Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[T-K-G]

I don't really think this is a gem, but i've accepted the fact that 95% of bytches have ZERO personality. By that i mean that aint shyt unique or interesting about most of em (which is why most nikkas left gems on how to pretend like you're listening to em) the best you can get is one who's down to earth but i stopped expecting anything actually interesting coming out of half the bytches mouths (other than me ).
I haven't met one who had well rounded opinions or an interesting taste on anything (music, politics, movies, books, art etc.)


the majority of these bytches personalities stuck on default imo

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Just wanted to post something for all the dudes who are having a hard time meeting women/getting numbers/forming relationships/getting laid.


Stop being so hard on yourself.


The PUA community and men's help community have done a disservice to men by making them believe that all men have girlfriends or are getting laid because they approach women. This is false. Most men meet sexual partners through work, school and most importantly through friends and social circles. This myth that Alpha Males are everywhere scoring is completely false and can mess with the mind of any man.

If you are going to approach random women on the street or at the bar, please understand that at the end of the day, it is a numbers game. It does take a little bit of time and effort to meet women and form a romantic relationship, or to get laid. I have been researching this a bit, and came across these numbers:


FINAL NUMBERS
102 Chicks Approached (7days of work) (10/9 to 10/16)

47 Phone Numbers (46% of girls)

~13 – 16 Dates/Meet Ups

7 Lays (By 11/15)

14.89% of Phone Numbers Got Me Laid

6.8% of Approaches Got Me Laid


source: Getting Laid is a Numbers Game


I'd say if you are looking for a solid girlfriend, try work, school or ask your friends to set you up on a blind date. The myth of Random Approach + Confidence = sex is exaggerated .

 

[My neck and my back]

if a relationship end make sure it ends with her leaving because she didn't feel "loved enough" rather then you doing everything possible to keep her and she STILL leaves you. she gon play the victim either way.

 

[winb83]

Just wanted to post something for all the dudes who are having a hard time meeting women/getting numbers/forming relationships/getting laid.


Stop being so hard on yourself.


The PUA community and men's help community have done a disservice to men by making them believe that all men have girlfriends or are getting laid because they approach women. This is false. Most men meet sexual partners through work, school and most importantly through friends and social circles. This myth that Alpha Males are everywhere scoring is completely false and can mess with the mind of any man.

If you are going to approach random women on the street or at the bar, please understand that at the end of the day, it is a numbers game. It does take a little bit of time and effort to meet women and form a romantic relationship, or to get laid. I have been researching this a bit, and came across these numbers:


FINAL NUMBERS
102 Chicks Approached (7days of work) (10/9 to 10/16)

47 Phone Numbers (46% of girls)

~13 – 16 Dates/Meet Ups

7 Lays (By 11/15)

14.89% of Phone Numbers Got Me Laid

6.8% of Approaches Got Me Laid


source: Getting Laid is a Numbers Game


I'd say if you are looking for a solid girlfriend, try work, school or ask your friends to set you up on a blind date. The myth of Random Approach + Confidence = sex is exaggerated .

The problem with the hook up approach is it limits your potential dating pool if you wanna break away from that average guy destiny and control your own dating life an approach strangers philosophy is needed.

 

[Sharp]

The easiest way to meet women is through female friends.

They will give you the co-sign which makes their friends more receptive to you, if they find you attractive. Even just being in a controlled group environment makes it easier because the women will be more comfortable talking to you.

Approaching random chicks on the street is foolish without acknowledging body language. You can approach chicks that you don't know on the street, but you have to make sure that you make eye contact and that will tell you if it is okay for you to go and kick it to her. If you've been doing this long enough, you will know by body language if a woman is interested and wants you to approach her.

 

[MikelArteta]

i don't even approach women, not because I'm shy or scared of rejection, I just don't care. And I've never had a problem with dating or getting relationships,

 

[Rocket Scientist]

The poster who said SOME women barely have personalities or anything to talk about is somehow right. Besides a cool few ones here and there most women really talk about nothing. Unless its reality tv or anything celebrity wise.Usually when the conversation goes towards celebrities majority of the time,it can either lead to friend zone.

 

[Malikthegod]

I don't really think this is a gem, but i've accepted the fact that 95% of bytches have ZERO personality. By that i mean that aint shyt unique or interesting about most of em (which is why most nikkas left gems on how to pretend like you're listening to em) the best you can get is one who's down to earth but i stopped expecting anything actually interesting coming out of half the bytches mouths (other than me ).
I haven't met one who had well rounded opinions or an interesting taste on anything (music, politics, movies, books, art etc.)


the majority of these bytches personalities stuck on default imo

They have no incentive to have personalities. They don't need to be charismatic, witty, funny, intelligent, philosophical, or charming to get dudes. They just have to know how to clean up nice, and for some dudes they don't even have to do that. Just have a pulse.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

The problem with the hook up approach is it limits your potential dating pool if you wanna break away from that average guy destiny and control your own dating life an approach strangers philosophy is needed.

Absolutely, there is nothing wrong with approaching women and it is a good way to meet new women. However, dudes shouldn't have an unrealistic expectation of approach, like the numbers i posted show, it's a numbers game.

The guy approached 102 women and slept with 6 of them...that's a lot of rejection.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

i don't even approach women, not because I'm shy or scared of rejection, I just don't care. And I've never had a problem with dating or getting relationships,

So you meet girls through friends, work, etc? How are you meeting women without approach?

 

[winb83]

Absolutely, there is nothing wrong with approaching women and it is a good way to meet new women. However, dudes shouldn't have an unrealistic expectation of approach, like the numbers i posted show, it's a numbers game.

The guy approached 102 women and slept with 6 of them...that's a lot of rejection.

Some of that might not even be rejection though.
A lot of guys fukk with chicks that are semi-attractive or not very attractive because they get preselected through their social circle. I know I've fukked chicks I'd never approach on my own just because somebody hooked me up and I knew I could get it. If the regular guy approached 100 dimes and fukked 7 of them that's gonna likely be more dimes than the average guy even dreams of touching and dude did that in like a week or so.

 

[iMajor]

Never be a dairy to the girl you are trying to get. If she starts talking about other guys and sht. You better nip that in the butt early. Or shes gonna start turning you into some memoir and you gonna be on the outside looking in...

sorry bout the typos

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Never be a the girl you are trying to get dairy. If she starts talking about other guys and sht. You better nip that in the butt early. Or shes gonna start writing in you all this sht and you cant get a piece cause you on the outside looking in.

I think you made some typos

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[illadope]

For the most part, men don't just go beating up females out of nowhere. You've probably only got a taste of what her ex is dealing with. If she's that sensitive now, when she gets comfortable around you, more of it will come out... just think about Halle Berry. At first it was 'those down low and dirty negroes' putting hands on her, until she got with that white boy and it hit the wire that he is supposedly calling her racial names... SAME thing happened with every man she has been with. You better be careful... she might be one of those women that like to push your buttons and see if she can get you to hit her. Have an exit strategy in mind if need be.

Haha if a girl test me imma just do mental damage. Uppercuttin hos is silly

 

[Economics]

Never be a the girl you are trying to get dairy. If she starts talking about other guys and sht. You better nip that in the butt early. Or shes gonna start writing in you all this sht and you cant get a piece cause you on the outside looking in.

Major's typos got me straight