Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

A 30+ unmarried women has very high chance of having a questionable past and baggage. I believe the more men a woman has been with the less likely she is to be emotionally committed each subsequent one. When you have handed out little pieces of your heart over years to dozens of different men what is left for the husband you proclaim to truly love? What value do the words “I love you” mean when she has stared into the eyes of 10-100+ different men and said the same thing?

 

[MikelArteta]

Stop intellectualizing and rationalizing and start doing. It's that simple. Something I see a lot of is guys talking about how women aren't doing this and that and how they're acting like this and that. The reality of the matter is because you are allowing them to act like that.

We really got to stop trying to convince and intellectualize with these women and tell them straight up what we want and tell them to walk if they're not down with it. Not down with the new-age, feminist type of woman who ain't holding her man down? Let her know straight up.

I noticed a lot of women talking about they're down to do the traditional things when I let them know what kind of dude I am.

Something you need to know with women and life in general is that there are things intellectualization and rationalization applies to and things that it doesn't. When you start overthinking simple stuff, you really end up messing things up. Overthinking with women is going to get you tore up and it's going to make you weak because you're going to look for the rational in the irrational.

What you have to do is keep it super simple and set STRONG boundaries that you don't back off from and communicate your mission directly and powerfully. Either she's with it or she ain't, and if she's not, she can keep it pushing. Enjoy your interactions with women, but never take them too seriously. The woman you take seriously is the one that is serious about you FIRST. She has to show an eagerness to want to see you win and to show a willingness to comply with your directives as a man.

A lot of dudes nowadays are simply scared of being men and laying some laws down because they'll get shamed by society or some such nonsense.

And behold, a woman comes to meet him, Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart. She is boisterous and rebellious, Her feet do not remain at home -proverbs 7:11

 

[The Mad Titan]

To all the fellas here if you have a legit good loyal women DONT screw it up for a fat booty pretty face or new wet wet. Good women this day and age are hard to find, there are plenty of "average women" and whores that swear up and down that are "good" women. But actually loyal good women...nope

 

[MikelArteta]

Preach

Preach

To all the fellas here if you have a legit good loyal women DONT screw it up for a fat booty pretty face or new wet wet. Good women this day and age are hard to find, there are plenty of "average women" and whores that swear up and down that are "good" women. But actually loyal good women...nope

 

[Youseenmywork]

A 30+ unmarried women has very high chance of having a questionable past and baggage. I believe the more men a woman has been with the less likely she is to be emotionally committed each subsequent one. When you have handed out little pieces of your heart over years to dozens of different men what is left for the husband you proclaim to truly love? What value do the words “I love you” mean when she has stared into the eyes of 10-100+ different men and said the same thing?

Cotdam

 

[kevm3]

And behold, a woman comes to meet him, Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart. She is boisterous and rebellious, Her feet do not remain at home -proverbs 7:11

The Bible has told us so much as to how to deal with women, and it has especially told us that we need to be MEN and be the head of the household, but we're in a generation now that doesn't want to be that and we're seeing the results.

 

[Bless't]

It's finally over today was the final day of work at my job of nearly a decade. It felt weird as the clock ticked down that a place I went to nearly every day for a large portion of my life will now just be a memory. Throughout everything in my life the good and all the trials and tribulations the two constant things in my life were my family and this job. As I Went from floor to floor saying bye to past managers, supervisors, and co-workers some which have become close friends I received hugs, well wishes and even a few cried. As I finally exited the building for the last time and headed to my car I sat in there for a few minutes, started my car and that was it, a chapter closed in my life. Life can change in a instant, everything I have been through up until this point was needed to propel me into my destiny. I started there as a boy and now I leave a man. Life starts now!!!



Right after that headed to my new job to get my photo for my badge. My new life begins monday. And I can't wait!

Hope your first day is going well Breh! It's always nice to hear someone be excited and happy for new experiences in life. Daps to you Scarf.

 

[Bless't]

Yep, when I was young, I thought I could use some powerful game to make a woman loyal, but in reality, it all comes down to her character. No matter what I do, if a woman wants to cheat, that's exactly what she's going to do.

One thing I would tell these youngn's is that if you find a quality woman, get her and get out of the game. A lot of these young dudes got the impressions that they're going to be whoring it up until their late 20s and then just 'settle down'. More than likely, it won't happen that way. You'll probably be whoring it up, but when it comes down to settling, you'll be left with a whole bunch of the 'leftover' women, aka women who have some trait that makes wifing them impossible. These are women that have been around the block and simply don't have it in them to be able to stick with one man. I think one thing these young dudes need to learn is to stop thinking that you have some super powerful game and instead focus on being a quality person and looking for a quality woman, which are getting less and less as the days go by.

I agree with this whole paragraph but particularly the bolded.

I also look at it from the perspective of what all that "whoring" around will do to someones viewpoint on what it is to be a good partner. If you constantly bounce from woman to woman for an extended period of time, that cant always be good for the development of ones personal ideas of what a monogamous relationship should consist of. Its not always the women that may develop" baggage and bad habits" when it comes to meeting someone of the opposite sex with the intentions of having a flourishing relationship. Just saying.

 

[Bless't]

Something I've learned is that most women you meet simply don't care for you like that. As soon as the emotional feelies are gone, they couldn't care less if you are living in a garbage can. In reality, it's not even you that she likes in most cases. It's the feeling she gets from being around you and as we all know, that feeling can disappear in an instant. A lot of women will like you simply because you are 'new', and that 'newness' provides an interesting emotional reaction to them, but the 'new smell' wears off quickly, and how this woman came in is the same way she will disappear. She came in based on a 'new emotional reaction'? She will likely disappear as soon as that feeling of newness disappears.

That'ss why, as they use the scientific term 'pair-bonding', is so important. When a woman messes with ton of dudes, her ability to connect deeply on an emotional level with any particular one lessens and lessens. Hence, once her emotional hooks for a man are no longer able to be deep, you can pretty much already predict that she'll be out the door sooner or later, or just keep you around for benefits.

What we have in this day and age is not women that are looking for a 'man to be with.' They are looking for biological drug hits. In other words, they are looking for men to induce that pleasure chemical in their brain, and as soon as they can't get that fix from you, they're gone. When you begin to learn that a lot of women you will meet this way, you won't trip when they simply disappear without reason. EXPECT most of them to disappear like that.

This is what I was trying to say in the post above. lol I must have missed this. Good shyt Kev.

 

[Ohene]

i've been in this thread less and less as time passes. We really shouldnt be bothered discussing these chicks like that.

They aint even worth the effort yall. Just do you

 

[Beerus]

Met chick through tinder been conversating for bout 2 weeks now
Tryna set a date to met up but i got work plus military training on weekends might have a break but thats 2 more weeks n i got a lil training alnost eeach tuesday night
Her she works as well cept fridays but i cant on fridays
So we set a date for tommrow early but i got my tuesday nights
Cool but she like to be near her place which is like an hour away from my house n like 40 min from my job
I could get to her place n shyt. Smashin not guaranteed since she goin to the hospital n her stomach might hurt

Im doing too much right? Like goin all the way there 70km n there back to my trainin its not like ima b there 4-5 hrs
Ima cancel i aint doing all this shyt like im giving/ doing all too much

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup I don't whorr around I'm always relationship minded. I don't even casually date.

I agree with this whole paragraph but particularly the bolded.

I also look at it from the perspective of what all that "whoring" around will do to someones viewpoint on what it is to be a good partner. If you constantly bounce from woman to woman for an extended period of time, that cant always be good for the development of ones personal ideas of what a monogamous relationship should consist of. Its not always the women that may develop" baggage and bad habits" when it comes to meeting someone of the opposite sex with the intentions of having a flourishing relationship. Just saying.

 

[MikelArteta]

The sad thing its not even women but men as well.

This is what I was trying to say in the post above. lol I must have missed this. Good shyt Kev.

 

[Bless't]

The sad thing its not even women but men as well.

Yup. Everyone should try and be as self aware as possible in life. It can only help with life's "situations".

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Remember the Blasian chick? I started hangin with her a lil more. bytch breaks necks everywhere she goes.
My homie thinks hes such a player cause he toured with Lil Wayne (through association) and the Blasians friend of 6 years is a plain freak
We tried to hook our friends up with each other so her friend invited me and my homie over but my Blasian had to work.

So we're drinkin wine at her place and I don't remember how but I ended up havin my hands in her pants feelin that wet Brazillian waxed p*ssy

EDIT: She was not feeling my homeboy at all.

I take her to her room and my homie starts cockblockin and yelling with ol girl to the point it started escalading.
We exchanged numbers and vowed that no one would find out. She texted me before I could even get home.

The next night I had her spend the night. Went through 2 rubbers and dropped her off moments before picking up the Blasian who stayed the night last night Blasians friend said she understands her place and we promised not to tell her.

So much more. Yall don't even know the half