Another thing is that here in America, a lot of dudes here are simply thirsty. That woman cooked and cleaned for him and remained fit, but a lot of American dudes would let their woman get fat and would accept a woman who didn't cook or clean. If you have low standards, you're going to get bad results PERIOD. You don't demand a woman step her game up, you're going to get one that's going to bring nothing to the table, but rather eat everything at the table and take leftovers when she leaves.