Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Malcolmxxx_23

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this is the dilemma I have...And this has took an effect on my roster..lol

I dont have the energy for all that,but Its like a double edged sword
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we're not boyfriend-girlfriend perse in the title but we both mutually agreed on being exclusive
she wants to have her fun
Throw her to the bushes breh
 

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Man if you didn't get the point we discussed before about saving your money and having your passport as well as focusing on handling your responsibilities, let me reiterate that you do all of those things mentioned.Things are getting serious in this country and will only get more serious, so you want to start making wise decisions. If you don't business handled right and ain't right with Jesus, relationships will be the last thing on your mind. Keep your cash fluid, have a passport and handle your business. The times that are coming will require you to be sharp and faithful.
 

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As much as you want her to not text other dudes she going to do it.

Her doing it in your face is disrespectful, but play her game by getting disrespectful back. If she take notice to you texting another female, then she obviously has some feelings for you... if she don't then she should become familiar with the bushes. Idk y'all personally, so I can't say what type of girl she is, but she gone do what she gone do until y'all are officially together. Once y'all are tell her how you feel, be assertive , and make her understand certain things she can't do anymore if y'all gone be together.

:russ:


True though:birdman:
 

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Wait Is this the same broad who was exalting you, and her family thought you were great? And now she texting other guys?
 

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brehs what's your thoughts on a chick you're seeing texting other dudes?

this dude is definitely simpin on her and they havin a convo on facebook right on my news feed :what:and she on some giving him her number telling him how she's busy writing a paper tonight so she'll text him tomorrow
my thoughts on this are, it's cool as long as you don't care about her. If you are spending as much as a dime on her you're losing. if you're spending emotions on her you're losing.

also, if she talks shyt about him in front of you, you already know she's playing a game.
 

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you can't earn a physically abused woman's respect.

she's been taken as far as she can go with a man. As scared for her life as she's gonna be.

You being mad over something she's done, doing or said is meaningless. It's not like you're gonna hit her or anything.



So be careful with these chicks that give you the tales of how bad her ex used to beat her up, but.... "never again"
 

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I agree, I've dated a girl who was physically abused and well there was nothing I could do as she cheated and went back to her ex who abused her.


I don't mean to be harsh but if a woman has been abused or raped and have not gone to therapy or got counselling I would stay away.

you can't earn a physically abused woman's respect.

she's been taken as far as she can go with a man. As scared for her life as she's gonna be.

You being mad over something she's done, doing or said is meaningless. It's not like you're gonna hit her or anything.



So be careful with these chicks that give you the tales of how bad her ex used to beat her up, but.... "never again"
 

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Wait Is this the same broad who was exalting you, and her family thought you were great? And now she texting other guys?

yeah I told her how i'm not gonna tolerate her bullshyt and I sure as hell can't be with someone who's gonna be disrespectful to me in front of my face. :birdman:

woke up to hundreds of missed calls, voicemails, facebook posts of her apologizing and begging for a second chance :patrice:
 

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yeah I told her how i'm not gonna tolerate her bullshyt and I sure as hell can't be with someone who's gonna be disrespectful to me in front of my face. :birdman:

woke up to hundreds of missed calls, voicemails, facebook posts of her apologizing and begging for a second chance :patrice:


still throw her in the bushes
 

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Gotta be careful man I'm telling you, I've seen these tactics as well. Its cool your young you will probably accept her apology and go back
But these are all tests women do, they step out of lone you speak up they apologize you forgive , then boom a few weeks go by and shes back texting dude again.

Especially a young women who HSS never had a good bf, I've dated women like that and they love attention from guys.


Just wait till the excuses, "I'm sorry I just dated loser guys previously who didn't really care if I talked to other guys".

Just be careful breh, when your young and newin the game sometimes the red flags tthat are sent your way you overlook them.

yeah I told her how i'm not gonna tolerate her bullshyt and I sure as hell can't be with someone who's gonna be disrespectful to me in front of my face. :birdman:

woke up to hundreds of missed calls, voicemails, facebook posts of her apologizing and begging for a second chance :patrice:
 

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See bruh, you learning firsthand about what we've been talking about in here. It ain't bitterness about real recognizing real. A woman will tell you straight up to your face she loves you this and that and as soon as you turn your back, she's talking to the next man. She'll tell her man how much she loves him and how wonderful he is and then be talking filthier than a sewer pipe to some other guy in her emails. It's not all women, but it is enough to make you walk extra cautious. You see how she got one foot in the door with you and one foot out the door. That's why I say don't ever make a woman a top priority in your life. You never know what she's doing behind the scenes and if she will stay or go. Make Jesus, handling business, and close friends and family a higher priority. Enjoy a woman's company while she's there, but if she screw up, she is gone. If you do what I say, you won't let a woman get you too down for long and you'll have that spot that she couldn't represent right ready for the next woman who might want a shot. The realest, most loyal woman wins the position.
 
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