Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EA]

yea man you did the right thing. the bolded though is the most important. thats they way we should all be thinking about our futures with these women.
i had to make a hard decision recently that im still struggling with but it was the best choice to make.

It's so tough. Especially when you know that deep down, you actually love your girl.

 

[Turbulent]

I told her that it's not happening and then she said "If you can't give me what I want, why are you with me?" Obviously, I took offence to this so I stopped talking to her for a few days and now she's upset with me because I'm not talking to her

I think she's going through something and she's thinking of having babies as a way to fill a void. Should I be the sympathetic shoulder to lean on and let her pour her soul out to me like she usually does? Or should I continue to keep my distance until this blows over?

your girl basically told you "if you don't do as i say, i don't need you". Heck, even if you end up working it out, who's to say she won't try to get pregnant by you? your girl doesn't care about what you want breh.

 

[George Gooney]

@Mr Hate Coffee @kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar @360dagod @phillmonroe


Thanks for y'all opinions and advice brehs... Let me just say that at this moment any of y'all could be right or wrong. I just started talking to her on a conversation only type level so I don't know much about her yet but I can definitely see myself romancing her. I just gotta give her a chance but stay on guard like y'all said. The thing about older women is that I like how they have more morals than my generation(which seems to just get worse and worse as time goes by) and more traditional family values(Not a club hopper or nothing crazy it seems). And speaking pure aesthetically she is the prototype for what I look for in a sistah(Brown skin, Full lips, Cute button nose and beautiful brown eyes. She stays in the gym and she doesn't look her age at all.
And for the brehs who say stuff like older women want kids as soon as possible, to a righteous brother like me that's not really a problem. I'd like to have a kid in the not so distant future so if shorty proved she was about that motherhood life and we got to that level I'd be down with it. I don't care about being out there and sleeping with a whole bunch of women before settling down anyway( A nikka been celibate for a few years now haha). I wanna be young enough to play with my kids.

 

[360dagod]

@Mr Hate Coffee @kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar @360dagod @phillmonroe


Thanks for y'all opinions and advice brehs... Let me just say that at this moment any of y'all could be right or wrong. I just started talking to her on a conversation only type level so I don't know much about her yet but I can definitely see myself romancing her. I just gotta give her a chance but stay on guard like y'all said. The thing about older women is that I like how they have more morals than my generation(which seems to just get worse and worse as time goes by) and more traditional family values(Not a club hopper or nothing crazy it seems). And speaking pure aesthetically she is the prototype for what I look for in a sistah(Brown skin, Full lips, Cute button nose and beautiful brown eyes. She stays in the gym and she doesn't look her age at all.
And for the brehs who say stuff like older women want kids as soon as possible, to a righteous brother like me that's not really a problem. I'd like to have a kid in the not so distant future so if shorty proved she was about that motherhood life and we got to that level I'd be down with it. I don't care about being out there and sleeping with a whole bunch of women before settling down anyway( A nikka been celibate for a few years now haha). I wanna be young enough to play with my kids.

Her ASAP and your ASAP can be two different things....

I do wish you the best though

 

[George Gooney]

Her ASAP and your ASAP can be two different things....

I do wish you the best though

I mean as long as she gives me 3-4 years prep time i'd be with it lol. Thanx breh

 

[EA]

I mean as long as she gives me 3-4 years prep time i'd be with it lol. Thanx breh

Don't bank on it. I'm going through that problem right now and I thought I was getting 3-5 years prep and my girl just woke up one morning and decided that she wants a kid within the next 18 months.

 

[MikelArteta]

man you never know when you may find a broad.

Today I didn't feel like going to church last minute i just went, didn't shave, just wore my glasses, didn't even dress up, anyways I attend a small church rarely any visitors.

But today this girl was so fine, you never know brehs

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

@Mr Hate Coffee @kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar @360dagod @phillmonroe


Thanks for y'all opinions and advice brehs... Let me just say that at this moment any of y'all could be right or wrong. I just started talking to her on a conversation only type level so I don't know much about her yet but I can definitely see myself romancing her. I just gotta give her a chance but stay on guard like y'all said. The thing about older women is that I like how they have more morals than my generation(which seems to just get worse and worse as time goes by) and more traditional family values(Not a club hopper or nothing crazy it seems). And speaking pure aesthetically she is the prototype for what I look for in a sistah(Brown skin, Full lips, Cute button nose and beautiful brown eyes. She stays in the gym and she doesn't look her age at all.
And for the brehs who say stuff like older women want kids as soon as possible, to a righteous brother like me that's not really a problem. I'd like to have a kid in the not so distant future so if shorty proved she was about that motherhood life and we got to that level I'd be down with it. I don't care about being out there and sleeping with a whole bunch of women before settling down anyway( A nikka been celibate for a few years now haha). I wanna be young enough to play with my kids.

This is so cute! I'm a homebody too, so I'm looking forward to the marriage life.

 

[George Gooney]

man you never know when you may find a broad.

Today I didn't feel like going to church last minute i just went, didn't shave, just wore my glasses, didn't even dress up, anyways I attend a small church rarely any visitors.

But today this girl was so fine, you never know brehs

Did you introduce yourself breh? Was she black or cac?

 

[Droopy]

I really don't want a relationship right now, but i want some new female company......
i'm puzzled.

 

[T-K-G]

I really don't want a relationship right now, but i want some new female company......
i'm puzzled.

then go talk to females nikka you dont have to wife up every girl you meet

 

[MikelArteta]

Did you introduce yourself breh? Was she black or cac?

latina
yeah I did


hope she comes back

 

[George Gooney]

latina
yeah I did


hope she comes back

sounds like she left quite the mark.

 

[George Gooney]

This is so cute! I'm a homebody too, so I'm looking forward to the marriage life.

One of my main goals in life is to start a family.

 

[Soundbwoy]

man you never know when you may find a broad.

Today I didn't feel like going to church last minute i just went, didn't shave, just wore my glasses, didn't even dress up, anyways I attend a small church rarely any visitors.

But today this girl was so fine, you never know brehs

well damn