Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

nah breh it aint even like that

we see each other occasionally like once or twice every three weeks. i made clear that she wasnt anywhere being one of my prorities.

I just do me and i'm not gonna get into a relationship with her because i dont want to be in one. i'm not that attached to her so if she doesnt follow suit it's

breh trust me, it won't be long before she is not ok with this. It's typical of women especially single mothers, they know they don't have alot to offer so they stay in teh shadows, but their goal plan is the same thing. As that emotional bond goes stronger and the sex is off the chain and she keeps cooking you food, and her kid is so nice to you. Then the what are we, I can't continue to do this and have men in and out of juior life will start to be brought up.

There is always an expiry date on hands off, just coming into to chil and smash and "hang out" with a woman ALWAUS

 

[McPiff]

breh trust me, it won't be long before she is not ok with this. It's typical of women especially single mothers, they know they don't have alot to offer so they stay in teh shadows, but their goal plan is the same thing. As that emotional bond goes stronger and the sex is off the chain and she keeps cooking you food, and her kid is so nice to you. Then the what are we, I can't continue to do this and have men in and out of juior life will start to be brought up.

There is always an expiry date on hands off, just coming into to chil and smash and "hang out" with a woman ALWAUS

i've never seen her kid.




to be honest i told her what the deal was at the beginning and im still giving her some reminders. We dont see eath other that often so it helps too. And if she want to take it further,well she'll do it without me

 

[sfgiants]

breh trust me, it won't be long before she is not ok with this. It's typical of women especially single mothers, they know they don't have alot to offer so they stay in teh shadows, but their goal plan is the same thing. As that emotional bond goes stronger and the sex is off the chain and she keeps cooking you food, and her kid is so nice to you. Then the what are we, I can't continue to do this and have men in and out of juior life will start to be brought up.

There is always an expiry date on hands off, just coming into to chil and smash and "hang out" with a woman ALWAUS

Good thing I don't need any of these broads they can find permanent residence in the bushes if they start actin different
@Todd McPiff I kno u feel the same way

 

[Dreamzeedream]

some these chicks just assume you want them or want to fukk them

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Am I over reacting coli?

Me and shorty broke up. 2 weeks past and we get back together.

Nothing change she still clingy still all over me. I was her first and she young so that to be expected.

Ask her did she talk to someone over that 2 weeks. She say yeah. Some cat on twitter.

Come to find out she was talking too this guy at night face-time n all that.

I told her i know she was some how some way sexting this guy. She tell me she did not.(which is a lie)

She deleted all the txt between the two. She has a I phone which i know you can recover deleted txt.

Told her I want to see what she was saying to brah. She been fighting me tooth and nail for the past few days not to show me, making all kind of excuses.

So i break up with her and stooped responding. She been blowing my phone up the past 48 hours.

Thing is I don't care that she sent this nikka noods or have sexual talk with cat, we was broke up.

But I can't get over the that fact she trying so hard to cover this shyt up when I told her just show me the txt so i can be mad then get over it.

I am salty that I was kinda hurt during are break up and was not even thinking about the next chick , but she already just to the next nikkas arms so to speak.

At this time I have cut contact for the past 24 hours. Wait for shorty to just let me see the txts, but after all this I feel drained so im about 80% done with her at this point I might give it 2 more days until I completely delete shorty out my life.

Am I being a bytch about the whole thing or is my reasoning justified?


This is my first real relationship but I read enough post in here to know she did something with cat, also I know what taking her back can lead to if she so qike to jump ship. Her loyalty took a hit, only reason I have not throne her in the bushes is because I wanted to mold her into my future wife. She has all the qualities of a wify material. Good family, both mom and dad, smart, not ratchet.EXC..........


Coli brahs whats your input big or small is welcomed

 

[The ADD]

Am I over reacting coli?

Me and shorty broke up. 2 weeks past and we get back together.

Nothing change she still clingy still all over me. I was her first and she young so that to be expected.

Ask her did she talk to someone over that 2 weeks. She say yeah. Some cat on twitter.

Come to find out she was talking too this guy at night face-time n all that.

I told her i know she was some how some way sexting this guy. She tell me she did not.(which is a lie)

She deleted all the txt between the two. She has a I phone which i know you can recover deleted txt.

Told her I want to see what she was saying to brah. She been fighting me tooth and nail for the past few days not to show me, making all kind of excuses.

So i break up with her and stooped responding. She been blowing my phone up the past 48 hours.

Thing is I don't care that she sent this nikka noods or have sexual talk with cat, we was broke up.

But I can't get over the that fact she trying so hard to cover this shyt up when I told her just show me the txt so i can be mad then get over it.

I am salty that I was kinda hurt during are break up and was not even thinking about the next chick , but she already just to the next nikkas arms so to speak.

At this time I have cut contact for the past 24 hours. Wait for shorty to just let me see the txts, but after all this I feel drained so im about 80% done with her at this point I might give it 2 more days until I completely delete shorty out my life.

Am I being a bytch about the whole thing or is my reasoning justified?


This is my first real relationship but I read enough post in here to know she did something with cat, also I know what taking her back can lead to if she so qike to jump ship. Her loyalty took a hit, only reason I have not throne her in the bushes is because I wanted to mold her into my future wife. She has all the qualities of a wify material. Good family, both mom and dad, smart, not ratchet.EXC..........


Coli brahs whats your input big or small is welcomed

The issue is why she is fighting so hard not to show you. Really odd for such a short time frame. If she had simply said no, it would make more sense.

I would walk away based on what you have posted:

 

[Mickey Kane]

Honestly bro, you don't NEED to see those texts. Seeing the conversation shouldn't be a condition for staying with her or not.

It ain't important. She could have not done a thing, she could have been having sexting, she could have actually had sex with him.

Real concern is, is this all worth it? What do YOU want? In an ideal world?

 

[Mr.Plan B]

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[Jesus]

So as time is dwindling and I'm preparing to head to Japan...I have a room I'm renting out via Airbnb with this old Chinese lady for a couple of weeks in her big ass house.Memorial Day weekend and we get this UK couple and two Canadian chicks come in. Everyone is cool no biggie....went out with the Canadian chicks and they were mad cool...they paid for my drinks and meal for showing them around downtown San Diego. They claimed they wanted to see how an American black is compared to aggressive Africans and Jamaicans. They were bragging how they are different from American females...and how they are more liberal. Got dome from one....working on the other before they leave Friday.


@Emperor_ReinScarf How is the Montreal scene for a brotha?

 

[MikelArteta]

hey claimed they wanted to see how an American black is compared to aggressive Africans and Jamaicans. They were bragging how they are different from American females...and how they are more liberal.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Emperor_ReinScarf How is the Montreal scene for a brotha?

I've never been to montreal

but @Turbulent can answer

 

[MikelArteta]

So as time is dwindling and I'm preparing to head to Japan...I have a room I'm renting out via Airbnb with this old Chinese lady for a couple of weeks in her big ass house.Memorial Day weekend and we get this UK couple and two Canadian chicks come in.

airbnb is a lifesaver, when i go back to van im doing it just renting a room for like 30 a night instead of paying a hotel 100 and something

jamaican men and africans are aggressive and simps up here in canada, i'm jamaican but im not but yeah its commonplace

 

[LaLuna]

@Emperor_ReinScarf
Were you wronged by a single mom?

 

[MikelArteta]

@Emperor_ReinScarf
Were you wronged by a single mom?

i was wronged by a woman who was brought up by a single mom, 've been wronged bya childless woman as well.

Just that getting serious with a single mother is just not worth it for a man with no kids. I'm not into casual relationships so I can't speak on that portion its just a very risky imo

 

[LaLuna]

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