man called this chick who gave me her number at 6pm, 2 hrs later and she hasnt called back, I would rather the chick say no or ignore me when I ask for the number than for me to get it, call and then get ignored. Im 0-4 right now with these okcupid chicks
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HarlemsOwn
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nikkas still talkin on the phone to bytches they just met in 2013
breh you care way to much, just relax its just a women there all over the palce there is nothing special about them
when did i say they were something special, im just annoyed by the BS, i guess I never experience so much of these games that these females play until the past month, never really had to deal with this before
Fam, I'm sorry to say, but you're too old to be acting the way you are. I don't want you to think I'm speaking down to you, this thread was designed so we could help each other out. I need you to realize that nobody on here is purposely trying to insult you, we're sincerely trying to help you out. Your whole problem lies in your mindset, you NEED to take these women off the pedestal. They are just as shy about dating as you are (most likely), the fact that the scales are tipped in their favor at the beginning of the process doesn't change that. You need to find a hobby and put these chicks on the afterburner. I would reccommend you join a gym, not just for physical fitness but also to get your mind right. Spend some time alone, get your priorities in order, I can tell why these women don't find you attractive just from the posts you've written in this thread
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Exactly. Apparently she's pulling shyt like this for years and likes playing games hasn't had stable relationship for just as long as that. I think she gets away with it because she looks 10 years younger than what she is. Asking a total stranger to do something for you when you have perfect functioning legs and hands - AND her man was at the damn BBQ which is the killer! It's like one time a friend and I went to this party and were sitting at the same table as these chicks and after speaking to them for 10 minutes one of them asked us if we could "do a favour" and get more of the folded chairs across the hall because some of their relatives were coming! We just looked at her like she was crazy and said there's no way we were getting up to do shyt she's perfectly capable of doing herself. Then she was like "oh it's because I'm wearing high heels and don't want to walk around too much and I thought you two would have been gentleman....yada yada yada". Eventually when she got up, the bytch wasn't even wearing high heels!
This is the kind of nonsense I'm talking about with a lot of these broads, always testing you. I know the two examples I gave are pretty trivial, but it starts off with something small and then eventually it leads to them wanting you to drive them like you're Morgan Freeman to their "friend's" house several miles away with no contribution to petrol/gas, "lending" them money and running all kinds of errands for them while you get nothing in return then trying to shame you when you refuse. This is how in more serious situations they get dudes to fight their battles for them like that dumb ass idiot who got himself killed breaking into another man's home just because some broad who wasn't even his girlfriend told him that the other guy owed her money.
This nikka hard on elder hoesnikka shutting doors in granny's face like
" U could walk in yourself"
Don't know if you're playing or not, but I'm not the type that wouldn't help out an old woman lift heavy bags or help them across the street etc, but I think you already know what I'm saying.
If you aren't elderly/pregnant/sick get up and do shyt your damn self.
You got 23 year old broads who still think a man should give up a seat for her on the bus because that's what men are "supposed" to do.
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So I posted about this girl at my job that has a bf but flirts with me all the time a while back (Let's call her "M") and I still don't understand her intent. Today she was talking to a co-worker in my dept, asking her where I lived and something else in Spanish (I couldn't make it out but I know she said my name). After they finished talking, M walked over to me smiling and asked if I lived at the store because I'm there all the time lol I guess trying to play it off. I made a joke, we laughed then she went on her way. After she left my co-worker came over and said "Hey, I think she likes you, she was asking me where you live. You should ask her to lunch or a movie, she's very pretty." I wanted to tell her that she has a bf but I want to see if M will end up mentioning him even though she hasn't so far.
It's weird though because every time I see her she's always smiling at me, I mean literally every time. She also doesn't know that I'm her friend on FB (I added her as a friend when she first started working at the store) so I was going to post on her page "Hey I didn't know we're friends on here" but she updated her status "Having an early breakfast with (BF's name) feeling loved :o" so I decided not to because it seemed weird, plus her bf might see it and wonder who I was then shyt happens. I might send her a message today since only she can see it and see what happensLike I said before, I really don't understand her intentions, any help?
yeah dont do it.
It's rough even being friends with a female coworker. nothing but drama. It'll fukk up your job, dude will-
look, man. there's this dude right now who think me and his wife was fukking around cause we was friendly at work..... and only saw each other for 20 minutes a day, tops. He came up to the job, smaked her around and shyt......
she hasn't worked here for a good 6 months. but every so often I get off work and he STLL be driving by my job either looking for me or looking for my old car. Prolly every time they get into an argument.
You wanna sneak around with a girl, dont do it with somebody you work with.
been there, too. Chick turned out to be like 5 foot 5, 180 pounds or something.
I hit it anyway.
Its one of the few legitimate regrets I have.
some dudes might think you're cold but i feel you. Yu can feel it when they ask you and something just doesn't feel right. you feel like they are trying to take advantage.Exactly. Apparently she's pulling shyt like this for years and likes playing games hasn't had stable relationship for just as long as that. I think she gets away with it because she looks 10 years younger than what she is. Asking a total stranger to do something for you when you have perfect functioning legs and hands - AND her man was at the damn BBQ which is the killer! It's like one time a friend and I went to this party and were sitting at the same table as these chicks and after speaking to them for 10 minutes one of them asked us if we could "do a favour" and get more of the folded chairs across the hall because some of their relatives were coming! We just looked at her like she was crazy and said there's no way we were getting up to do shyt she's perfectly capable of doing herself. Then she was like "oh it's because I'm wearing high heels and don't want to walk around too much and I thought you two would have been gentleman....yada yada yada". Eventually when she got up, the bytch wasn't even wearing high heels!
This is the kind of nonsense I'm talking about with a lot of these broads, always testing you. I know the two examples I gave are pretty trivial, but it starts off with something small and then eventually it leads to them wanting you to drive them like you're Morgan Freeman to their "friend's" house several miles away with no contribution to petrol/gas, "lending" them money and running all kinds of errands for them while you get nothing in return then trying to shame you when you refuse. This is how in more serious situations they get dudes to fight their battles for them like that dumb ass idiot who got himself killed breaking into another man's home just because some broad who wasn't even his girlfriend told him that the other guy owed her money.
Don't know if you're playing or not, but I'm not the type that wouldn't help out an old woman lift heavy bags or help them across the street etc, but I think you already know what I'm saying.
If you aren't elderly/pregnant/sick get up and do shyt your damn self.
You got 23 year old broads who still think a man should give up a seat for her on the bus because that's what men are "supposed" to do.
just out of curiosity, what did your vm say?
That's the bottom line to it. There's a big difference between helping someone that's elderly and disabled and between someone who might be a lil older but didn't feel like getting something themselves.
A lot of brothas ain't going to see that side of the game. A lot of women get off on how many favors they can get out of a guy without reciprocating, and after they get that favor, instead of being grateful and appreciative, they look at that guy as some kind of sucker/simp they can keep hitting up for more favors. Just think about the club scenario... a woman walks up to you and asks you to buy her a drink. How many times is the woman truly grateful that you bought her one and really opens up to you as opposed to thinking she got one over on you with her charms? Now the woman in that scenario was 50, but you knew enough about her to know whether she genuinely needed help or not. Where the disrespect came in was she had her man there at that party. You don't ask a random guy you don't know to get you something. You ask your man/husband. If you don't watch yourself, something like that can cause a scene. Imagine if the husband walked by and seen him sitting down and sliding his wife/girfriend a drink. He can very easily take that the wrong way. Also, let's be 100. Why don't these women ever ask other women to do favors like get them drinks and open up doors? As you see, it's an attention game and a lot of these women want to see how far they can go getting guys doing things for them.
Now we are supposed to help the needy, not the greedy. Someone that can do things themselves but don't feel like it because they are too lazy, you don't owe them nothing. Now if she was an elder that really couldn't do for herself or she was your aunt and asked, "Can you go get me a drink?", as a service to a disabled elder or to a family member you say sure. But to a woman you don't know, haven't talked to prior, etc., you don't owe her no favors if she is fully capable of getting it herself. That's why these women have that entitled attitude they do these days.
I wouldn't have the attitude I have towards favors if I knew that most women were grateful and appreciative of you doing something for them instead of most of trying to escalate and ask for something else, and then something else and then get mad when you refuse, as if you owe it to them to do things for them... and what happens when you need a favor? These same women that had all the time in the world for you get gone in the wind and end up 'being busy'. Cats are so quick to do somersaults and flying leaps to help women out that women feel they are OWED favors and if you don't do it for them they have the right to get mad at you.
Exactly. Apparently she's pulling shyt like this for years and likes playing games hasn't had stable relationship for just as long as that. I think she gets away with it because she looks 10 years younger than what she is. Asking a total stranger to do something for you when you have perfect functioning legs and hands - AND her man was at the damn BBQ which is the killer! It's like one time a friend and I went to this party and were sitting at the same table as these chicks and after speaking to them for 10 minutes one of them asked us if we could "do a favour" and get more of the folded chairs across the hall because some of their relatives were coming! We just looked at her like she was crazy and said there's no way we were getting up to do shyt she's perfectly capable of doing herself. Then she was like "oh it's because I'm wearing high heels and don't want to walk around too much and I thought you two would have been gentleman....yada yada yada". Eventually when she got up, the bytch wasn't even wearing high heels!
This is the kind of nonsense I'm talking about with a lot of these broads, always testing you. I know the two examples I gave are pretty trivial, but it starts off with something small and then eventually it leads to them wanting you to drive them like you're Morgan Freeman to their "friend's" house several miles away with no contribution to petrol/gas, "lending" them money and running all kinds of errands for them while you get nothing in return then trying to shame you when you refuse. This is how in more serious situations they get dudes to fight their battles for them like that dumb ass idiot who got himself killed breaking into another man's home just because some broad who wasn't even his girlfriend told him that the other guy owed her money.
Don't know if you're playing or not, but I'm not the type that wouldn't help out an old woman lift heavy bags or help them across the street etc, but I think you already know what I'm saying.
If you aren't elderly/pregnant/sick get up and do shyt your damn self.
You got 23 year old broads who still think a man should give up a seat for her on the bus because that's what men are "supposed" to do.
A lot of brothas ain't going to see that side of the game. A lot of women get off on how many favors they can get out of a guy without reciprocating, and after they get that favor, instead of being grateful and appreciative, they look at that guy as some kind of sucker/simp they can keep hitting up for more favors. Just think about the club scenario... a woman walks up to you and asks you to buy her a drink. How many times is the woman truly grateful that you bought her one and really opens up to you as opposed to thinking she got one over on you with her charms? Now the woman in that scenario was 50, but you knew enough about her to know whether she genuinely needed help or not. Where the disrespect came in was she had her man there at that party. You don't ask a random guy you don't know to get you something. You ask your man/husband. If you don't watch yourself, something like that can cause a scene. Imagine if the husband walked by and seen him sitting down and sliding his wife/girfriend a drink. He can very easily take that the wrong way. Also, let's be 100. Why don't these women ever ask other women to do favors like get them drinks and open up doors? As you see, it's an attention game and a lot of these women want to see how far they can go getting guys doing things for them.
Now we are supposed to help the needy, not the greedy. Someone that can do things themselves but don't feel like it because they are too lazy, you don't owe them nothing. Now if she was an elder that really couldn't do for herself or she was your aunt and asked, "Can you go get me a drink?", as a service to a disabled elder or to a family member you say sure. But to a woman you don't know, haven't talked to prior, etc., you don't owe her no favors if she is fully capable of getting it herself. That's why these women have that entitled attitude they do these days.
I wouldn't have the attitude I have towards favors if I knew that most women were grateful and appreciative of you doing something for them instead of most of trying to escalate and ask for something else, and then something else and then get mad when you refuse, as if you owe it to them to do things for them... and what happens when you need a favor? These same women that had all the time in the world for you get gone in the wind and end up 'being busy'. Cats are so quick to do somersaults and flying leaps to help women out that women feel they are OWED favors and if you don't do it for them they have the right to get mad at you.
lol at texting chicks
i went out friday night and sat night both times i was successfuly brought bytches back home
i must of approached like 10 femaels though..lol lots of L'S or females who just wanted to get to know