Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Here go a few more
1) Your game really isn't that incredible
A lot of cats get caught up thinking they have this unbelievable game instead of attributing things to what it really is. Women in this society are pretty easy. They are giving it out. Once you realize this, you will stop with all the gimmicks, routines and nonsense that comprise 'your game.' You think you look so fly with your $700 outfit on, but just last week she was all over the guy with the wifebeater and shorts that cost no more than $70. Now don't get me wrong, you will get better women by dressing better, but you got to realize you don't have to do half the stuff you do and pull out all of these fancy stops. Just get at a woman.
2) Your girl really IS like other women and it really isn't her first time doing this.
This goes right back into the point of allowing a woman to pump up your ego and thinking your game is incredible. You really think you just spit some grammy nominated game when she already knew she wanted to mess with you in the first place and she knew that about the last dude she messed with. Where this gets cats caught up is they be thinking they found this precious virgin who cooks and cleans and yet has somehow been overlooked by society. Naw mane, she likes to get it in like the rest, but she's playing a ROLE for you.
Also, what works with one woman will work with most. This is why I say most women are attracted to your TRAITS more than you. That's why oftentimes it's called 'the game.' The more you adhere to these unspoken rules, the more success you will have with women. You're not going to pull women because you have some unbelievable interests like white water rafting or hamster training. You pull women because you're confident, you don't let her jive you, you are well dressed and you know how to talk to the woman. Oh yeah, fame and success is up there... and very importantly, OTHER women like you.
3) Never sit around waiting up on a woman
Lingering around makes you look like you don't have a life and you are desperate and clingy. If you know how to eject from women, you will be in a much better position. You will be much better off if YOU are the one leaving first or cutting the conversation short. This goes into my next point.
4) Those who are well fed are no longer hungry
You spend too much time and effort on a woman and she is no longer hungry. She enters into a state of SATISFACTION aka COMPLACENCY. This means that you no longer are stimulating her. Everything with a woman is emotions. If you aren't stimulating her, you have become boring and she will seek that stimulation somewhere else. Now, on the other hand if you let her hear the sizzle, get a whiff of that freshness cooking on the skillet and only get a bite before you get out, you make her HUNGRIER. If you want to keep a woman going for you, you always have to keep her HUNGRY. When people are full and satisfied, they lay down and get lazy. When they are hungry, they put in effort, you feel me? Stop lingering around, eject early when you can, and never let her get 'full' on you. That's why you become her problem. She needs to have it on her mind what she can do to get more of you.
5) A lot of these women are natural liars, even to a pathological level. Stop believing with your ears and believe with your eyes.
Women will play a ROLE with you unless you come at her in a way to which she feels comfortable enough to let her real self come out to you. This is why you never get too specific when a woman asks, "What do you want in a woman." Tell her butt, "Well I would prefer a woman who can be honest and real with me and is comfortable enough to be her true self around me so I can know if we are really compatible." In that way you won't get the woman shifting on chameleon status to tell you what you want to hear.
Now all of this ties into the previous point of not letting her hold her vagina over your head. She's going to give that to whoever she wants. It doesn't matter what you do. If she wants to give that to Steve, she's going. So knowing this, you should always strive to be the guy that spends a reasonable amount of time with a woman, but never too much. A lot of you will come out thinking some nonsense of, "Well if I don't do this favor for her, she'll get at someone else. If I don't spend more time with her, she will spend that time with the next man. If I don't do this or that, the next man will." Naw mane, you do all these favors, tricks and so on for a woman and she will STILL go holla at the next man if that's what she feels like doing. In fact, you doing less of those things will make you have better success because you still are leaving her hungry... you haven't been obtained so she still has reason to chase. So with that said, stop worrying about how your actions will affect who she gives her sexuality to and instead focus on sharpening your adherence to proper principles.
1) Your game really isn't that incredible
A lot of cats get caught up thinking they have this unbelievable game instead of attributing things to what it really is. Women in this society are pretty easy. They are giving it out. Once you realize this, you will stop with all the gimmicks, routines and nonsense that comprise 'your game.' You think you look so fly with your $700 outfit on, but just last week she was all over the guy with the wifebeater and shorts that cost no more than $70. Now don't get me wrong, you will get better women by dressing better, but you got to realize you don't have to do half the stuff you do and pull out all of these fancy stops. Just get at a woman.
2) Your girl really IS like other women and it really isn't her first time doing this.
This goes right back into the point of allowing a woman to pump up your ego and thinking your game is incredible. You really think you just spit some grammy nominated game when she already knew she wanted to mess with you in the first place and she knew that about the last dude she messed with. Where this gets cats caught up is they be thinking they found this precious virgin who cooks and cleans and yet has somehow been overlooked by society. Naw mane, she likes to get it in like the rest, but she's playing a ROLE for you.
Also, what works with one woman will work with most. This is why I say most women are attracted to your TRAITS more than you. That's why oftentimes it's called 'the game.' The more you adhere to these unspoken rules, the more success you will have with women. You're not going to pull women because you have some unbelievable interests like white water rafting or hamster training. You pull women because you're confident, you don't let her jive you, you are well dressed and you know how to talk to the woman. Oh yeah, fame and success is up there... and very importantly, OTHER women like you.
3) Never sit around waiting up on a woman
Lingering around makes you look like you don't have a life and you are desperate and clingy. If you know how to eject from women, you will be in a much better position. You will be much better off if YOU are the one leaving first or cutting the conversation short. This goes into my next point.
4) Those who are well fed are no longer hungry
You spend too much time and effort on a woman and she is no longer hungry. She enters into a state of SATISFACTION aka COMPLACENCY. This means that you no longer are stimulating her. Everything with a woman is emotions. If you aren't stimulating her, you have become boring and she will seek that stimulation somewhere else. Now, on the other hand if you let her hear the sizzle, get a whiff of that freshness cooking on the skillet and only get a bite before you get out, you make her HUNGRIER. If you want to keep a woman going for you, you always have to keep her HUNGRY. When people are full and satisfied, they lay down and get lazy. When they are hungry, they put in effort, you feel me? Stop lingering around, eject early when you can, and never let her get 'full' on you. That's why you become her problem. She needs to have it on her mind what she can do to get more of you.
5) A lot of these women are natural liars, even to a pathological level. Stop believing with your ears and believe with your eyes.
Women will play a ROLE with you unless you come at her in a way to which she feels comfortable enough to let her real self come out to you. This is why you never get too specific when a woman asks, "What do you want in a woman." Tell her butt, "Well I would prefer a woman who can be honest and real with me and is comfortable enough to be her true self around me so I can know if we are really compatible." In that way you won't get the woman shifting on chameleon status to tell you what you want to hear.
Now all of this ties into the previous point of not letting her hold her vagina over your head. She's going to give that to whoever she wants. It doesn't matter what you do. If she wants to give that to Steve, she's going. So knowing this, you should always strive to be the guy that spends a reasonable amount of time with a woman, but never too much. A lot of you will come out thinking some nonsense of, "Well if I don't do this favor for her, she'll get at someone else. If I don't spend more time with her, she will spend that time with the next man. If I don't do this or that, the next man will." Naw mane, you do all these favors, tricks and so on for a woman and she will STILL go holla at the next man if that's what she feels like doing. In fact, you doing less of those things will make you have better success because you still are leaving her hungry... you haven't been obtained so she still has reason to chase. So with that said, stop worrying about how your actions will affect who she gives her sexuality to and instead focus on sharpening your adherence to proper principles.
Son Of God
Pro
Dating is just like marketing.You have to be able to know your desired audience (rich or poor,hood or classy...ect),and you have to be able to construct a marketing plan whereby you'll be able to capture their attention and keep them fixated.
Think about Apple.The reason why people first bought the Iphone was because it was able to distinguish itself from it's competitors by giving them something that no other phone had at that moment.
Variety!
Before the iphone,cellular phone companies weren't really serious about trying to revolutionize the phone industry.All they cared about was money.But after the Iphone came out,everyone and their moma was trying to come up with a plan to defeat Apple.
Now the reason why I say this is because I would like to invite you to look at yourself as a product.A product that is being marketed to a certain group of people (i.e Men).
As a product you have to be able to distinguish yourself from your competitors (i.e other women).
The only way you'll be able to do that is by adding different features to your resume....meaning learning and applying as much as you can to distinguish yourself from other people.
Both externally and internally as well.
Think of it like us men are shopping for a house that we can call our home,but as men we know that there are only four types of houses.
House #1:is the type of house that looks good on the outside but as soon as you get inside you realize how ugly it is.
House #2:is the type of house that also looks good on the outside,and maybe even look good on the inside as well.But as you start to explore the interior of this house some more, you quickly realize that it needs a whole lotta repairs.I mean the plumbing systems is messed up,there is mole on certain corners of the wall...I mean things that you won't naturally see at first glance until you spend time really exploring the house.
House #3::is the type of house that looks unattractive on the outside,but as soon as you get inside it's like..."WHOA!!!This house is beautiful!It just needs some repairs externally,but internally it's amazing!.
and finally there is
House #4::Now house number four is the type of house that is absolutely amazing on the outside,and naturally beautiful on the inside.This house is the most expensive house because much time and effort were placed into making it look like the way it does.Wanna know why?Because the owners of the house knew their targeted audience and decided to create a house that will actually appeal to them.
You are a house where a man will eventually decide to stay and call his home.And as a house you have to decide what type of person you want living with you,and be able to effectively market yourself to your desired person.
If you know you have a broken plumbing system,leaking roof and all of the other horrors that come with owning,and buying,a new home.Then no one will want to buy you(i.e.marry or settle down) because there is too much to fix.
Sooooo....what you have to do is be like apple and reinvent yourself.You have a resume that speaks volumes for you,and you have to continually be adding to that resume.
Make sure you read,watch,and learn as much as possible about sex.Get rid of that mentality of "I'll never do that" or "I'll never try that". Instead adopt a playful attitude of "I wonder what it would be like if I were to try this?".
By doing this you're showing your man that not only are you open minded,but very sexual as well.Long story short....
MAKE YOUR SEX GAME ON POINT!Learn every and anything there is to know about sex.
secondly,
Make sure that you have skills outside of the bedroom as well.Learn everything you can
cooking,sowing,knitting...ect.
The more skills you have under your belt the more distinguished you become as a woman and as an human being.
Now I'm not saying forget about you're academic life,schooling..ect.
What I'm saying is have a balance.A lot of women have great careers for themselves but when it comes to everything else outside of the business world.They lack that feminine finesse.
Be that type of woman that can put on a suite and tie and be professional,yet be able to put on an apron and get cooking.Basically being well versatile in both family and business life.
And last but not least....
stop worrying about the games that men play and focus your happiness.What makes you happy? What are some things you'd like to do or learn?If you knew no one would criticize you or make fun of you what type of things would you do?
Because as you focus on your happiness you'll come to the point where you completely understand when someone is taking advantage of you,and when you're being appreciated.
So I say all this to say:focus on your happiness while making yourself a better person and you'll eventually attract the right man.Cause a good man is always looking for a good woman.Trust me!
Son Of God
Pro
Always Surround Yourself With Women.
because......
Women attract women.
When other women see you hanging around, and laughing, with other women they naturally become curious,and want to know "who is this guy that has all these women laughing so much?".
And also, GUARD YOUR REPUTATION WITH YOUR LIFE!
When it comes to women your reputation matters so guard it with your life.Create the type of atmosphere where women will naturally want to hang and be around you. Because when they do they will speak good things about you.
Which brings me to another point:Women trust women.If a woman hears another woman saying good things about you they take it as a fact,and the majority of your work is already done.
If you ever go out to a party and your allowed to bring people...bring WOMEN!Because when you walk through that door you would have already differentiated yourself from the 90% of men that came with their homeboys,and therefore be looked at as the guy that walked in with the "bad b***hes on his arms".
Now because of that 85-90% of the women will feel somewhat comfortable talking with you because they feel
1.Safe: You must be safe because you came in with a bunch of girls,and women know that girls don't hang around bad guys so that must mean your cool to talk too.
2.Curious: Subconsciously they will be more curious about you because they wanna know what it is about you that have all these other women liking you so much.
3.Competitiveness: Women are always competing with each other.And women love taking men from other woman ,even if he's ugly,because it proves to them that they're still attractive.
And the better looking the women you hang around the more attractive you become.
Remember women respond to three things.
1.Looks
2.Social status
and
3.Lifestyle
Dominate any one of these areas and you'll be
like a king.
because......
Women attract women.
When other women see you hanging around, and laughing, with other women they naturally become curious,and want to know "who is this guy that has all these women laughing so much?".
And also, GUARD YOUR REPUTATION WITH YOUR LIFE!
When it comes to women your reputation matters so guard it with your life.Create the type of atmosphere where women will naturally want to hang and be around you. Because when they do they will speak good things about you.
Which brings me to another point:Women trust women.If a woman hears another woman saying good things about you they take it as a fact,and the majority of your work is already done.
If you ever go out to a party and your allowed to bring people...bring WOMEN!Because when you walk through that door you would have already differentiated yourself from the 90% of men that came with their homeboys,and therefore be looked at as the guy that walked in with the "bad b***hes on his arms".
Now because of that 85-90% of the women will feel somewhat comfortable talking with you because they feel
1.Safe: You must be safe because you came in with a bunch of girls,and women know that girls don't hang around bad guys so that must mean your cool to talk too.
2.Curious: Subconsciously they will be more curious about you because they wanna know what it is about you that have all these other women liking you so much.
3.Competitiveness: Women are always competing with each other.And women love taking men from other woman ,even if he's ugly,because it proves to them that they're still attractive.
And the better looking the women you hang around the more attractive you become.
Remember women respond to three things.
1.Looks
2.Social status
and
3.Lifestyle
Dominate any one of these areas and you'll be
like a king.
Women seldom sell what men want to buy, they get caught up in all the things they want or think men want, without ever asking him what he ACTUALLY wants...
Always Surround Yourself With Women.
because......
Women attract women.
When other women see you hanging around, and laughing, with other women they naturally become curious,and want to know "who is this guy that has all these women laughing so much?".
And also, GUARD YOUR REPUTATION WITH YOUR LIFE!
When it comes to women your reputation matters so guard it with your life.Create the type of atmosphere where women will naturally want to hang and be around you. Because when they do they will speak good things about you.
Which brings me to another point:Women trust women.If a woman hears another woman saying good things about you they take it as a fact,and the majority of your work is already done.
If you ever go out to a party and your allowed to bring people...bring WOMEN!Because when you walk through that door you would have already differentiated yourself from the 90% of men that came with their homeboys,and therefore be looked at as the guy that walked in with the "bad b***hes on his arms".
Now because of that 85-90% of the women will feel somewhat comfortable talking with you because they feel
1.Safe: You must be safe because you came in with a bunch of girls,and women know that girls don't hang around bad guys so that must mean your cool to talk too.
2.Curious: Subconsciously they will be more curious about you because they wanna know what it is about you that have all these other women liking you so much.
3.Competitiveness: Women are always competing with each other.And women love taking men from other woman ,even if he's ugly,because it proves to them that they're still attractive.
And the better looking the women you hang around the more attractive you become.
Remember women respond to three things.
1.Looks
2.Social status
and
3.Lifestyle
Dominate any one of these areas and you'll be
this goes for strip clubs as well...
MR. Conclusion
All Star
This is the absolute truth! A couple of summers ago no matter what my day consisted of, I made it a point to speak to 10 women a day. I was cold blooded. This was only for one month. I had to turn down broads, because the sheer number of responses was crazy! If you just dead all your concerns about rejection, what your saying, etc... and just focus on the charismatic parts of YOUR personality, as long as you holla enough times you
Pulling/ getting a female on your team is nothing but closing a sale.
And anybody that ever had a sale's job can tell you one thing, it aint what you selling its how you sell it!
I remember one time I had a salesman job selling this cheap ass product with alotta value. Yea they gave me the salesman booklet telling me the proper steps to get the sale but I was like "fukk them techniques, once I tell ppl the price its a done deal they aint turning this down".
nikka I didnt sell shyt that day.
The next day though I looked at the book, followed they steps and just stuck to the script. I started making a 100+ a day
My point is you neither have to lie nor be honest to obtain/maintain women.
Because the bottom line is its not a matter of fact or fiction, just tact and diction bruh
Technique>>>Logic
And anybody that ever had a sale's job can tell you one thing, it aint what you selling its how you sell it!
I remember one time I had a salesman job selling this cheap ass product with alotta value. Yea they gave me the salesman booklet telling me the proper steps to get the sale but I was like "fukk them techniques, once I tell ppl the price its a done deal they aint turning this down".
nikka I didnt sell shyt that day. The next day though I looked at the book, followed they steps and just stuck to the script. I started making a 100+ a day
My point is you neither have to lie nor be honest to obtain/maintain women.
Because the bottom line is its not a matter of fact or fiction, just tact and diction bruh
Technique>>>Logic
Yeah exactly. It ain't einstein and the class nerds that are pulling women. A lot of times it might be that dude that can barely construct a coherent English sentence, but he's out there getting at women. What you saying doesn't even have to make much sense. It's all in how you say it.
that's some powerful posting right there. Just picked up some game. But what to do when the chick calls over and over again? I had this situation happen to me, and the chick kept callin' until I picked up, and the first words out of her mouth were "Are you with another girl?" all loud and sh*t, with the other girl sitting right next to me 
let me share a story brehs
years ago i used to take the bus, every morning in the bus shed from like 620 to 640 it was just me and this other chick, this chick was a dime a strong 9/10, what y'all nikkas would call a pawg.
not a word was uttered brehs days went by, weeks went by i just got on with my morning, when this chick usd to get on the bus every male was peeping me i'd get on right after her sit down with my
anyways one day out of my peripheral vision i see this chick looking at me, looking like shes giving me a dirty look, like what is this ****** doing here every morning in the suburbs, i say nothing.
very next day out of nowhere im blasting my music in my ears loud as hell, this chick touches my hand and i look over and she's hey you want to sit?
im like nah im ok, then she gets to talking about the weather etc. im like coo and put my headphones back in.
very next day again she asks me to sit down this time with a smile on her face I do.. not saying thanks or anything and i get on with my day
from every day on no lie this chick is smiling at me every morning sitting beside me on the bus, telling me about her life, then one day she tells me how she finally got a car and today will be her last day taking the bus,
what did reincar do
a) ask for her number
b) give her my number
c) didn't care and just say coo
that's right i did, and guess what brehs this chick asked for my number, we ended up messing around for a little while we just lived two streets down from each other it turned out, the moral of the story is she was attracted to my nonchalant cocky not caring attitude she even told me, i was the first guy in a long time who didn't grovel at her feet and this chick was half italian half jewish brehs, she was a personal trainer who was in shape while im just a skinny 5'10 black man with a bald head
years ago i used to take the bus, every morning in the bus shed from like 620 to 640 it was just me and this other chick, this chick was a dime a strong 9/10, what y'all nikkas would call a pawg.
not a word was uttered brehs days went by, weeks went by i just got on with my morning, when this chick usd to get on the bus every male was peeping me i'd get on right after her sit down with my
anyways one day out of my peripheral vision i see this chick looking at me, looking like shes giving me a dirty look, like what is this ****** doing here every morning in the suburbs, i say nothing.
very next day out of nowhere im blasting my music in my ears loud as hell, this chick touches my hand and i look over and she's hey you want to sit?
im like nah im ok
, then she gets to talking about the weather etc. im like coo and put my headphones back in. very next day again she asks me to sit down this time with a smile on her face I do.. not saying thanks or anything and i get on with my day
from every day on no lie this chick is smiling at me every morning sitting beside me on the bus, telling me about her life, then one day she tells me how she finally got a car and today will be her last day taking the bus,
what did reincar do
a) ask for her number
b) give her my number
c) didn't care and just say coo
that's right i did, and guess what brehs this chick asked for my number, we ended up messing around for a little while we just lived two streets down from each other it turned out, the moral of the story is she was attracted to my nonchalant cocky not caring attitude she even told me, i was the first guy in a long time who didn't grovel at her feet and this chick was half italian half jewish brehs, she was a personal trainer who was in shape while im just a skinny 5'10 black man with a bald head
Always Surround Yourself With Women.
because......
Women attract women.
When other women see you hanging around, and laughing, with other women they naturally become curious,and want to know "who is this guy that has all these women laughing so much?".
And also, GUARD YOUR REPUTATION WITH YOUR LIFE!
When it comes to women your reputation matters so guard it with your life.Create the type of atmosphere where women will naturally want to hang and be around you. Because when they do they will speak good things about you.
Which brings me to another point:Women trust women.If a woman hears another woman saying good things about you they take it as a fact,and the majority of your work is already done.
If you ever go out to a party and your allowed to bring people...bring WOMEN!Because when you walk through that door you would have already differentiated yourself from the 90% of men that came with their homeboys,and therefore be looked at as the guy that walked in with the "bad b***hes on his arms".
Now because of that 85-90% of the women will feel somewhat comfortable talking with you because they feel
1.Safe: You must be safe because you came in with a bunch of girls,and women know that girls don't hang around bad guys so that must mean your cool to talk too.
2.Curious: Subconsciously they will be more curious about you because they wanna know what it is about you that have all these other women liking you so much.
3.Competitiveness: Women are always competing with each other.And women love taking men from other woman ,even if he's ugly,because it proves to them that they're still attractive.
And the better looking the women you hang around the more attractive you become.
Remember women respond to three things.
1.Looks
2.Social status
and
3.Lifestyle
Dominate any one of these areas and you'll be
looks mean nothing, im 5'10 skinny with a receeding hairline, and i've dated chicks who were models
social status - ive always been anti social and a homebody who never been to clubs or bars
lifestyle - im a friggin nerd, i drive a toyota corolla, and live in my parents house
maybe im just the exception