Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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this the 9th date? 
c'mon breh
craigsagersuit
All Star
first time posting in this thread. been reading the gems from page 1 and still ain't even close to being done yet 
anyways, just wanted to share my current experience. currently going out with this chick that I met off of POF about 2 weeks ago. she's pretty cool, pretty down to earth, religious, kind, and pretty lowkey in general. We have just really vibed well together. I met her moms and brother actually and they've been treating a nikka like royalty. anyway, we spend this whole weekend together, friday-saturday and she was just all over me. she went with me to santa barbara (which is 2 hours away from where we live) to come support me at my game. we went to church together with her moms and brother. like you know when a chick is really feelin you? she be holding my hand all the time, she's all over me, she's invested in our conversations, and she just seems like she wants to be in my presence all the time.
we eventually got more serious and I had asked her about her family just to look out for anything out of the ordinary because I felt like she was just too good to be true. she told me about how her parents divorced when she was in junior high/high school because apparently pops was an alcoholic. pops had an affair, their business went south, and he just dipped. she also told me about how her pops even came to beat her and her mom. basically her life was just a nightmare until I came along.
Now sex and past relationships had come up in the conversation, I didn't want to ask because from learning in this thread I know most women just lie about em . but she was pretty honest with me in how in her "rebellious years" is when she would hook up with people because she was frustrrated and wanted to get attention from her pops. at this point, I kinda had the
face on the other line. now i'm not gonna front i'm a virgin and I just felt weirded out. I know I can't expect every girl that I meet to be a virgin but 
anyway this was late at night last night so I just kinda ended the conversation because it just kind of went south and everything just got kinda awkward. I don't know how to bounce back after that i'm not gonna lie since i'm a pretty sensitive dude.
positive thing though is that this chick just really seems like she has a good head on her shoulders. she allows me to be the leader in the relationship, she doesn't object my authority and just out there being supportive, no exes that i need to worry about.
young love is crazy brehs
i'm trying to control myself in giving my all to her though just because I know women can be pretty fickle and I even told her about it, especially from reading stories from this thread.
wish me luck brehs
anyways, just wanted to share my current experience. currently going out with this chick that I met off of POF about 2 weeks ago. she's pretty cool, pretty down to earth, religious, kind, and pretty lowkey in general. We have just really vibed well together. I met her moms and brother actually and they've been treating a nikka like royalty. anyway, we spend this whole weekend together, friday-saturday and she was just all over me. she went with me to santa barbara (which is 2 hours away from where we live) to come support me at my game. we went to church together with her moms and brother. like you know when a chick is really feelin you? she be holding my hand all the time, she's all over me, she's invested in our conversations, and she just seems like she wants to be in my presence all the time.
we eventually got more serious and I had asked her about her family just to look out for anything out of the ordinary because I felt like she was just too good to be true. she told me about how her parents divorced when she was in junior high/high school because apparently pops was an alcoholic. pops had an affair, their business went south, and he just dipped. she also told me about how her pops even came to beat her and her mom. basically her life was just a nightmare until I came along.
Now sex and past relationships had come up in the conversation, I didn't want to ask because from learning in this thread I know most women just lie about em . but she was pretty honest with me in how in her "rebellious years" is when she would hook up with people because she was frustrrated and wanted to get attention from her pops. at this point, I kinda had the
face on the other line. now i'm not gonna front i'm a virgin and I just felt weirded out. I know I can't expect every girl that I meet to be a virgin but anyway this was late at night last night so I just kinda ended the conversation because it just kind of went south and everything just got kinda awkward. I don't know how to bounce back after that i'm not gonna lie since i'm a pretty sensitive dude.
positive thing though is that this chick just really seems like she has a good head on her shoulders. she allows me to be the leader in the relationship, she doesn't object my authority and just out there being supportive, no exes that i need to worry about.
young love is crazy brehs
i'm trying to control myself in giving my all to her though just because I know women can be pretty fickle and I even told her about it, especially from reading stories from this thread. wish me luck brehs
craigsagersuit
All Star
19 breh
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
Just take it slow and go with the flow. Women are fickle and her true colors haven't came out yet. You don't real know someone until you see their bad side.first time posting in this thread. been reading the gems from page 1 and still ain't even close to being done yet
anyways, just wanted to share my current experience. currently going out with this chick that I met off of POF about 2 weeks ago. she's pretty cool, pretty down to earth, religious, kind, and pretty lowkey in general. We have just really vibed well together. I met her moms and brother actually and they've been treating a nikka like royalty. anyway, we spend this whole weekend together, friday-saturday and she was just all over me. she went with me to santa barbara (which is 2 hours away from where we live) to come support me at my game. we went to church together with her moms and brother. like you know when a chick is really feelin you? she be holding my hand all the time, she's all over me, she's invested in our conversations, and she just seems like she wants to be in my presence all the time.
we eventually got more serious and I had asked her about her family just to look out for anything out of the ordinary because I felt like she was just too good to be true. she told me about how her parents divorced when she was in junior high/high school because apparently pops was an alcoholic. pops had an affair, their business went south, and he just dipped. she also told me about how her pops even came to beat her and her mom. basically her life was just a nightmare until I came along.
Now sex and past relationships had come up in the conversation, I didn't want to ask because from learning in this thread I know most women just lie about em . but she was pretty honest with me in how in her "rebellious years" is when she would hook up with people because she was frustrrated and wanted to get attention from her pops. at this point, I kinda had the
anyway this was late at night last night so I just kinda ended the conversation because it just kind of went south and everything just got kinda awkward. I don't know how to bounce back after that i'm not gonna lie since i'm a pretty sensitive dude.
positive thing though is that this chick just really seems like she has a good head on her shoulders. she allows me to be the leader in the relationship, she doesn't object my authority and just out there being supportive, no exes that i need to worry about.
young love is crazy brehs
wish me luck brehs
Just be careful odds are it won't last. Usually when parents love you and treat you like that it means sadly their daughter made horrible choices in men previously and your the first decent one.
Everything seems great because your still in the honeymoon period.
Just take it slow , know that it probably won't end in marriage etc. And she will prob be your first heartbreak.
I'm sure she dropped the I'm not like that and will never hurt you line. I've been a 19 year old birgin before stricken by "love" and beauty.
Everything seems great because your still in the honeymoon period.
Just take it slow , know that it probably won't end in marriage etc. And she will prob be your first heartbreak.
I'm sure she dropped the I'm not like that and will never hurt you line. I've been a 19 year old birgin before stricken by "love" and beauty.
http://bossip.com/843018/update-kil...as-shot-while-preaching/#sthash.S5W3VmYH.dpuf
This is why you don't mess with married women or another man's woman period. It's fun and games until the other man flips out. This pastor paid the ultimate price for his transgressions. Have some respect for yourself and other men and stay away from their women.
This is why you don't mess with married women or another man's woman period. It's fun and games until the other man flips out. This pastor paid the ultimate price for his transgressions. Have some respect for yourself and other men and stay away from their women.
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
#nofukksgiven working real good for me right now
NormanConnors
Detroit/MSU Spartan Life
all in all do what's best for the kid, more than likely it will be what's best for you also.
on a sidenote - keep in mind i'm a firm believer that the parents being together isnt necessarily a good thing for the kid, if those said parents have issues with each other, and aren't together because they want to be...kids are smart and can pick up on things like that. whatever you decide to do get it over with quick and not have it be drawn out
i hear you - i came to this thread dealing with said female and aware of the things i did in the past to weaken things, combined with her own issues. but reading a lot of these posts, i'm getting more comfortable with the fact that i've improved myself a lot and it's not on me to fix her issues if she's not actively addressing them. just at the point where my energy can be used elsewhere if im not getting what i need. my kid's going to be good regardless, you should never let them be collateral damage to your issues.
NormanConnors
Detroit/MSU Spartan Life
first time posting in this thread. been reading the gems from page 1 and still ain't even close to being done yet
anyways, just wanted to share my current experience. currently going out with this chick that I met off of POF about 2 weeks ago. she's pretty cool, pretty down to earth, religious, kind, and pretty lowkey in general. We have just really vibed well together. I met her moms and brother actually and they've been treating a nikka like royalty. anyway, we spend this whole weekend together, friday-saturday and she was just all over me. she went with me to santa barbara (which is 2 hours away from where we live) to come support me at my game. we went to church together with her moms and brother. like you know when a chick is really feelin you? she be holding my hand all the time, she's all over me, she's invested in our conversations, and she just seems like she wants to be in my presence all the time.
we eventually got more serious and I had asked her about her family just to look out for anything out of the ordinary because I felt like she was just too good to be true. she told me about how her parents divorced when she was in junior high/high school because apparently pops was an alcoholic. pops had an affair, their business went south, and he just dipped. she also told me about how her pops even came to beat her and her mom. basically her life was just a nightmare until I came along.
Now sex and past relationships had come up in the conversation, I didn't want to ask because from learning in this thread I know most women just lie about em . but she was pretty honest with me in how in her "rebellious years" is when she would hook up with people because she was frustrrated and wanted to get attention from her pops. at this point, I kinda had the
anyway this was late at night last night so I just kinda ended the conversation because it just kind of went south and everything just got kinda awkward. I don't know how to bounce back after that i'm not gonna lie since i'm a pretty sensitive dude.
positive thing though is that this chick just really seems like she has a good head on her shoulders. she allows me to be the leader in the relationship, she doesn't object my authority and just out there being supportive, no exes that i need to worry about.
young love is crazy brehs
wish me luck brehs
it's always a red flag if the moms like you and talks about you a lot to the daughter (and no im not talking about any attraction type stuff), eventually that will wear her down. just my experience on the matter
NormanConnors
Detroit/MSU Spartan Life
exactly, seems like you have it under control breh
in theory, i got this down breh, but im not looking forward to just putting all that on the table in plain english. feel like im going to get a lot of shaming, and sob stories to keep me in this messed-up cycle.
