Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

women will also try to guilt trip you into doing something you don't want to do



such as

"can you drive me downtown i just need to pick up a few things":

and you'll be like i cant today i don't feel like it

"ok fine, ill get mike to"

a simp will be like nah that's ok ill take you

me ill be like see if mike can drop you to work tom morning as well

or insert taking the bus there instead of mike and then calling if you can pick her up cuz the weather is bad etc.

dont fall for those guilt trip breh

 

[BruhMayne]

women will also try to guilt trip you into doing something you don't want to do



such as

"can you drive me downtown i just need to pick up a few things":

and you'll be like i cant today i don't feel like it

"ok fine, ill get mike to"

a simp will be like nah that's ok ill take you

me ill be like see if mike can drop you to work tom morning as well

or insert taking the bus there instead of mike and then calling if you can pick her up cuz the weather is bad etc.

dont fall for those guilt trip breh

I've seen this too many times

And nikkas will cooperate cause they be scared to take that L. You can never be scared to take that L because if you are then she basically owns you

 

[kevm3]

Exactly, can't ever let her hold her vagina over your head. She's going to do with it whatever she wants. If she wanted to give that to Mike or Steve, she would have done so regardless of you giving in to whatever favor you do for her. I actually find the less favors I do for women, the better. A lot of these women are looking for free come-ups and you do the generous thing for them and they consider you some kind of sucker.

 

[2bitchesANDthaDoorLocked]

this all u need to know:

 

[Constellations]

I've long said the worst women are the ones who, think they know the mind of men....and hey some of them actually do b/c they've been played alot. But both are pretty much undateable at that point.

And also, something that's been said already, but I learned by accident of being shy for much of my life, is--don't pay them any attention. Especially the good looking ones. Ignore them as much as possible initially.

And while all the other thirsty dudes are running up on her getting shot down, ur playing it cool and making it seem like you dont give a flip one way or the other.

Then eventually she comes around. In college, I was messing with girls that the dudes on the OU bball and football team had been turned down by. They had no game b/c most women fall over them....not that I had game either, but I realized that me being kinda shy was really working as me ignoring.

Though sometimes this backfires and you end up like
Tank - Playin' it off - YouTube

i was listening to this song while i was reading this. strange coincidence

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8iXcEdIZQYI]Flight Facilities - Crave You ft. Giselle [OFFICIAL] - YouTube[/ame]

 

[Black Hans]

"He who loves least controls the relationship. If you want to control the relationship, don't fall in love with her so quickly! Don't toss the ball in their court, control the ball at all times. And you've got to be relentless -- you can't afford to be lazy"


"I see all these dumb guys arguing with their women. I don't argue with them. She can do whatever she wants and so can I. You see, if you argue with them then you're a p*ssy. It's my way or the highway. When you argue, you are telling her that you need her to act in a certain way or see something from your point of view in order for you to be happy. If you love someone set them free."


"I don't fight over p*ssy with other men. If you need her that bad, you can have her. And the fact that you are so desperate for her means that she will eventually get rid of you anyway. If you catch your girlfriend in bed with another guy, why should you be pissed at him? She probably lied to him anyway. But our male egos, which are nothing more than a distorted illusion that we carry around in our heads, makes us angry and makes us want to beat up the guy. If you ever catch your girlfriend or wife in bed with another guy, do yourself a favor and keep your cool. Have the confidence to say, "I hope you two will be happy together" and just walk away. Go to the next girl. While you guys are busy beating each other up, I'll be fukking them."

"Men who are not needy establish strict boundaries because they value their own time and happiness more than receiving the attention from a woman."

"The percentage of women who are Receptive to you will increase proportionally to the quality of your lifestyle, your social status and your looks."

"anybody who’s actually struggling, lemme give you the game from someone who went from 0 to 100 with it. JUST STOP CARING. dont care about the results or how a joke went wrong or how bad you choked. when i told myself ” i gotta bag 5 numbers 2nite no matter what or how bad she looks”, progress was automatic. built the confidence up from the scrub chicks to approaching packs of bad bixxhs in a group and then picking who i wanted. its all a sales pitch like dude said above and when u can pitch it to anyone without hesitation, youre good. if they reject, just get the fck outta there. no need for these creative lines. “oh ok. well nice meeting you.” and then ghost. keep it pimpin"

“Tell the beautiful girls they’re smart and tell the smart girls that they’re beautiful.”

Son of God dropping threads of manna from the sky.

 

[Prez2032]

Yes sir
I speak from experience as well I've made every mistake in the book.

Also would like to add don't think your girl is not like that or can never be, even the sweetest fruit can turn sour and bitter.

I've been there for chicks when no one else were, nor their parents no one, put my good name on the line only to be spit out and stomped upon, anything with teeth can bite remember that.

No matter how you treat a chick she may cheat on you, use you, leave you, string you along.

I posted this in another thread

you can save a man from a burning building and he will feel loyalty towards you for the rest of his life. No matter if this was your sworn enemy at one point, s because men have senses of honor and integrity whereas women are utterly bereft and incapable of developing these.

you can save a chick with two kids from a abusive relationship the first guy to ever treat her like a human being, and she will still cheat and leave you for her deadbeat baby dad who assaulted her

CHUCH!!!!!PREACH!!!!!TABERNACLE!!!!!!

 

[winb83]

chase the ideal woman not the individual woman. if any given woman fails to match the ideal you hold then feel free to drop her and continue your pursuit of the ideal

probably the most important rule of dealing with women is David Deangelo's attraction is not a choice. if a woman doesn't feel attraction to you at a gut level then there is nothing you can do about it. you can't logically convince her to feel it.

if you ever mess up with any woman drop her and move on. you can't go back and change or fix anything. its easier to start fresh and brand new.

 

[KiiLove]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

show yourself as decent quality chick that one in a million type broad, stand firm on your morals and values.

Like for me for example, i sit back and watch and do reserach, i'll add a chick on fb and go back through all her postings just looking for red flags for me to put her in the friend zone or chop up.

If a chick is classy, educated, looks good, in shape, shows traits of honesty , virtuous, sets boundaries all positive qualities that will draw a good man near to you.

Chicks always ask that question how can i tell, yet they sleep with a guy on the first few dates and he doesn't call back and then cry about it later. Patience young padawan

 

[winb83]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

most of "the code" is developed in a response to women's behavior and their games so how is a man really supposed to know the same thing?

 

[Yah Momma Ain't Shit]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

be honest and true to yourself and your man

 

[kevm3]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

Take your time and really get to know a man before you engage in sexual relations with him. Hold yourself as a quality female and seek a MORAL man before you really start looking at anything else. Is he consistent with his word? Does he have a playa vibe?

Another key component is how YOU come off. Are you playing games? Waiting forever to text him back? Just disappearing when you want him to 'get the hint' that you want time alone or are you being straight up? You can't change a man, but a lot of the behavior you get in return will be based upon your own actions. Respect yourself and act respectable towards him and you are going to get much better treatment. Also, determine a man's morals before you do anything else.

 

[Rominati]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

Keep it real as a woman, and a man will keep it real as man.


As guys we only run game on bytches who play games.


Text accordingly, express your feelings, dont hold back, and a man will view you as a serious chick. And all the "game" will be thrown in the bushes.

 

[RickyGQ]

Man I wish when I was in junior high,and high school somebody would've sat me down and taught me all this stuff.Majority of stuff I learned was through my own experience,or people telling me.And simple minded me believing them until I try it and realizes it doesn't work.

So if I could help another young brotha coming up avoid a whole lotta mistakes and bad experiences,I will.

You know what, sometimes I think you can only learn through experience. While my pops wasn't the greatest teacher in the world, in his own way he taught me a lot of this shyt, but in my arrogant youth, I thought my girl would be different. Now I'm thinking back like "oh shyt, that's what that nikka meant?"