Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I'm pretty much at a stage in life where I don't really care what a woman wants. It's just words flying in one ear and out the other. How many men have spent their lives trying to be the 'real man' that these women wanted, only to get tore down after that? Took care of the family, stayed loyal, was decent all the way through and all of it was thrown in the garbage?

What women really want is an entertainment clown aka bad boy to have thrills and wild out with until their life comes crumbling down because you can't live irresponsibly forever and super playa is seeing 10,000 other women and after they want mr. 'real man' to come pay all of her bills and give her emotional rejuvenation until she has a hook in him and can take his money and can go back to dealing with these so called-dogs she can't stand. Notice how so many women stay in the midst of 'things they can't stand'? They can't stand this dude, but she's always over there. She can't 'stand' her homegirls, but she's always hanging with them. You would think that they would get the hint and stop dealing with stuff they can't stand, but the reality is, they are exactly where they want to be and by you trying to pull her out of the doodoo pile, the only thing that will happen is you will be left smelling bad while she goes diving right back in.

When it's said and done, what are these women offering in reward for Mr. Bad Boy with nice guy qualities? Oh yeah, nothing at all. So go ahead whittling your life away trying to figure out the optimal guy these women want... or you can just not care and ignore what they say they want and make sure you only let a woman in your life on your terms... and all the meanwhile, enjoying every second of the life you were blessed with instead of trying to morph yourself into a clown for cooch.

 

[re'up]

My friend whose girl moved out is stuck in some Matrix type shyt, similar to what you describe, she moved out, took furniture, left mutual pets and bills....still comes over once or twice a week, and gets in huge arguments with him over his newfound insecurity about her life, (who she sees, whos at dinner, whos at the house), and she tells him she wants the 'confident ___' back....dude is a wreck. He keeps saying 'It's not over, we'll work it out', and is stuck in a dangerous, cancerous state of denial. Reduced to a sniveling simp, who won't put up boundaries, or listen to anyone with practical advice. Think she's coming back when the semester is over. Pretty sad to watch someone go through the heartache, worse when they act so goddamn idiotic about it, in the face of so much good advice, and experience.

 

[MikelArteta]

It sucks that society has sold men a bag of lies, that being faithful, responsible, knowing your role as a man would lead to a great women .

 

[MikelArteta]

My friend whose girl moved out is stuck in some Matrix type shyt, similar to what you describe, she moved out, took furniture, left mutual pets and bills....still comes over once or twice a week, and gets in huge arguments with him over his newfound insecurity about her life, (who she sees, whos at dinner, whos at the house), and she tells him she wants the 'confident ___' back....dude is a wreck. He keeps saying 'It's not over, we'll work it out', and is stuck in a dangerous, cancerous state of denial. Reduced to a sniveling simp, who won't put up boundaries, or listen to anyone with practical advice. Think she's coming back when the semester is over. Pretty sad to watch someone go through the heartache, worse when they act so goddamn idiotic about it, in the face of so much good advice, and experience.

like a vampire she took everything and left him a shivering carcass. This is what happens when your emotional tie becomes so strong to a woman, when you dangerously "love" her more than you love yourself.

Wasting words on people like this sadly never works, its like someone whose been in a abusive relationship, or someone whose been cheating on always going back, you'll tell them one thing and they will be like yeah yeah your right and a second later revert back to their old habits.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm pretty much at a stage in life where I don't really care what a woman wants. It's just words flying in one ear and out the other. How many men have spent their lives trying to be the 'real man' that these women wanted, only to get tore down after that? Took care of the family, stayed loyal, was decent all the way through and all of it was thrown in the garbage?

What women really want is an entertainment clown aka bad boy to have thrills and wild out with until their life comes crumbling down because you can't live irresponsibly forever and super playa is seeing 10,000 other women and after they want mr. 'real man' to come pay all of her bills and give her emotional rejuvenation until she has a hook in him and can take his money and can go back to dealing with these so called-dogs she can't stand. Notice how so many women stay in the midst of 'things they can't stand'? They can't stand this dude, but she's always over there. She can't 'stand' her homegirls, but she's always hanging with them. You would think that they would get the hint and stop dealing with stuff they can't stand, but the reality is, they are exactly where they want to be and by you trying to pull her out of the doodoo pile, the only thing that will happen is you will be left smelling bad while she goes diving right back in.

When it's said and done, what are these women offering in reward for Mr. Bad Boy with nice guy qualities? Oh yeah, nothing at all. So go ahead whittling your life away trying to figure out the optimal guy these women want... or you can just not care and ignore what they say they want and make sure you only let a woman in your life on your terms... and all the meanwhile, enjoying every second of the life you were blessed with instead of trying to morph yourself into a clown for cooch.

all truth, I think one of the hardest thing as a man is to come to this conclusion. I remember when I was "still in the game", i kept telling myself not all women are like this. I would mess with pretty girls, average girls, rich girls, poor girls, white girls, asian girls, spanish girls, older women, younger women and the result was the same time and time again.

This whole Mr. bad boy with nice guy qualities, or a nice guy who can be a bad boy some of the time is a crock of bs, its just like hte old saying women want hot ice.

I refuse to bend or brake my morals, or to act like something i'm not just to be accepted.

 

[re'up]

Right....a vampire, she left my friend pale and weak, lost himself. She's honestly a cool person, I like her, but she was bound to do this, she's fukking 22 years old. And, dude could bounce back, real quick, if he wanted to. But, he's slugging back beers and drunk dialing her ass in an empty apartment, instead of keeping his head up, and cutting her out, like 'This isn't working for me, I'm done'. He's giving in to all her demands, he's paying +400 a month extra, since she left their place, I can't even fault her though, I told him he's fukking 28, we're too old to be acting like little kids about women and heartache. I go through it too, but you embrace your emotions and feelings, and deal with them, don't let them consume you.

 

[MikelArteta]

btw i recommend this book i talked about it before men on strike, it basically talks about what we all talk about

i found a free pdf version
http://bitshare.com/files/5ha29nf0/5lETA---1594036756.pdf.html

its 230 pages but well worth it, i bought the book from amazon but eh free is good


heres a few tidbits

Western culture has spent the past fifty years
making marriage a better deal for women, while for
men it’s become a real ball and chain, sometimes almost
literally. Men used to go to work, come home and, after
a hard day’s work providing for their families, they
rested, ate dinner and felt like “the king of the castle.”
Fast forward to today, where the man works all day,
comes home to cook or wash dishes, is chided for not
doing a good enough job, is relegated to the basement
while the wife and kids enjoy the run of the house, and
spends the weekends watching the kids with a dirty diaper
bag slung across his shoulders or hanging out in a
shopping mall holding his wife’s purse. On top of an already
stressful life, he also gets a bunch of pitying stares
from the younger men who wonder what he has become
and how they can avoid the same fate.
Now, instead of equality in marriage, he can expect
to share household tasks, act as unpaid bodyguard and
home repairman, pay for most of the bills, help with the
kids and, for all his efforts, be denigrated by the wife
and society. And if he does fight back? He pays child
support, gets half or more of his stuff taken and has to
leave the house, and he might even get a restraining order
or, worse, be charged with child or domestic abuse.
What is there to gain?

It’s no wonder that fewer and fewer men are getting
married now than in the past. Kay Hymowitz states in
her book, Manning Up, that “in 1970, 80 percent of 25-
to 29-year-old men were married; in 2007, only about
40 percent of them were. In 1970, 85 percent of 30- to
34-year-old men were married; in 2007, only 60 percent
of them were.”2
Men no longer see marriage as being as important
as they did even fifteen years ago. “According to Pew
Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to
thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one

 

[MikelArteta]

Right....a vampire, she left my friend pale and weak, lost himself. She's honestly a cool person, I like her, but she was bound to do this, she's fukking 22 years old. And, dude could bounce back, real quick, if he wanted to. But, he's slugging back beers and drunk dialing her ass in an empty apartment, instead of keeping his head up, and cutting her out, like 'This isn't working for me, I'm done'. He's giving in to all her demands, he's paying +400 a month extra, since she left their place, I can't even fault her though, I told him he's fukking 28, we're too old to be acting like little kids about women and heartache. I go through it too, but you embrace your emotions and feelings, and deal with them, don't let them consume you.

breh i was reading men on strike book i posted above and this quote came out

It is said that men can’t handle intimacy. That’s not it at all.
It is sadness that men can’t handle and they fear that intimacy
will take them there.

 

[MikelArteta]

uploaded the pdf so you dont even got to download

http://www.scribd.com/doc/172254137/5lETA-1594036756

 

[International Playa]

brehs met a hot cutie this weekend, she let me know she got a man though, she refused to give me her number, insisted she in love with her man and showed me pics of her and her man.I asked her doesn't her man let her have male friends, so she can give up the number, in the end she gave me her number and instagram. I asked her if we could do lunch sometime, she said yes.

Dont know what to do? The angel in me is saying forget a girl with a boyfriend, there is too many single women out there. The devil in me wants to try and get the girl,lol

 

[Mr210]

brehs met a hot cutie this weekend, she let me know she got a man though, she refused to give me her number, insisted she in love with her man and showed me pics of her and her man.I asked her doesn't her man let her have male friends, so she can give up the number, in the end she gave me her number and instagram. I asked her if we could do lunch sometime, she said yes.

Dont know what to do? The angel in me is saying forget a girl with a boyfriend, there is too many single women out there. The devil in me wants to try and get the girl,lol

post her instagram!! fool

 

[MikelArteta]

brehs met a hot cutie this weekend, she let me know she got a man though, she refused to give me her number, insisted she in love with her man and showed me pics of her and her man.I asked her doesn't her man let her have male friends, so she can give up the number, in the end she gave me her number and instagram. I asked her if we could do lunch sometime, she said yes.

Dont know what to do? The angel in me is saying forget a girl with a boyfriend, there is too many single women out there. The devil in me wants to try and get the girl,lol

get stabbed brehs

 

[Mofongo]

The dont ur man let u have guy friends pickup line is wack. Show u aint got no gamr.

 

[The ADD]

get stabbed brehs

Be a willing outlet for attention whores brehs

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Im about to be 26...

People who aggravate me at any level goes to the backburner....

When you put energy into people and it dosent come back,you become bitter...

Whether it be friendships/relationships/work etc

And I have become a bitter human being....Towards life which transcends to other areas...

The first step is admitting your problems

But I have to also realize im at fault for letting it happen....

I just need to put that energy into myself and let shyt go from there....

I got some unfinished business with this bytch{made a dumb move}but she will be permanently deleted....

Yeah, this isn't nearly as disturbing as yours but still irks me nonetheless...


Sometimes, i'll send out a mass text to my closest friends (about a dozen or so) to come join me to hang out
for a night in the town.

I'll be lucky to get a response.

These are the same people i go on trips with, watch Seahawks/Mariners games, drink and have dinner... then lately, they all
in unison, stopped replying to my messages. I did nothing to rile their rectums, i always put up for shiit and even choose to
drive they drunk asses if need be (albeit in their rides cuz i have a 2seater) and never fail to consider them for invites when
i throw shin digs.


I just got to the point where i'll just wait for them to hit me up if they're available (not all of them are in relationships, so at least
the single mothafukkas should reciprocate but nope).


It prolly seems petty, but i send group texts all the time and the energy expended never generates a response... almost as if i
don't exist (and trust, i have my own life, a busy job, hobbies i do, a girlfriend i see all the time... yet i try to make time for these
bastids and they don't even acknowledge or appreciate a vigga. WTF?!).


People shouldn't take my friendship for granted. I'm not gonna be here forever and i think i'm someone you can always depend on,
kind, considerate, always dress nice and make people around me feel good.


What gives?


Selfish a$$holes.


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