Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

To my Christians in here, do not sacrifice your love for Jesus or your morals for women or anything for that matter. It is terrifying to admit, but we are living in truly evil times. Honestly, I count it a blessing that I'm single right now since if I was with a woman, I'd be more focused on pleasing her than God... and to bring a kid into these times? The coming few days will reveal exactly the times we are living in.

Something I was blessed to receive is knowledge of a mistake that I havee made as well as many of us have made. This is to seek the ways and the favor of a woman. In other words, many men have made women their idol or their god and seek to please them above all. And after pleasing these women, have they been rewarded? After seeking to do any and everything to bring their woman satisfaction, even to the point of wickedness, were they blessed? I think not. The Bible tells us to seek first the Kingdom of God and all of these things will be added unto us. Seek to please God and a righteous woman will be added unto us if God deems that fit.

Now when we look at the landscape, is it not bare how desolate it is? Love is a beautiful feeling, and yet how many of us are truly wary of it now because we feel we cannot trust each other? We've come to a time period where we feel we must be cold and wicked in order to deal with women, but if that is the case, is it not better to abstain? Is it not better to abstain from eating a rotten apple? If you must change your core character from righteousness to wickedness to deal with anyone, then you are simply better off avoiding them. The company of humankind is only temporal. You will do any and everything to obtain it, and yet you will be discarded for all your sacrifices. Heed this message.

 

[BreezyH]

to many simps and men driven by puzzy. Hell look at me I'm accused of a woman hater on this site from the same people who watch porn that degrades women, laugh at rape, have cheated in the past, and listen to rap msic

yet im a woman hater because I speak out against the system, how this is a matriarchal society, how most women of today are unworthy to even be called your gf let alone your wife

it's crazy breh - found out my kid's mother - the one who keeps bringing up marriage, house hunting, and putting her on to my side hustles is dealing with some clown who just got out of prison about a year ago. hanging around my kid . i'm sitting up in here with a decent job, multiple degrees. at first, i was , but thinking more and more about it i just gotta - these unworthy women want the world and can't even handle the basics and then always seem to tie themselves to the worst option.

 

[Mr. Negative]

the last thing any of us really wanna be are the bitter nikkas they swear we are.

 

[BreezyH]

Whats with women idolizing Marilyn Monroe and Nicki Minaj types?

these are hoe success stories (this is a little unfair to nicki, who i cant confirm as such), but it's the same things as the basketball wives. these are the women who have had their bad behavior rewarded in the biggest ways.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

these are hoe success stories (this is a little unfair to nicki, who i cant confirm as such), but it's the same things as the basketball wives. these are the women who have had their bad behavior rewarded in the biggest ways.

true.

Women look up to hoes, but claim not be hoes.
Marilyn Monroe was a hoe at the end of the day.

Nicki Minaj is 98% artificially made at this point, but bytches claiming to be REAL. Grown ass women shouldn't be looking up to Nicki Minaj

 

[BreezyH]

true.

Women look up to hoes, but claim not be hoes.
Marilyn Monroe was a hoe at the end of the day.

Nicki Minaj is 98% artificially made at this point, but bytches claiming to be REAL. Grown ass women shouldn't be looking up to Nicki Minaj

unfortunately in the "have my cake and eat it" society we are currently in - these types of women show other women that you can whore yourself out, get a successful man, and once he's been drained of his resources, you can build you businessmen off his name and the resources you pilfered during said relationship. like the nene's of the world - an ex-stripper pulled out of that life by a successful man. she even gets on tv out of it, but as soon as he cant bankroll those trips to the gucci store, he's status until the next re-up.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

That's westernized society for you

Women who believe making it is marrying a rich man and mooching off his success
Women who idealize celebrities and not know they're the most miserable people on earth
Women who think all men are misogynists and believe they can be "independent". We were made in pairs.

My generation ain't shyt brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

bishes not talking reckless no more and "NEED" my attention

i switched the game on them and they aint even know

 

[MikelArteta]

Man sometimes women

My godson mother who I haven't spoken to in months just hot me up, how now the dad doesn't want to watch him anymorr because he's taking up to much of his free time and he'sher rresponsibility.

Like how is this my concern? I told her dumb ass not to give up her son to save on daycare instead money, having random dudes over and going clubbing Were more iimportant.
I havent even replied

 

[kevm3]

it's crazy breh - found out my kid's mother - the one who keeps bringing up marriage, house hunting, and putting her on to my side hustles is dealing with some clown who just got out of prison about a year ago. hanging around my kid . i'm sitting up in here with a decent job, multiple degrees. at first, i was , but thinking more and more about it i just gotta - these unworthy women want the world and can't even handle the basics and then always seem to tie themselves to the worst option.

Man that's what's such a trip. Like if she ended up dealing with a guy that had more money than you, but was overall a decent guy, sure, you can be a lil mad, but you'd at least come to some kind of understanding like, "Well he had a lil more going on than me and I guess she went over there..." But the decision-making process of a lot of women is bewildering. A lot of women end up with the 'decent guy' for a while until they have a kid by him and can get free payments via child support, alimony, etc., and then they go after the worst possible guy you can find. A brotha out of prison? And you really don't want these guys around your children. Who knows if they come out and start trying to molest your child.

A lot of women willingly choose to mess with the worst kind of guy and then instead of blaming herself by saying, Man, I really made some bad choices with men..." It turns into, "Ughhh there are no decent men left, where are the real men? Why are men dogs?" The reality is they choose the dogs and then wonder why they can't find any clean up men to carry the baggage their last man left them. The smart women, moral women... they meet a solid dude, they stay loyal and they end up getting wifed and stay wifed. This type of woman, contrary to the popular lack of wisdom in this day and age, know how to spot a decent guy and stick with him.

When it's said and done, we talk a lot about fatherless sons, and I think that's been a huge problem, but we never talk about fatherless daughters who never have had a solid male figure in their life and thus never really know what to look for in a man. Their mom often had the same bad men choosing traits as they do, and through observing how she deals with men, she eventually continues the cycle. Instead of looking at a decent man as someone to build with and being taught how to become an integral unit in a family, she is taught how to hustle the decent men and how to run with the thugs.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

thank god for android and delayed text

I have text schedules for women

Girl A gets a text back every 30 min.
Girl B gets a text back every hour

Shows I have interest but limited and they always responsive back with the quickness

 

[MikelArteta]

http://markymarksthoughts.blogspot.ca/2013/09/according-to-bible-women-are-incapable.html?m=1

Even the bible days women are incapable of love

 

[kevm3]

i'm going to have to disagree with that marky mark post. the first comment dispels his post

"Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God."

Titus 2:4-5

Women are capable of love, but finding that woman who is capable of that long-term love is becoming increasingly rare. It's difficult to plant your feet knowing that most women come in with one foot in the door and one foot out.

 

[kevm3]

the last thing any of us really wanna be are the bitter nikkas they swear we are.

Any man that's been following this thread and heeding the advice will be the opposite of a bitter dude. Why? Because he would have been cautious enough to avoid falling into many of the pitfalls that men fall into by letting their ego or unfettered motions control their decision-making. Men have learned not to base their world on women and to actually take time to assess her moral character before listening to her. They've learned to interpret and accurately translate much of the double-speak women communicate in. Here's one such example that is a standard case of what we've been talking about... This girl takes a 'trip' with her girlfriends. The average guy will tell you, "Dude you need to trust your lady. Stop worrying." What do brothas here tell you? Man you better be careful about those trips man. Women do their thing a lot of times on them. Then you'll have women or their defenders coming in screaming bitter and insecure, etc.

http://ca.shine.yahoo.com/blogs/love-sex/cheated-boyfriend-don-8217-t-regret-181700261.html

Check it out and you see how it even follows the prototypical pattern. She doesn't even accept blame for her actions. She decides to blame him for not being affectionate enough or some such nonsense.

The reality is brothas in here aren't bitter. They're cautious from making realistic observations, and any man who wants to seriously start a family is more disappointed than anything knowing that there are so many pitfalls that await and that being the decent, stand up father and family man is rarely rewarded anymore.

 

[MikelArteta]

My girlfriends and I decided to take a little weekend getaway and on our first night there I met the most amazing guy. Instant attraction. We ended up spending the night together which turned into morning. He also ended up switching his flight so we could spend another day together. We met up for the last time and I could honestly say it will be one of the most memorable weekends of my life.



From that article kevm posted.

Shows you how women think your with a guy for like 9 years didn't abuse or cheat on you, you go away for a weekend and "instant attraction" and you sleep with him. You know nothing about this guy never been with Jim through a argument the good times and the bad but no feel a little tjngles and eh