Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

if you focus on being the circus monkey to get the attention of women, you will regret wasting all of that time when you find out that woman can up and leave you at any time for seemingly little to no reason... and what will you have to show for it?

Real talk, I talk from experience, lastyear I spent thousands on taking women on dates and presents catering to women. those women are now long gone, I dont even talk to them anymore. All Im left with is a dent in my wallet,I could have used that money to pay off my debts.oh well you live n learn

 

[MikelArteta]

Real talk, I talk from experience, lastyear I spent thousands on taking women on dates and presents catering to women. those women are now long gone, I dont even talk to them anymore. All Im left with is a dent in my wallet,I could have used that money to pay off my debts.oh well you live n learn

should have spent that on travelling

 

[MikelArteta]

Bros, how do I keep my pimp hand strong? I found a cool chick but fukked it up by simping up not pimping. How do you become a cold pimp? Is it something you have to learn through trail and error? Fight against my inner good guy and fake it till I make it being a @sshole? Dealing with enough of these goofy hoes that it just makes you that way? I'm 24 good looking(no homo) and have respectable job Im tired of taking these L's. Is there hope?

im late replying to this but I always say the key is NOT TO CARE, its when you care way to muh about losing a owmen is when you get off your goal, is when you simp and break your rules.

 

[George Gooney]

@twan83 @reincar tell me why shorty and her best friend tearing me up on twitter subliminally... These women have no class brehs! Smh.

 

[twan83]

@twan83 @reincar tell me why shorty and her best friend tearing me up on twitter subliminally... These women have no class brehs! Smh.

cuz they aint shyt thats what no good women do cuz they think they have the power too do it but when they dont get the attention they want they wanna come crawling back saying sorry throwing the vagina at u too get u hooked

 

[CrossBones]

That's why I say focus on doing your own thing and getting your life together. You're dumping your time down the drain spending all this time trying to figure out the majority of the women out there.

yup, you have to love your life before you love a woman. if your situation isnt right, and you arent aware of what you want in your life and how to get it, then all of this relationship stuff wont come out right anyways. if you compromise your goals and lifes work to please a woman, then none of you will ever be happy.

men who know it all starts and stops with them, will be the ones who can go on to lead a stable and prosperous life. that will be with or without the sidepiece/supportive female/submissive woman in the picture, because she isnt supposed to be there at all if all she does is eat away at your standards and cant find ways to be helpful to you. a man can find his own path and stay right on it when he realizes that he doesnt have to be with the trifling harlots and attention starved whores out there who are aching to leech off of his time and energy. for a good woman to foster a good relationship, she has to realize that she doesnt make it all happen and that its not all about her, as she is not the initiator nor she is not the head of the team. all she should do is just add positivity and love into the picture for her man.

having a woman around you all the time is not the final word in a mans existance, and neither is that supposed to be his mission. a woman is primarily something that just comes with the territory. a good woman just has to know that she is to not to get in his way and to let the man handle what he has to. let him do his lifes work. the man is the hunter, the leader, and the conqueror. therefore, the man has to be pro his own future, and his woman has to be pro her man. thats how it works. it cant be any other way in my opinion, and it wont be for me.

 

[MikelArteta]

@twan83 @reincar tell me why shorty and her best friend tearing me up on twitter subliminally... These women have no class brehs! Smh.

1. why you checking her twitter, ive been there breh but the best thing to do is not look

2. when a owman breaks up with you they tell their best friend everything you did that was wrong, even if they cheated, were scum etc. by breaking up with you they have to validate in their mind it was for the best

3. most women have no class

 

[CASHAPP]

nah, breh! I was just in this very thread whining and crying about women a month ago!



Way I see it, we've ALL said or done some things in our past that we're ashamed of. If you've been on the straight and narrow for any amount of time and have no STDs or babymomma drama, she shouldn't judge. Hell, most women I've seen that get married to self proclaimed "former whore nikkas" love it MORE when they feel like they're keeping him satisfied. They think they tamed him or some shyt. Women are FAR more driven by ego than men are. Men are just more openly competitive.

Too bad they married those nikkas and then quickly got cheated on. Multiple times.

Me personally, my next relationship/friendship or whatever? I ain't divulging shyt about my past.



mind going into more detail? are you asking is it okay for men to fukk around while women will be considered whores if they do?



Not for me to say, dude. How you feel about it?



Yeah, and that really is all I use it for. Plus his shyt talking is motivational. And the fact that Free is HELLA entertaining. "It aint my fault that when I was a baby I fell into a box of glitter... and I been Shining. EVER. SINCE."


I mean... I don't think all women are worthless bytches and hoes and I don't think that all women will go bad. I'm not trying to be a pimp or player. I truthfully Just want to focus on myself and get my chips up like @kevm3 been saying since this thread started.

It just keeps me away from all of that "please baby I'll do it if it gets me your attention yeah I'll pay for date/dinner/your bills if you let me sniff your car seat please tell me I'm doing something right in your life I just want to be worthy of your time and affection" bullshyt I been on my whole life.

Did any of you guys see this video? I don't mean to laugh but

You saw the older guy stop out of nowhere with like a toothpick in his mouth with his legs wide open like he was saying he is more manly than that guy?

 

[360dagod]

Real talk, I talk from experience, lastyear I spent thousands on taking women on dates and presents catering to women. those women are now long gone, I dont even talk to them anymore. All Im left with is a dent in my wallet,I could have used that money to pay off my debts.oh well you live n learn

Did u smash?

 

[MikelArteta]

http://www.examiner.com/article/ort...-until-willing-to-release-wives-from-marriage

get married brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

http://www.examiner.com/article/ort...-until-willing-to-release-wives-from-marriage

get married brehs

 

[kevm3]

yup, you have to love your life before you love a woman. if your situation isnt right, and you arent aware of what you want in your life and how to get it, then all of this relationship stuff wont come out right anyways. if you compromise your goals and lifes work to please a woman, then none of you will ever be happy.

men who know it all starts and stops with them, will be the ones who can go on to lead a stable and prosperous life. that will be with or without the sidepiece/supportive female/submissive woman in the picture, because she isnt supposed to be there at all if all she does is eat away at your standards and cant find ways to be helpful to you. a man can find his own path and stay right on it when he realizes that he doesnt have to be with the trifling harlots and attention starved whores out there who are aching to leech off of his time and energy. for a good woman to foster a good relationship, she has to realize that she doesnt make it all happen and that its not all about her, as she is not the initiator nor she is not the head of the team. all she should do is just add positivity and love into the picture for her man.

having a woman around you all the time is not the final word in a mans existance, and neither is that supposed to be his mission. a woman is primarily something that just comes with the territory. a good woman just has to know that she is to not to get in his way and to let the man handle what he has to. let him do his lifes work. the man is the hunter, the leader, and the conqueror. therefore, the man has to be pro his own future, and his woman has to be pro her man. thats how it works. it cant be any other way in my opinion, and it wont be for me.

In this day and age, women don't really want to be wifed up. The only time they are ready is when they can't pull the caliber of man they used to because their looks are fading or they've started getting a reputation and they see their homegirls with kids and they feel it's time they had one too. In their prime, they want to party until they drop and you can pretty much expect the sporadic behavior you are getting from them... ie they are cool for about a week and then disappear... that's because they have no desire to be in a relationship, but just get into them for fun while exploring other options on the side. As soon as they hit their 30s, unable to take the blame for their actions, they go on to blame the lack of decent men and wonder 'where has the dating culture gone'. They will go out and for dudes who take them on dates, eat up their food, and then go and call up some other guy 30 minutes after that date. Women willingly want to be treated as the jump-off until they are used and abused and then they want to try to say all black men are gay, in jail, fear commitment or a host of other nonsense. It's pure fantasy, but they will continue to believe it because it excuses accountability for their own actions.

A lot of guys are blaming their own actions for what women do, but you just have to have a mindset of as soon as they come in, they are ready to step out. As soon as they are with you, they are looking for you to falter and they are looking for the next best deal... and realistically, I could do all the circus tricks to show 'how much value' I have to women, but for what? A lot of fellas will be amazed at how much less drama enters their lives and how much less they stress when they stop worrying about women and what they want or what they will do next.

What a lot of young guys will find absolutely bizarre is the less you care about dealing with women and the less you invest in them, the more interested in you they will become. So it definitely pays to put them on the backburner and handle your business and deal with them as they come. If you spend all kinds of time pursuing women, most men will come up with little of value. All of that money spent, time wasted, etc., because she was 'bored with your swag' and just up and went to the next guy. I used to think it was all about leadership this and that, but really, that's a sham too because these women don't want that either. They want to deal with guys who don't pay attention to them or exhibit dramatic, and even dangerous characteristics. I personally don't see women valuable enough to change my personality, so hence I focus on other things.

 

[Spades Of Aces]

Did any of you guys see this video? I don't mean to laugh but

You saw the older guy stop out of nowhere with like a toothpick in his mouth with his legs wide open like he was saying he is more manly than that guy?

Man, WTF!? Where in the hell was this dude's balls at? This made me mad. The man is practically bowing down to her while he's getting slapped and talked down to. Of course, there is always two sides to a story. We don't know what the man did to deserve this. Still, its just pathetic on how he's just on his damn knees taking this sh!t.

 

[kevm3]

I don't even really blame the woman in that instance. Men of our generation are so pathetic and weak that they deserved to get slapped in the face. Women will go for what you allow them to go for... which is why you have to chastise them hard or boot them the minute you see them starting to pull that nonsense.

 

[DaRealness]

usually high maintanence and expect you too simp the shyt outta them and buy em whatever they want tend too be very big headed at times. in those cases i knock them down too reality like their shyt dont stink and say you may look nice but i rather holler at somebody who dont give me a damn headache every 5 mins then you then leave them with that

doing that though at times makes them want you more too so its whatever

I hear that, but the catch I was referring to is the fact that she's a single mother. In fact, came to find out one of the teenagers who were playing with us is her son who is 17 and she has a younger daughter too. Personality wise she seemed cool and has a good sense of humour, but I've vowed not to take on any single mothers and I'm sticking to that. I know as you get older it gets harder to find a woman past a certain age without children, but it is what it is.

Without me even bringing the topic up, my own dad advised me a couple of weeks not to take on any single mums....and this is without even knowing my thoughts on the topic. He was talking from his own experience too - he's been remarried for 20 years - so he knows the score. It's something I'm just not going to take on.