Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

kevm3

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:snoop:I wish I could have a male mentor to help me out but they all end up
wanting to sex me lol :snoop:

Start the female asks sohh men for advice on dealing with men thread and we'll be in there.

I like the vibe here. Not too many cats on that, "Well I already know this. You should too" tip. Just everyone dropping knowledge.
 

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I'd like to hear ya'lls perspective on living with women. Ya'll letting a woman move in with you or not?
 

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I'd like to hear ya'lls perspective on living with women. Ya'll letting a woman move in with you or not?


DONT DO IT. Ive done it once for like 8 months. shyt almost ruined the relationship.

Had me wanting to :deadhorse: .


Once you start living with a chick, thats when they get too fukkin comfortable. And the onslaught of naggin, and bytchiness, and cattiness flows through.


Unless thats your wife(actual legal wife) you should never co-habit with a female.

I say try it once with a long-term girlfriend. To see how it is. But anything short of a girl you been in a relationship for like a year. Dont do that shyt. It will make ya break up. For suuuuure.
 

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DONT DO IT. Ive done it once for like 8 months. shyt almost ruined the relationship.

Had me wanting to :deadhorse: .


Once you start living with a chick, thats when they get too fukkin comfortable. And the onslaught of naggin, and bytchiness, and cattiness flows through.


Unless thats your wife(actual legal wife) you should never co-habit with a female.

I say try it once with a long-term girlfriend. To see how it is. But anything short of a girl you been in a relationship for like a year. Dont do that shyt. It will make ya break up. For suuuuure.

I have to agree with you on that. After a hard day's work, a man should be able to come home to his fortress and be able to relax without any other worries or concerns. Now what are your personal ways to counteract women that try to sneak in, such as leaving clothes over or transitioning, aka spending a night here and there and trying to parlay that night into a week, etc?
 

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I have to agree with you on that. After a hard day's work, a man should be able to come home to his fortress and be able to relax without any other worries or concerns. Now what are your personal ways to counteract women that try to sneak in, such as leaving clothes over or transitioning, aka spending a night here and there and trying to parlay that night into a week, etc?


I'll keep it funky. There is no way :to: , The whole sneak in process took her 5 months, I didnt even catch it :snoop:



You just gotta tell her that you need your space. And if she cant respect that, then her whole perspective is wack. Cause once they move in. Its almost impossible to get them out.
 

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Yessir, keep kicking that real. That's definitely true. Once they get settled in, it'll be a battle to get them out. It'll be offensive to her you're asking her to leave and all of a sudden it's just as much her place as yours even though your name is on the lease and you're paying the rent. Can't go soft in that situation.
 

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another thing, women fall easily, every girl I dated in my life even for a little bit told me they love me, women view love totally differently. I've only loved really two females my whole life.

Ask a woman the same question and you will see, these chicks will date a guy for a month and love him, don't think you are special etc when a chick tells you they love you.
 

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Yessir, keep kicking that real. That's definitely true. Once they get settled in, it'll be a battle to get them out. It'll be offensive to her you're asking her to leave and all of a sudden it's just as much her place as yours even though your name is on the lease and you're paying the rent. Can't go soft in that situation.




Yup in retrospect I would of nipped that shyt right in the bud. But at the time I was like "Hey It cant be thaaaat bad" :manny:


WRONG. :snoop:


Its funny its not even cause I dislike her or anything. But when you let someone....anyone come and live with you. You lose all your privacy, and me/tranquility time. I dont like anyone being around me too much. Wheter its male of female.


I cherish my peace and quiet hours :ahh:
 

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Wish somebody would have told me this. I'm living this now and its not pretty. My place doesn't even feel like my place and it did ruin the relationship.


My lady jus moved out like a month and a half ago. And the relationship is still on........ :flabbynsick: mode. We kinda recovering from it


I dont even like talking to her anymore man, that shyt took a SERIOUS toll on our dynamic. We working on it. But I honestly need my space from her. She doesnt understand that tho. I could go a complete month without talking to her and I'll be fine. She cant go 2 days without a 1 hour phone call.
 

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i feel like you can give nikkas as much game as possible but if they don't have the true confidence to interact with females then it would be useless...so here's my thing on true confidence

for all my nikkas lacking true confidence, don't try and imitate confidence by being intentionally cocky. true confidence is natural and is based off an understanding of why you should be confident. what are some reasons of why you should be a confident nikka that can pull bytches? cuz you are a fukking man. :obama: you carry life in your balls that you inject through your penis into a female. as the gawd patrice o'neal would say "you are the fukker and women are the fukkee." no matter how much women wanna play the position of being the "fukker", they have to sit down to urinate. :heh:

Patrice O'Neal - We're Better Than You - YouTube

And let the. Congregation say, AMEN. Bishop O'Neal delivered the word with such clarity. RIP
 

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I think a boy truly becomes a man when they realize that to their fathers (or stepfather etc), their mothers are just as ain't shyt as any other woman on earth. I been in a serious relationship for 5 years now, and about 2 years in I started to notice that the same bullshyt my girl does, my mother would do to my father. shyt blew my mind. :ohhh:
 
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