Ohene]

A lot the same girls that use to not give me the time of day now try to talk to me just because things are going well for me. I've been told that I should just take advantage of the opportunities that will present itself with these girls but in actuality, it's just made me resentful. Part of me knows that my resentful nature is a character flaw but the way these girls try to creep into the picture with their ways just gets to me.

For instance, a girl I know who's still living with her parents & has a low paying job tried flirting with me and wanted me to take her to one of the most expensive restaurants in the city...when right up until I got my job, I hadn't heard from her in 2 years

I'm the same way

 

[McPiff]

ah the single mother trap

Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc, it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship. What is really going on is a shyt-load of help from the single moms friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc. No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.

One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated that single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc they seem to be ideal mates.

What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. I don´t know how many men have loudly complained that after marriage they were suddenly now doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and repairing around the house with zero time like they had before. I don´t know how many have said it was like night and day after they moved in. The kind compassionate woman the men met had some how now been replaced by a truly different woman, it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually this occurs just after marriage.

A lot of men though go for it and involve themselves in marriage with a single mom and do not really know some of the problems they will encounter. Here is a short list of several common problems that begin to creep up:

nah breh it aint even like that

we see each other occasionally like once or twice every three weeks. i made clear that she wasnt anywhere being one of my prorities.

I just do me and i'm not gonna get into a relationship with her because i dont want to be in one. i'm not that attached to her so if she doesnt follow suit it's