Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Intimacy is like a drug for women. When you give them a lot and cut off the supply when they're acting up, you can shift the deficiency to your advantage as they fiend for that emotional fix of love, friend.

dont remind me especially if they have a high ass sex drive :smh:
 

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:lawd:Man, so many of these women have the "wifeable checklist" committed to memory - decent job, car, place, but that can be a big distraction away from their true self. Being decent by themselves isn't an indicator that they can be a good partner. For all you know, she got all that by stepping on others. I don't judge by that kind of thing (although I reasonable expect any woman I deal with to be employed). Judge by what they can do to enhance your campaign, which in turn enhances them.

Whats funny is I met women who didnt have the best quote on quote job yet they were loyal and wifeable.I dated women who had their doctorate and they were selfish,stuck up,rude.I recently met a woman the other day,she was gorgeous but I paid no attention to that,I said nice car and kept it moving.She then says "Yea law school got me that" and im like oh :beli:. women will throw a degree and a job out there.Like 1 poster said they probably had to step on somebody or do something along the way to get their status.Best believe higher the status the higher the debt.So if one of these simps do wife them up,there stuck paying off an astronomical student loan bill :heh:
 

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c/s too the fullest. I'm more or less same way as you when looking for a partner. sure i wouldn't mind a sexy looking partner but give me a average looking chick with those qualities and I'm :noah:

a dime piece missing that aint shyt and is a damn headache too deal with i been thru it too many times

which why looks is not the biggest priority too me. people can say what they want too me bout while they unhappy with that trophy wife i be :ahh: with my average looking one which in return makes her even more attractive in my eyes

cuz that average female with those qualities starts too look even better cuz she held you down and respect you and stayed loyal too you


as the bible says
beauty is fleeting, looks are the first thing to go for a woman, and as the old saying go show me a beautiful woman and ill show you a dude who is tired of smashing her
 

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I've never understood why a lot of women talk about their education and credentials as to the reasons why they'd make a good partner. That's never made any sense to me.

That's like me saying being certified as an server/storage engineer makes me a good person. Apart from finances, WTF does that have to do with relationships and building a family???

See women love status bruh.I been with women who flat out ask me what do you do?I kid you not...I understand its important but one of the first ?'s your asked and is judged on is your job.Women wanna know what you do so they can brag to their friends or put you in a category.The next woman you meet say that you work at a fast food joint and watch her facial reactions...(but play it off as a joke). Now tell that woman your an engineer and watch how quick she becomes interested in your convo.
 

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See women love status bruh.I been with women who flat out ask me what do you do?I kid you not...I understand its important but one of the first ?'s your asked and is judged on is your job.Women wanna know what you do so they can brag to their friends or put you in a category.The next woman you meet say that you work at a fast food joint and watch her facial reactions...(but play it off as a joke). Now tell that woman your an engineer and watch how quick she becomes interested in your convo.

It's funny, cos depending on the kind of vibe or attitude I get from a woman, that's what I've always thought of doing. Or randomly pointing at an old car and saying, that's what I drive and see how she reacts to it. Once you get the stinkface, then it's straight :camby: from there on out.

I've said it in this thread a long time ago and I'll say it again: Coming to America had the right idea. Lisa didn't care that Akeem was supposedly a goat herder. He touched her in a way that no man ever did, so much so that she wasn't even thinking about her arrogant ex boyfriend. Remember when she kept coming on to Akeem and he was saying "I don't want to rush you" and how mad she was about it lol. She loved him for who he was. That movie goes to show that when a woman loves you for YOU, then status doesn't mean shyt. You just have to know how to weed out the fakers. If you are balling, don't ever make it obvious initially. A woman has to prove that she's worthy and even then, that trust has to be earned.
 
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as the bible says
beauty is fleeting, looks are the first thing to go for a woman, and as the old saying go show me a beautiful woman and ill show you a dude who is tired of smashing her

true words that u just said cuz i know what its like when u smashing a beautiful broad and you get tired from past experience
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The stuff about having a nice car, education, high paying job is not a checklist for a man trying to find a woman. It's a checklist for a woman trying to find a man. For the most part, as long as she is supporting herself and not begging for money, most men simply don't care about a woman's career. We care more about how loyal she is, her personality, how sweet she is, etc. The only reason these traits became important is because we live in a feminist society that tries to twist society until it's upside down and men believe that this is stuff they should be looking at because that's what society tells us to look for. But realistically, most men simply don't care about that. If you ever watch those dating specials about why these women can't get men, for the most part they are almost always career women over 30. How often do you find specials about women who cook and clean for their man, are loyal and have a sweet personality being unable to find a man? Not many.
 

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This documentary is an interesting look at what is a 'strong woman' vs what is a feminist woman who convinces herself she is strong



These women train to protect themselves, but they don't 'hate men' or try to play the role of a man unlike the feminist reporter they sent to cover the story. You will see a huge difference in attitude between the western woman and those ukrainian women who are 'warrior women'.
 

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See women love status bruh.I been with women who flat out ask me what do you do?I kid you not...I understand its important but one of the first ?'s your asked and is judged on is your job.Women wanna know what you do so they can brag to their friends or put you in a category.The next woman you meet say that you work at a fast food joint and watch her facial reactions...(but play it off as a joke). Now tell that woman your an engineer and watch how quick she becomes interested in your convo.

what do you do for living?, what kind of car do you drive? so what did you go to school for? all questions to size up your bank account etc.
 

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The stuff about having a nice car, education, high paying job is not a checklist for a man trying to find a woman. It's a checklist for a woman trying to find a man. For the most part, as long as she is supporting herself and not begging for money, most men simply don't care about a woman's career. We care more about how loyal she is, her personality, how sweet she is, etc. The only reason these traits became important is because we live in a feminist society that tries to twist society until it's upside down and men believe that this is stuff they should be looking at because that's what society tells us to look for. But realistically, most men simply don't care about that. If you ever watch those dating specials about why these women can't get men, for the most part they are almost always career women over 30. How often do you find specials about women who cook and clean for their man, are loyal and have a sweet personality being unable to find a man? Not many.

yup if your not a striper, escort, prostitute, porn star men don't care. Honestly I would date working at starbucks who works hard and takes care of herself, over some obnoxious lawyer etc.

I mentioned earlier in this thread how i went on a few dates with this woman who was 30, had her mba, was a manager and lived in a downtown condo worth over half a mill. Anyways everything was going great, until she finally saw the car I was driving a toyota corolla at the time, and suddenly she just dissappeared and stopped talking to me.
 

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yup if your not a striper, escort, prostitute, porn star men don't care. Honestly I would date working at starbucks who works hard and takes care of herself, over some obnoxious lawyer etc.

I mentioned earlier in this thread how i went on a few dates with this woman who was 30, had her mba, was a manager and lived in a downtown condo worth over half a mill. Anyways everything was going great, until she finally saw the car I was driving a toyota corolla at the time, and suddenly she just dissappeared and stopped talking to me.

ya thats the bullshyt they pull. i can at least say mines is hardworking going too school and work going for the nursing school program and its looking good so far too :whew:
 

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what do you do for living?, what kind of car do you drive? so what did you go to school for? all questions to size up your bank account etc.

Yep and when they ask me I come out and say "You know how to cook anything besides grilled cheese"? I basically :troll: their ?'s.I can understand if they waited a while to ask those ?'s usually in a 1st convo those ?'s come up almost automatically.
 

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It's funny, cos depending on the kind of vibe or attitude I get from a woman, that's what I've always thought of doing. Or randomly pointing at an old car and saying, that's my what I drive and see how she reacts to it. Once you get the stinkface, then it's straight :camby: from there on out.

I've said it in this thread a long time ago and I'll say it again: Coming to America had the right idea. Lisa didn't care that Akeem was supposedly a goat herder. He touched her in a way that no man ever did, so much so that she wasn't even thinking about her arrogant ex boyfriend. Remember when she kept coming on to Akeem and he was saying "I don't want to rush you" and how mad she was about it lol. She loved him for who he was. That movie goes to show that when a woman loves you for YOU, then status doesn't mean shyt. You just have to know how to weed out the fakers. If you are balling, don't ever make it obvious initially. A woman has to prove that she's worthy and even then, that trust has to be earned.

I literally :troll: some women when they start asking all these serious ?'s.Their reactions is pricelss.Im not sayin im a baller by any means but I love flippin the ?'s on them.Some literally get defensive.Dont get me wrong,I ran into some gems.Best women seem to be the blue collar ones,.The ones usually in sororities (no diss),doctors,lawyers are ones that dont live in reality and have no wifey skills whats so ever.As for TRUST,I tell cats if your with a good woman stay with her.You rather be bored then to test the market for fun.
 

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Yep and when they ask me I come out and say "You know how to cook anything besides grilled cheese"? I basically :troll: their ?'s.I can understand if they waited a while to ask those ?'s usually in a 1st convo those ?'s come up almost automatically.

i do too one of em grilled me so i said i sell shoes at shoe store and my name is al whats yours :laff:
 
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