It's a waste of time for real. Women want a dude to give them problems. They'll tell you they want some nice, sweet faithful guy when their last 4 or 5 boyfriends were the SAME drama types. She always posts on facebook she wants a man of God, but everytime you see her kicking it, it's with the block bully.
I'll tell you a secret. You'll get more loyalty when your girl is arguing and fighting with you on occasion than you will if everything is smooth and there are no problems. Women like to be emotionally wrapped up in some form of drama. Peace and perfection are way too boring for them. LOOK WHAT HAPPENED IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN. We had peace and perfection there, but she got bored and had to go off listening to that snake.. You feel me mane? That's why it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver. It's also why you don't worry about what a woman thinks, because you try to give into her supposed 'wants' and you'll be even more confused than her. You end up satisfying all of her needs and doing whatever it takes to put a smile on her face everyday and she'll leave you for being too boring and too appeasing. You spend a lot of time with her and you are 'too clingy and need to give her space.' You don't spend a whole lot of time with her and you are too distant and aren't showing her enough affection. In other words, no matter what you do, she was a way to find you in the wrong to justify her complaining or her talking to some other guy, etc. This is why you never focus on pleasing a woman, but instead operate on principle whether she likes it or not.
One art a woman has perfected is the art of victimhood. Once you figure this out, you will have a way deeper understanding of female psychology. Women have been taught at an early age to manipulate men by manipulating her dad through crying and looking sad. She won't try that with momma, because momma knows what's up and will tell her to dry those tears up and get out of there. Daddy, on the other hand, will say hey princess, what's wrong? How can I make those tears go away? She learns at an early age that by playing the victim to a man she can get her way.
Think of a situation in which a woman with a man decides to cheat. To the other man, her boyfriend is the dirtiest scumbag ever, but somehow she never got around to leaving. One day you end up meeting the fella, and you might say man this dude ain't nothing like what she described... He looks like one of those nice guys that is just heads over heels in love with his woman. If she gets caught cheating with you, all of a sudden you were the slick seducer that made her do it against her will. We can go on and on with countless more examples. If you want a recent example, just look at the whole SOHH fiasco. It wasn't SOHH and felicia's fault for ignoring the requests of users. It was Buzznet's who she decided to make a deal with. It wasn't her problem to fix, but it was the users that needed to email buzznet.
You will save yourself a LOT of time and effort if you understand the victim mentality of a female and learn to cut it short. Just tell them to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to handle that... Otherwise YOU'LL be the one feeling down when she wraps you in a blanket of negativity as she offloads constant complaints in your ear in the form of non-stop vent sessions. You will save yourself undue manipulation.