Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You lost when you poured your heart out...

Last night I went out with this chick that had been pursuing me . I never gave her the time of day gor some reason. We had great chemistry, she was beautiful, great job, seems like she has great family values..she really stood out.

Someone just posted about how women must sense when a man starts moving on..because like clockwork the next morning my sons mom text me some mushy shyt.
 

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Last night I went out with this chick that had been pursuing me . I never gave her the time of day gor some reason. We had great chemistry, she was beautiful, great job, seems like she has great family values..she really stood out.

Someone just posted about how women must sense when a man starts moving on..because like clockwork the next morning my sons mom text me some mushy shyt.

yeah that shyt is really unreal:pachaha:
 

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as a man how do you train yourself to date someone enthusiastically while knowing the female isnt your type phsyically? even if shes hot? help me brehs still trying lol
 

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Last night I went out with this chick that had been pursuing me . I never gave her the time of day gor some reason. We had great chemistry, she was beautiful, great job, seems like she has great family values..she really stood out.

Someone just posted about how women must sense when a man starts moving on..because like clockwork the next morning my sons mom text me some mushy shyt.

yeah man its crazy how they know, bet if you were at home moping around in bed your phone wouldn't have buzzed
 

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as a man how do you train yourself to date someone enthusiastically while knowing the female isnt your type phsyically? even if shes hot? help me brehs still trying lol

Attraction can grow. but it's still a vital component. Sometimes you just have to rewire your mind though if the women meets every other checkpoint.

and sometimes you just have to walk away
 

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as a man how do you train yourself to date someone enthusiastically while knowing the female isnt your type phsyically? even if shes hot? help me brehs still trying lol
Why would you?

If you aren't attracted why go through the motions?
 

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thats the hard part. question variations. :snoop:



This should be a good start.
Although I do this naturally, this video helps to illuminate what others are trying to convey.



The video is on point. You want the chick to emotionally invest in the conversation. A girl will not remember you or give you any thought at all if she didn't invest her time speaking about herself to you. One easy way for guys to do this is to ask them about a popular show on TV. I say this because there is a greater than 80% chance she watches some show regularly. People tend to be emotionally attached to a show or character.

The layup question is "who is your favorite character" and "why". If she was giving you dull responses up to that point, you will notice her voice and facial expressions becoming more animated and she explains her answer. That is what you want, emotional investment. This will also help you demystify chicks in general as you will realize despite what you think, they're just normal. This tactic can work with any subject that leads to an emotional response, but talking about a TV show is simple enough for anyone to use.

The funny thing is the more emotionally engaged you get a person, the better conversationalist they will think you are. All you're really doing is LISTENING.
 

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what i will tell you though is that at this point she doesn't respect you and that you need to get your mind right as far as who you are really, what you need to improve about yourself and what your value is to yourself. keep building breh!

Man listen bro you was right about everything :mjcry:

You all were :mjcry:

I changed I did everything to make this relationship work and when i thought it was great she hit with this relationship is boring :mjcry:

Man I'm worrying about myself from now on :mjcry:
 

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Man listen bro you was right about everything :mjcry:

You all were :mjcry:

I changed I did everything to make this relationship work and when i thought it was great she hit with this relationship is boring :mjcry:

Man I'm worrying about myself from now on :mjcry:

stability, security, faithfulfness = boring

bet if she caught you texting another girl, or youd be cussing her out every other day she'd still be around

a certain segment of women like these just let em run with the hyenas
 

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stability, security, faithfulfness = boring

bet if she caught you texting another girl, or youd be cussing her out every other day she'd still be around

a certain segment of women like these just let em run with the hyenas

SO MUCH fukkING TRUTH

I really wanna this relationship to work I was tried of the arguments I wanna to be a better man for us :mjcry:

I need to get my shyt together now I need to happy with myself I need to enjoy my life because it's my life
 

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I don't know what it is though with people feeling the need to broadcast shyt. You got alot of these chicks taking IG and FB pictures every other minute going to Bike Week or any other lavish vacation. Thats exactly why if nikkas going with the purpose of pulling bytches that its worthless because its gonna be no different from when you're going to a night spot. Females are glued in with their phones, Too busy texting, too busy staying with their own female click to want to interact with anybody out there.

Females go out to these lavish spots, beaches, turning up at the club to seek gratification and attention, Males go to find a bytch to fukk and usually 90% of the time unless he do some serious tricking. Their intended mission will usually fail.

Thats why when I use to go out with me team, We go to have a GOOD TIME. Forget hunting for a bytch. You subconsciously ruin what should be a eventful time when you put pulling a chick as your main ulterior motive. We turn it up to where females eventual want to come AROUND US and thats where we get full cooperation. If we pull, We pull, If we don't so be it. We do it up anyways.

As of late I been doing more shyt solo. It gets frustrating getting a team of people on the right page and It's been more enjoyful!
 

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SO MUCH fukkING TRUTH

I really wanna this relationship to work I was tried of the arguments I wanna to be a better man for us :mjcry:

I need to get my shyt together now I need to happy with myself I need to enjoy my life because it's my life

Pretty much bruh. That's why you take your focus off of women and make them something that is a dessert to your life and never the main course. You never know if she'll be here tomorrow, so you have to mentally prepare yourself to if she walks out, you can still be incredibly happy with your life.
 

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Why would you?

If you aren't attracted why go through the motions?

cuz we click more than the physical....and shes very loyal....but i just cant get past a thick chick with a phat ass at the same time....i dont wanna resort myself to the dude that turns down a potential wife because of ass
 
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