Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

If this girl is a virgin though, why would she put herself in sexual scenarios though? That's what doesn't make sense to me. Staying overnight and eventually getting naked while she does it. Just straight up mixed signals. I would've flipped on her too. I could respect it if she set clear boundaries and stuck to them. She was dangling the cat.

I would say just leave her alone. She clearly doesn't know what she wants right now. You're just giving yourself a headache by trying to decode her signals.

 

[kevm3]

If this girl is a virgin though, why would she put herself in sexual scenarios though? That's what doesn't make sense to me. Staying overnight and eventually getting naked while she does it. Just straight up mixed signals. I would've flipped on her too. I could respect it if she set clear boundaries and stuck to them. She was dangling the cat.

I would say just leave her alone. She clearly doesn't know what she wants right now. You're just giving yourself a headache by trying to decode her signals.

Yeah, that's a sketchy part of the story. She could be one of those pretend virgins who acts like she's saving herself but is really doing her thing. A virgin that is one for say religious purposes wouldn't be spending nights over your house and removing most of her clothes because she doesn't want to put herself in a situation that is compromising to her beliefs.

 

[Music Fiend]

If this girl is a virgin though, why would she put herself in sexual scenarios though? That's what doesn't make sense to me. Staying overnight and eventually getting naked while she does it. Just straight up mixed signals. I would've flipped on her too. I could respect it if she set clear boundaries and stuck to them. She was dangling the cat.

I would say just leave her alone. She clearly doesn't know what she wants right now. You're just giving yourself a headache by trying to decode her signals.

Whew my brother! Exactly what I'm getting at bro. Ive been around the block and getting laid isnt the problem. Im not begging any woman to sleep with me.

The problem is that people do not put themselves in a situation purposely that they do not want.

Theres women ive seen and never hit which is cool, because they made sure with their actions to let me know where they stood not words. Im cool with her not wanting to go that far. I just wanted to make sure I wasnt in the wrong and that it was indeed mixed signals. I was getting head, albeit terrible head.

 

[Music Fiend]

Yeah, that's a sketchy part of the story. She could be one of those pretend virgins who acts like she's saving herself but is really doing her thing. A virgin that is one for say religious purposes wouldn't be spending nights over your house and removing most of her clothes because she doesn't want to put herself in a situation that is compromising to her beliefs.

I agree, hence why I was asking about red flags. Im starting to think somewhere along the lines, she either got ran thru or was with someone who hit and quit and now shes making me pay. Im just gonna stop interacting with her altogether and continue to KIM.

Too much of a headache.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I had a Joe Budden kinda day today.

Some of them lyrics were hitting a lil too close to home.

 

[MikelArteta]

I had a Joe Budden kinda day today.

Some of them lyrics were hitting a lil too close to home.

let it out breh

you married yet

 

[Womb Raider]

while i understand your premise, my experiences with women in general cautions my eagerness to agree with it.

see, theres something ol boy just wasn't doing right to get her to sleep with him. just because she wouldn't do it with him doesn't mean she wouldn't give it up to the next guy (who knows what he is doing) in under 48 hours.

i think ol boy screwed up by burning bridges. he shoulda found what it is that turns her on and use those things against her. him trying to reason with her to get her to sleep with him is a mighty turn off. u NEVER explain to a woman why she should have sex with u. its pathetic and just goes against the art of seduction.

can you explain this to me?

 

[TRUEST]

can you explain this to me?

sex is something that should just happen, unless its a fwb type situation and there's already an understanding that whenever yall meet, its fuccktime.

but if ur in a serious relationship, or with someone who u wanna fucck but haven't fuccked, NEVER try to reason her into sex. if u try ur best moves on her, and she shuts u down, dont act butthurt. give her a kiss on the neck or cheek and go to sleep. when she sees u aint pressed for it, next time u try she wont play so hard.

with regards to that girl u were talking about, u could have eased into sex with her by getting her to do things that many dumb girls today dont consider as sex....i.e. blowjobs. then from there, when shes hot and bothered, she wont be as resistant to fuccking.

 

[EQ.]

Again, okc is

might need to check this out.

@Emperor_ReinScarf you got that dating site template still?

 

[sfgiants]

i got this chick comin to my crib tomorrow for the warriors game, she's driving across the bridge and bringing me food
i swear i was on pof for over a month and got nothing but trash and trannies spamming me
gona try to sneak a pic in tmrw

 

[EQ.]

@Emperor_ReinScarf if you get a chance could you re-up that dating site template.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Emperor_ReinScarf if you get a chance could you re-up that dating site template.

My guide....


1. Exaggerate a little - if your height is 5'9 to 5'11 bump to 6 feet, many women in searches make sure a guys height is 6 feet. If you have a bachelors bump it up to a masters, if you make 40k a year put yourself in teh 50-75k bracket if there is a option to.

2. Delete your profile every two weeks, as a new user to keep you on the site, dating sites will put your profile at the top of searches and who's online etc., that is why you get alot of clicks in the first few days, weeks then after that your one of the many men who won't get any, by deleting and creating a profile you will always be in front.

3. Realize most women on these are whores, have emotional problems, are single moms. Don't expect to find a nice righteous down to earth wifey, most of these women are there for attention, for a quick lay, a sugar daddy, or free dates.

4. Keep your profile short and to the point, the main thing people look at yes even women are pictures, no need to write endless paragraphs describing yourself, be concise.

5. Put up like 2-3 pictures of yourself, make sure to google image your photos so they don't tie to you on some xxx hookup site or your instagram. At least one of the photos should be of you outside doing something so you don't look like a homebody

6. Never compliment a woman on her beauty in a message, most beautiful or even average women are getting the hey sexy, wow what is a beautiful girl doing like you on here, pathetic simp messages. Keep it short and concise, and mention something you see on her page and your in.

7. Never message twice if she doesn't reply who cares, onto the next one, get a template set up and use that and just add the one thing from her page.

8. After like 3 msgs and you think your in, get the number, the kik, the whatsapp, take the messaging of the site!!

7. Don't be fooled by fat girl angles, if all you see is her face and not her full body, ask for her facebook or google image one of her images will probably lead you to a instagram or a twitter where you can view her pictures more in depth.

8. if you live in a big city, switch up your zip code a couple times, you will see more of an array of women.

9. Never believe anything a woman says on her page, whatever she says more than likely it's what she's used to dating. I hate liars, cheaters, and players I want a nice guy = I only dated liars cheaters and players in the past, they hurt me alot so i want a safe nice guy.

10. Interests say you like photography, jazz, documentaries, travelling and enjoy volunteering in your free time.

11. Always put long term or looking for a relationship, women will think your serious and not one of those players on the site


sample profile


Where to start......... umm I sold my soul to school (have my *insert bachelors, masters, doctorate") and now to "insert corporation, fortune 500 company, government" for the time been. I've always been told I'm upfront, confident, monosyllabic with impeccable taste in fashion, music and food.

I love to travel (at 15 countries and counting), read (insert what you like to read), volunteer, and photography.

If you like what you see feel free to send a message ( I don't discriminate).

 

[Action Mike]

Ima about eat OKC now

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

let it out breh

you married yet

You silly breh. Marriage is a loooong way away, and may not happen ever honestly.

Nah man, I had a dream about my last gf. shyt had me so sad I woke up out it and couldn't go to sleep.

Rather than sit there at 7 AM and overthink every little thing that went wrong.....

...I threw on some clothes and hit the gym with Joe Budden as my soundtrack nikkas hate on Budden but he's got some really relatable relationship rhymes. (4R)

I was fine after that.


I need to visit this thread more tho. I been busy. I can't forget about the brehs.

 

[MikelArteta]

I encourage every individual out there reading this to never think you are not good enough, to never linger in an unhealthy relationship just to be able to say you are with someone. To never ever have thoughts that you will never endure without someone in your life or live an unsatisfying life. Yes the ending of a relationship sucks and it always stings at first, but you will always make it through. And this is my pledge because I am a living testament to this fact. And usually something better always comes along, and if not guess what you will have yourself and you are more than adequate addendum GOOD addendum GREAT enough.

Looking back at the past will have you tripping in the present or slowing down your progress toward the future. However, I have been blessed (cursed?) with a story that I can now use to help others, like Macgyver I took the remnants I was given and decided to make something out of it. I've shared bits and pieces of my story on here, my blog, when I volunteer at different shelters, excerpts from my book at reading clubs, at church etc. and the feedback has always been positive. I'm no journalism major and I'm no therapist or relationship guru, but my mind is constantly in motion and well I've got experience and I'm always willing to listen and ramble away.

I remember when I was so young and inexperienced and did not know that much about women, relationships and life itself. All I knew is that I thought I was in love and I wanted it to work so bad. Whether they were filling a void in my life, or I thought my worth was determined by the type of woman I had on my arm, or just the feelings of intimacy we shared.

I was so caught up and even in the end of the relationship. I felt like I could not go a day without my "fix" so to speak, and felt that my life was so much better with that person in it, even though we were clearly not really meant to be. I accepted demotion, breadcrumbs, disrespect, friendzoning all while putting on a brave face of non chalant as the thought of not being their match and the number one man in their life was like sticking knives in my back daily. My ego was chopped down like a cedar tree in the forest, daily thoughts would encumber around me that I was inadequate/not good enough and this led to me conjuring up different ways to elevate my status and desirability too show/increase my value.

This is no way to live! Now, thankfully I`m much more older and much more wiser. And over the years I have learned to value myself above anything else. You can say I have become very selfish, firstly with my time and secondly my life and who I allow into it. It`s easier said then done, but when you have encountered a few bad relationships in life you learn quite a few lessons.