Rocket Scientist
Superstar
i do too one of em grilled me so i said i sell shoes at shoe store and my name is al whats yours
hilarious,she laughed?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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hilarious,she laughed?Rocket Scientist
Superstar
no she didn't even catch on too be honest
Scotch Hall
All Star
and the bytch laugheddidn't she burn down dude house for cheating? And after that they still were together for a minute
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
my go to answers when asked what i do are either " i sell doors, door to door....
" or "i am a pirate "
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
i do too one of em grilled me so i said i sell shoes at shoe store and my name is al whats yours
my go to answers when asked what i do are either " i sell doors, door to door....
" or "i am a pirate "
One of the biggest things to learn when dealing with women is that it's all about what YOU WILL ACCEPT. The reason men have so many problems with women is because they accept a woman that brings problems into their realm. I will reiterate... a woman's morals, how a woman treats you and the extent of her actually listening to you is way more important than her having a fat butt... but you won't hear that from the average coochie hound. They will tell you something like you better go after her no matter what as along as she is fine. Is it any real surprise that women can act any way in the presence of men when they have so many willing suitors who allow these women in their presence regardless of how the woman acts?
Something else that is important as a man is to know what you want in a woman. Most men just feel that being in the company of a woman is enough, but have no kind of standard for her to live up to. You have to have a clear idea of what you will and will not accept when a woman enters into your circle... In a way, women are clay and want to be molded by their man, but they will only allow that to happen by a man with hands strong enough. This is why your pattern of a man should be Godly and strong. The woman that is with you should be a reflection of you, but so many women are confused because the man is confused. A confused teacher will not produce thoughtful students, but will produce students who are as he is.
This is why it is critically important to study lessons of manhood. When I said you have to be a man, I didn't mean that lame definiton of a man where women define what you are or some simped out 'white knight'... The problem with America is that feminine has become so pervasive that men don't even have a real model of manhood to emulate. You turn onto television and you see all these goofballs getting disrespected by their wives. You look around the mall and see all these men walking behind their women as if they were little children. You turn on RnB cds and hear men whining and crying and begging women. Rap is turning into the same thing. There is no model of manhood anymore and the distinction between what men do and what women do is being lost, but deep down, mostly everyone can feel something is wrong.
I will begin going into these lessons soon.
Something else that is important as a man is to know what you want in a woman. Most men just feel that being in the company of a woman is enough, but have no kind of standard for her to live up to. You have to have a clear idea of what you will and will not accept when a woman enters into your circle... In a way, women are clay and want to be molded by their man, but they will only allow that to happen by a man with hands strong enough. This is why your pattern of a man should be Godly and strong. The woman that is with you should be a reflection of you, but so many women are confused because the man is confused. A confused teacher will not produce thoughtful students, but will produce students who are as he is.
This is why it is critically important to study lessons of manhood. When I said you have to be a man, I didn't mean that lame definiton of a man where women define what you are or some simped out 'white knight'... The problem with America is that feminine has become so pervasive that men don't even have a real model of manhood to emulate. You turn onto television and you see all these goofballs getting disrespected by their wives. You look around the mall and see all these men walking behind their women as if they were little children. You turn on RnB cds and hear men whining and crying and begging women. Rap is turning into the same thing. There is no model of manhood anymore and the distinction between what men do and what women do is being lost, but deep down, mostly everyone can feel something is wrong.
I will begin going into these lessons soon.
Power of solemnity
One of the critical factors you will need as a man is the ability to be taken seriously. Women do not respect so many men because many men come off as jokesters and pranksters. They are always smiling, laughing and backing down from their original opinion, which shows a complete lack of principles and direction in life. If you are true and committed about something, you don't back down from it. This is something that isn't often taught to the young men-- to have principles and to avoid backing down from them. Instead, we are taught 'group-think' and to mold our character to the thought processes of 'the group' so that we don't cause dissension. In other words, we are taught to become worker bees who get orders from a queen bee we don't ever see. This is why so many men are no longer self-directed and have no real opinion about anything.
All of this ties into leadership. If someone cannot take you serious, they will not follow you and will reject your leadership. A lot of men these days have very 'boyish' natures because they have not been taught lessons of manhood. In many tribal societies, you did not become respected as a man until you passed a rite of manhood. In other words, there was certain knowledge you had to had and certain tests you had to overcome in order to become a man. The idea of a man has been eliminated from today's society, and it's even gone so far as to turn men very feminine. The Bible instructs us to put childish things away as we become men...
1 Corinthians 13:11
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
The reason so many men wield little power is because they refuse to accept the mantle of being a man. Remember that the words that come out of your mouth have meaning. People watch what you say and you do. If you act like a child, your leadership will be treated as a child and often ignored. Here is one of the problems with leadership with a lot of men today. When a woman submits to you, a lot of men look at it as something to joke around with. They will tell a woman to do stupid things and make her look stupid in the process. This woman gets burned by following what she thought was male leadership, so the next time it is suggested to her, she rebels against it. On the other hand, if you tell a woman how to do something, and it works and in a positive fashion, her trust in you gets reinforced because she sees that there is a level of power and realism in your words. When you have a woman who accepts your leadership, do not lead her astray, for having someone who trusts in you is rare and very valuable.
Now let me go back to the point of the power of your acceptance. Do not accept a woman into your life who does not respect your leadership. What sense does that make? That is like Harvard accepting a student who makes it a mission of breaking all of the rules and not doing any of the work. If Harvard allowed several students like that, it would break the prestige of Harvard and it would no longer be a university anyone would want to attend because no one would take it seriously. It is the same thing as a man. If you are a man that women can constantly enter your presence, disrespect you and not listen, you begin to garner a reputation as a weak man and one not worthy of listening to. On the other hand, if you keep your company rare and your leadership powerful and mutually beneficial, it creates a situation where a woman WILL want to listen to you.
One of the critical factors you will need as a man is the ability to be taken seriously. Women do not respect so many men because many men come off as jokesters and pranksters. They are always smiling, laughing and backing down from their original opinion, which shows a complete lack of principles and direction in life. If you are true and committed about something, you don't back down from it. This is something that isn't often taught to the young men-- to have principles and to avoid backing down from them. Instead, we are taught 'group-think' and to mold our character to the thought processes of 'the group' so that we don't cause dissension. In other words, we are taught to become worker bees who get orders from a queen bee we don't ever see. This is why so many men are no longer self-directed and have no real opinion about anything.
All of this ties into leadership. If someone cannot take you serious, they will not follow you and will reject your leadership. A lot of men these days have very 'boyish' natures because they have not been taught lessons of manhood. In many tribal societies, you did not become respected as a man until you passed a rite of manhood. In other words, there was certain knowledge you had to had and certain tests you had to overcome in order to become a man. The idea of a man has been eliminated from today's society, and it's even gone so far as to turn men very feminine. The Bible instructs us to put childish things away as we become men...
1 Corinthians 13:11
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
The reason so many men wield little power is because they refuse to accept the mantle of being a man. Remember that the words that come out of your mouth have meaning. People watch what you say and you do. If you act like a child, your leadership will be treated as a child and often ignored. Here is one of the problems with leadership with a lot of men today. When a woman submits to you, a lot of men look at it as something to joke around with. They will tell a woman to do stupid things and make her look stupid in the process. This woman gets burned by following what she thought was male leadership, so the next time it is suggested to her, she rebels against it. On the other hand, if you tell a woman how to do something, and it works and in a positive fashion, her trust in you gets reinforced because she sees that there is a level of power and realism in your words. When you have a woman who accepts your leadership, do not lead her astray, for having someone who trusts in you is rare and very valuable.
Now let me go back to the point of the power of your acceptance. Do not accept a woman into your life who does not respect your leadership. What sense does that make? That is like Harvard accepting a student who makes it a mission of breaking all of the rules and not doing any of the work. If Harvard allowed several students like that, it would break the prestige of Harvard and it would no longer be a university anyone would want to attend because no one would take it seriously. It is the same thing as a man. If you are a man that women can constantly enter your presence, disrespect you and not listen, you begin to garner a reputation as a weak man and one not worthy of listening to. On the other hand, if you keep your company rare and your leadership powerful and mutually beneficial, it creates a situation where a woman WILL want to listen to you.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
She did you a favour. Who'd want a woman like that anyway? The brotha who is a plumber or a boiler repairer is better off than the one working in a plush office with a fancy title, because whenever bad economic times like the one we've been in the past few years hits, who is more likely to still have work and ride a recession.....They say men feel "threatened" by a woman who earns more than them. No, we just despise women who are as shallow as the chick mentioned in your post.
I've yet to hear anyone speak on this yet, but one of the characters in The Wire who baffled me is Cedric Daniel's shallow ass wife. If memory serves me correctly, didn't their marriage dissolve mainly because she felt he wasn't being "ambitious" enough? Like
?? He was already in a high ranking position as a Lt, they had a nice big house, I don't remember them having any financial concerns....so wtf was she talking about? Never mind who Cedric was as a person and as a husband, it's all about where she felt he should be in his career? What if he had a near fatal accident and couldn't work again, what then? Whatever happened to for better or for worse? She was mechanical and cold and didn't have any humanistic qualities about her.I'd never want to be in a relationship that is based on our careers, that shyt should be left as soon as you walk in the door. It's true what they say about a lot of women who can't be submissive or resent any kind of leadership, because they take their work attitudes home with them instead of remembering their roles. Funny how men very rarely have this problem.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Whats funny is I met women who didnt have the best quote on quote job yet they were loyal and wifeable.I dated women who had their doctorate and they were selfish,stuck up,rude.I recently met a woman the other day,she was gorgeous but I paid no attention to that,I said nice car and kept it moving.She then says "Yea law school got me that" and im like oh. women will throw a degree and a job out there.Like 1 poster said they probably had to step on somebody or do something along the way to get their status.Best believe higher the status the higher the debt.So if one of these simps do wife them up,there stuck paying off an astronomical student loan bill
Yeah and there's no way I'm paying off anyone debts. It's funny how they throw out all their degrees and qualifications like I'm supposed to give a shyt.
OK, so you did this and that at law school or wherever you studied. OK, outside of your job, wtf is that supposed to mean to me? Like, seriously? If the whole world system were to collapse tomorrow and food supplies and other necessities are scarce, are your degrees going to help us survive and fight together as a couple?
I mean....
UserNameless
Veteran
and
Powerful, prolific posting.
And the underlined works on so many levels. In the workplace, in platonic relationships, and romantic relationships. The trust is rare...and can often be abused because that trust can lead to the opportunity for sex, but guys really have to assess that situation and determine whether it would be fruitful. It's usually not fruitful, unless you're willing to go the distance as a long-term companion. Because once you open the door applying the principles in a male/female relationship you've stated, the level is so much deeper. So one has to be careful about physical intimacy.
RealAssanova
Ethnic Vagitarian
any women that does that automatically de-values herself in my eyes and I'll purposely lie to her or ask her why it's important seein as how we just started talking.
like...da fuk? da first question?
Shyt turns me da fuk off.
any women that does that automatically de-values herself in my eyes and I'll purposely lie to her or ask her why it's important seein as how we just started talking.
like...da fuk? da first question?
Shyt turns me da fuk off.
if you got a nice ass car u could do this a friend of mine' did
be like i work at mcdonald's then she see's u leave in a nice ass car saying i thought u worked only at mcdonald's and be like no i run my own business i work at mcdonald's in my spare time too help out and then she says oh my mistake so what u doing tonite
he goes not you and drive's off
RealAssanova
Ethnic Vagitarian
i rate him and no doubt i'd do summin like that.
Only thing i wud've done differently is i wudn't have even bothered replying or acknowledging her existence at all.
The minute a question like that is asked, shorty is in da bin and ain't NEVER comin out. So why would i deal with trash?
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Yeah and there's no way I'm paying off anyone debts. It's funny how they throw out all their degrees and qualifications like I'm supposed to give a shyt.
OK, so you did this and that at law school or wherever you studied. OK, outside of your job, wtf is that supposed to mean to me? Like, seriously? If the whole world system were to collapse tomorrow and food supplies and other necessities are scarce, are your degrees going to help us survive and fight together as a couple?
I mean....
Dawg and this is what I run into
when a woman ask me where I went to school at?She will almost 95% of time throw out "Im going for my Masters,Doctorate,Certificate". Women want to compete so bad Reason they are like this because they run home and tell their parents about their man's job.Its crazy how many wome nare over 30-35 and single and its not because there "busy" with their job,its because there is an issue somewhere.