Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Sometimes I wonder if as man we really love the person or if we just love vagina
Tom Leykis just did a show about this that said most men don't love the woman they're with she was just the best he thought he could do at the time. I'm a firm believer that most men just want a stable flow of easily accessible vagina and accept that from the best looking woman they believe they can pull.

statistics say the average man has sex with seven women in his entire life. If that's so then the average guy can't possibly have enough game to have a decent amount of options built up to choose from.
 

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Tom Leykis just did a show about this that said most men don't love the woman they're with she was just the best he thought he could do at the time. I'm a firm believer that most men just want a stable flow of easily accessible vagina and accept that from the best looking woman they believe they can pull.

statistics say the average man has sex with seven women in his entire life. If that's so then the average guy can't possibly have enough game to have a decent amount of options built up to choose from.

I was jus listening to that show today why I made my pos above and I agree.

Every girl I was with in my life that was te bea I could do at that time
 

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One thing I've discovered is to look at silence from a chick as the message.

Women will use you for fun,
Sex, money, entertainment and an ego bloat.
Once you serve your purpose your services are no longer required.

I'll admit I messed up brehs that MBA chick txt me and said sorry I haven't been able to talk for awhile I've been busy I should have deleted and ignored instead I didn't. And oh ya she went right back to ignoring me again.

This time it's final if there is one thing good at is cutting chicks out and never looking back.
 

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Tom Leykis just did a show about this that said most men don't love the woman they're with she was just the best he thought he could do at the time. I'm a firm believer that most men just want a stable flow of easily accessible vagina and accept that from the best looking woman they believe they can pull.

statistics say the average man has sex with seven women in his entire life. If that's so then the average guy can't possibly have enough game to have a decent amount of options built up to choose from.

Man I don't believe that shyt at all. I've forgotten the names of more bytches I've fukked that that. nikkas probably had they broad standing next to em when they took that survey.
 

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Just want to add my observations of 21 years

I noticed girls NEVER admit their true attractions. I been with girls that call me cocky and over-confident and say its annoying but I had to make them admit its attractive to them. They love confidence more than anything.

I noticed girls like to be dominated in some form. Not beating them up or anything like that, but some like to be told what to do or anything along those lines. If they ask you what the plan is and you say "i dont know, its up to you" its a wrap. And they all like to be dominated sexually. Thats why slapping ass and pulling hair turns them on.

Girls fukk around just as much as we do. They just always gotta have an excuse for it so they dont look like hoes.

Speaking of homegirls, girls are not true friends to each other. They are extremely jealous of their friends and constantly want to 1 up each other. Some girls chill with uglier chicks on purpose to boost their looks. They secretly dont want each other to win. Notice how you talk to a chick and her homegirl comes and gets in the way, fukking everything up. Exactly.

If she ever mentions another man to you outside of those "serious" conversations you have from time to time, she disrespecting you and will keep doing so until you put her in check.

I've never dated/smashed a girl that was honest to me.

Women without a good relationship with their fathers are a RED FLAG.

Whatever you doing on the low, she's doing it too. Women are NOT more sneaky than men, its just when nikkas catch feelings they instincts turn off. Dont EVER stop thinking she will cheat on you. ALWAYS have that instinct to check and make sure she aint snooping around. If youve had your heart broken before you know what I'm talking about. You wanna go through that again? fukk no, check her.

Men love hard, women love often.

If you 21 and know the bolded already, you a wise one young grasshopper :leon:

Ima be 30 next month, and here's something my 21 year old self would have never admitted to. One day, you'll just be like fukk it :manny:. You'll let your girl win arguments and get her way just to get her to shut the fukk up. As you get older, peace of mind and happiness becomes exponentially more important.

21 year old me: :childplease:
30 year old me: :ehh:

As a youngin I'd stick to my guns, never lie to bytches, and felt it was always important to prove my point. Now, it's just not that important. I'd much rather just have a drink, watch TV, and have a good plate of food to eat.
 

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For the most part, men don't just go beating up females out of nowhere. You've probably only got a taste of what her ex is dealing with. If she's that sensitive now, when she gets comfortable around you, more of it will come out... just think about Halle Berry. At first it was 'those down low and dirty negroes' putting hands on her, until she got with that white boy and it hit the wire that he is supposedly calling her racial names... SAME thing happened with every man she has been with. You better be careful... she might be one of those women that like to push your buttons and see if she can get you to hit her. Have an exit strategy in mind if need be.
 

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Man I don't believe that shyt at all. I've forgotten the names of more bytches I've fukked that that. nikkas probably had they broad standing next to em when they took that survey.
In everyday life the average guy is p*ssy whipped and lucks up into p*ssy and if the chick he's fukkin starts pressuring him to marry her then he gives in. If you've fukked more than 7 women which a man could realistically do in 6 months if he tried then you beat the average.

if you think about it if you spend most of your life stuck inside long term relationships why would you smash more than 7 women in life?
 

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THE LACK OF RESPECT IN RELATIONSHIPS. - YouTube
this is some real shyt

i been around many women that will overtly comment on how another man is fine or looks good. some tv ass nikka and i sat there and let it fly just cause i didn't wanna react and seem jealous.

i didn't even recognize it as a form of disrespect but it is.

Dude from the video sound mad hurt. At least he seems to have smartened up, but you can tell he's suffered some real ether in his lifetime

Yo bruhs,That Youtube video brings up a great ?. How do you handle a woman who constantly mentions her attraction to male celebritys without coming across as insecure? This hasnt happen to me....just a hypothetical :manny:

This has only happened maybe twice in my entire life. 2nd time with my current girl a few weeks ago. We was looking at some pictures and a photo of Idris Elba came up and she said, "damn he fine." I ain't catch feelings because shyt like that never phases me, but a checking had to occur. I told her straight up if I came across a picture of a bad bytch and made a comment like that, you'd be pissed. She fronted talking about "No I wouldn't :mjpls:", and I told her to her face she gat damn lie, and explained to her that all women want to feel like the sexiest women on the planet to their man. And if they don't it'll fukk with their self esteem so bad, they'd want to commit that. I said, but if you want, we can put your theory to the test and see if you really bout dat life playbwoi :birdman:

She said I was right, apologized, and said she'd never do it again. She a young broad, so I give her a little slack here and there, but under no circumstances do I tolerate disrespect of any kind. She knows that, and she knows that I'll check her. She's told me as much, that she needs and wants discipline and structure from her man and it's the 1st time she felt like she couldn't get away with murder and had to bring something to the table in a relationship. Had a nikka feeling like :obama:

Never let a broad feel like she can't be replaced. I remind them that how easy it was for me to get they draws off, I can do that to another broad in a couple of days if she not trying to act right.
 

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In everyday life the average guy is p*ssy whipped and licks up into p*ssy and if the chick he's fukkin starts pressuring him to marry her then he gives in. If you've fukked more than 7 women which a man could realistically do in 6 months if he tried then you beat the average.

Naw breh, I refuse to believe the average man over a 60-70 year life span only smashed 7 broads. Naw breh. You can accidentally fall into some p*ssy 7 times. Go to the club/bar, walk out drunk, spit at the random drunk chick you see, smash, wake up with the :scusthov: look on your face after you realized you fukked a wilderbeast, then tip toe your ass out her crib before she wakes up.
 

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Remember that you're not responsible for her happiness.

Be wary of women that need you in their lives to be happy. It might be an ego boost, but it's really just a sign of instability. All of that "I wanna see you everyday" "I don't know what I'd do without you" or anything that insinuates that her life would fall apart without you is a red flag.

I know sometimes you may feel sorry for a chick that's been through a lot with men and want to give her a chance because she seems like a good girl, but she's damaged goods, that only the manufacturer can fix (her), not the purchaser (you).

Don't sit there and waste your time trying to fix these women. If you do this, you are just as guilty as dude with the cape on.

Deal with women that are comfortable being alone/ in their own skill and simply enjoy your company.

Deal with women that have personal and professional lives outside of your interactions with them.

Deal with women that have come to terms with their past relationship mistakes and failures and date you with optimism that you will be a good look.
 
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