Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yep, when you handle your business and you KNOW you got something going on, it just exudes outward. You won't accept low quality from women. That's why you got to be righteous and why you have to handle business first. Your whole spirit just changes and women can pick up on it.
 

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Yep, when you handle your business and you KNOW you got something going on, it just exudes outward. You won't accept low quality from women. That's why you got to be righteous and why you have to handle business first. Your whole spirit just changes and women can pick up on it.

Yeah man I was just thinking about it today, that mentality that I am the prize. The funny thing is my brother in law just called me asking me about my first day as we don't really talk at work to not look like i'm being favoured. And he was like yeah everyone there has been there for years and its mostly old folks, because its a for life job ala the pay the benefits, the security, the pension. And here I am only 29 and I'm in.

I mean i had no problem attracting beautiful women in the past but none were christians, many had underlying issues, but because they looked good i was like :feedme:

those days are over now, every t got to be crossed and ever I dotted.
 

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Yeah man I was just thinking about it today, that mentality that I am the prize. The funny thing is my brother in law just called me asking me about my first day as we don't really talk at work to not look like i'm being favoured. And he was like yeah everyone there has been there for years and its mostly old folks, because its a for life job ala the pay the benefits, the security, the pension. And here I am only 29 and I'm in.

I mean i had no problem attracting beautiful women in the past but none were christians, many had underlying issues, but because they looked good i was like :feedme:

those days are over now, every t got to be crossed and ever I dotted.
who says only 29?
 

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A 30+ unmarried women has very high chance of having a questionable past and baggage. I believe the more men a woman has been with the less likely she is to be emotionally committed each subsequent one. When you have handed out little pieces of your heart over years to dozens of different men what is left for the husband you proclaim to truly love? What value do the words “I love you” mean when she has stared into the eyes of 10-100+ different men and said the same thing?

:wow:

shyt sounded poetic :ohlawd:
 

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Thanks breh :salute: shyt has been hectic but I feel I'm making amazing memories.
Fellas don't rush it. In 2014 I was in hibernation mode. Phone was dry as hell. Now my phone is constantly going off from one broad or another. shyt feels like college all over again.. the excitement of cleaning the bachelor pad while a chick is on her way is a great feeling of anticipation.
Once I get this new phone I'm screenshotting and maybe throwin some pics of these chicks :ohlawd:



I'm trynna get to where u at(story's like those)i'm not gonna lie tho. I would felt a certain way to. If a chick I was tryin to fukk with was feeling my boy more than me, not towards you but I would of been salty in general
 
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Just cant get over this hard truth ....

Men believe that love matters for the sake of it. Women love opportunistically.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #6
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.

In its simplicity this speaks volumes about about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.

Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.

-from the rational male website
 

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yeah i made a thread on here about it

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/she-...ep-with-strangers-what-could-go-wrong.301337/

crazy
modern marriage in a nutshell


and you never even know the age that it would happen.

broads working at a prison, married, still getting piped by convicts. She's a teacher, still getting piped by high schoolers... man it's crazy out here. This is why I keep saying don't put focus on women. You just don't know what will set them off and make your 'investment' completely nil.
 

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remember having this convo with my boy bout these females always calling me this

u can look at this post as insight and knowledge not necessarily to change ur game u should always stay true to urself but if u wanna better urself and this post helps then I'm happy it did



Friend Zone Killer

now for this everybody gets hit with that friend zone but what happens is most guys stay in it or try so hard not to be in it.
then there are a few who are like this friend zone killer I'm assuming @Emperor_ReinScarf is one of em also

see what happens if a female mistakenly, or flat tells me, or gives me the impression of this I'm ok with no problems i dont sweat it at all. i dont mind having a female friend and i treat them the same way i do with a female i just met with minor differences which for some god damn reason ( i do know why its just funny when they tell me this) it makes them change there mind or they cant handle begin my friend

they be calling asking for advice for relationships i give it too em no problems even in person i dont mind and i really seriously mean this i dont mind doing it cuz i dont mind being there friend cuz once u hit me this shyt all emotion or interest are gone PERIOD. granted there has been a rare exception there or 2.

but what fukks em up is this shyt when i dont be asking so what do u wanna know bout me and i hit em with the i dont wanna know nothing bout me u wanna tell me thats ur choice and ill listen but we aint like that for me to ask that cuz i dont have that kind of interest in u
also when i go na i got a date tonite and she be like what she look like i send a pic and if she looks better she butthurt and say i'll treat u better looks aren't everything
or if she doesnt look better she will say she cute but i look better and i'll go ya u do but look aren't everything to me line right back at them and she butthurt over that shyt

then finally it comes with the sorry i made a mistake i should of not put u in the friend zone I'm more interested in u than i thought and i be like i bet u are but I'm not so :camby:

all of this wasn't me playing games its how i am i really truly do not give a fukk about ur feelings if i think for 1 sec u playing games or just in general to be honest u have to earn that for me to give a fukk

u can call it being ass or a dikk or whatever but its just me being real and honest so i say to u breh's no matter what u look like or who u are just stay the course and be u

u dont have to be an ass but u can not give a fukk bout feelings to an extent and not show it and let it all out in a private place

nothing wrong being sensitive or a soft dude i :salute: fukk what peeps say u wear ur emotions on a sleeve i just advise to still be that way just control it better like a on and off switch and if u can do that u will deal with less heart break
 
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