Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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question for everyone:

when you come across pics of a chick, and there are no full body pics, and you cant really tell her exact size, do you take the risk of meeting her in public and her being bigger than you thought or do you try to get a full body pic.
 

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question for everyone:

when you come across pics of a chick, and there are no full body pics, and you cant really tell her exact size, do you take the risk of meeting her in public and her being bigger than you thought or do you try to get a full body pic.
That's usually the first sign she's big

Women love attention so the ones with a halfway decent body will show it atleast.
 
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That's usually the first sign she's big

Women love attention so the ones with a halfway decent body will show it atleast.


yeah i know but, from the pics ive seen, if her lower half is the same as her top, im cool with that, but you know how some women have a big lower half and a smaller half, im just curious what the bottom half of her looks like
 

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Brehs,

Had you ever had a issue with the dating scene in your area? Did you have better luck with dating in a different environment that where you have lived or live currently now?


Yup I live in a big city and the women are cold and stu k up, however whenever I have travelled nothing but love.

Even online dating when I did it, I'd be lucky to get a message from a chick. When for fun I'd pit myself in a different city my inbkx would be flooded
 

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Yup I live in a big city and the women are cold and stu k up, however whenever I have travelled nothing but love.

Even online dating when I did it, I'd be lucky to get a message from a chick. When for fun I'd pit myself in a different city my inbkx would be flooded
what cities did u have success at?
 

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Just called chick number #4 from Okcupid. I got her number yesterday, called about 15 minutes ago. No answer, and she hasnt called back yet.....smh
 

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So I posted about this girl at my job that has a bf but flirts with me all the time a while back (Let's call her "M") and I still don't understand her intent. Today she was talking to a co-worker in my dept, asking her where I lived and something else in Spanish (I couldn't make it out but I know she said my name). After they finished talking, M walked over to me smiling and asked if I lived at the store because I'm there all the time lol I guess trying to play it off. I made a joke, we laughed then she went on her way. After she left my co-worker came over and said "Hey, I think she likes you, she was asking me where you live. You should ask her to lunch or a movie, she's very pretty." I wanted to tell her that she has a bf but I want to see if M will end up mentioning him even though she hasn't so far.

It's weird though because every time I see her she's always smiling at me, I mean literally every time. She also doesn't know that I'm her friend on FB (I added her as a friend when she first started working at the store) so I was going to post on her page "Hey I didn't know we're friends on here" but she updated her status "Having an early breakfast with (BF's name) feeling loved :o" so I decided not to because it seemed weird, plus her bf might see it and wonder who I was then shyt happens. I might send her a message today since only she can see it and see what happens :manny: Like I said before, I really don't understand her intentions, any help?
 

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So I posted about this girl at my job that has a bf but flirts with me all the time a while back (Let's call her "M") and I still don't understand her intent. Today she was talking to a co-worker in my dept, asking her where I lived and something else in Spanish (I couldn't make it out but I know she said my name). After they finished talking, M walked over to me smiling and asked if I lived at the store because I'm there all the time lol I guess trying to play it off. I made a joke, we laughed then she went on her way. After she left my co-worker came over and said "Hey, I think she likes you, she was asking me where you live. You should ask her to lunch or a movie, she's very pretty." I wanted to tell her that she has a bf but I want to see if M will end up mentioning him even though she hasn't so far.

It's weird though because every time I see her she's always smiling at me, I mean literally every time. She also doesn't know that I'm her friend on FB (I added her as a friend when she first started working at the store) so I was going to post on her page "Hey I didn't know we're friends on here" but she updated her status "Having an early breakfast with (BF's name) feeling loved :o" so I decided not to because it seemed weird, plus her bf might see it and wonder who I was then shyt happens. I might send her a message today since only she can see it and see what happens :manny: Like I said before, I really don't understand her intentions, any help?
fukk her and leave
 

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So I posted about this girl at my job that has a bf but flirts with me all the time a while back (Let's call her "M") and I still don't understand her intent. Today she was talking to a co-worker in my dept, asking her where I lived and something else in Spanish (I couldn't make it out but I know she said my name). After they finished talking, M walked over to me smiling and asked if I lived at the store because I'm there all the time lol I guess trying to play it off. I made a joke, we laughed then she went on her way. After she left my co-worker came over and said "Hey, I think she likes you, she was asking me where you live. You should ask her to lunch or a movie, she's very pretty." I wanted to tell her that she has a bf but I want to see if M will end up mentioning him even though she hasn't so far.

It's weird though because every time I see her she's always smiling at me, I mean literally every time. She also doesn't know that I'm her friend on FB (I added her as a friend when she first started working at the store) so I was going to post on her page "Hey I didn't know we're friends on here" but she updated her status "Having an early breakfast with (BF's name) feeling loved :o" so I decided not to because it seemed weird, plus her bf might see it and wonder who I was then shyt happens. I might send her a message today since only she can see it and see what happens :manny: Like I said before, I really don't understand her intentions, any help?

A lot of women with men love exploring and seeing what other men are about Honestly, I'd leave her alone, mentally thank her for the ego boost and keep it pushing. Just for the minimization of drama and for respect for what another man is trying to do.

In this day and age, that selfish mentality is encouraged where, "If I don't do it, someone else will," when it comes to situations like this, but stand on strong moral ground and leave a woman that's taken alone. You can wonder about her intentions all you like, but if you mix yourself up with her, nothing positive will happen. SHe's one of those flirty types that are always talking to men even when in a relationship. Steer clear.
 

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So I posted about this girl at my job that has a bf but flirts with me all the time a while back (Let's call her "M") and I still don't understand her intent. Today she was talking to a co-worker in my dept, asking her where I lived and something else in Spanish (I couldn't make it out but I know she said my name). After they finished talking, M walked over to me smiling and asked if I lived at the store because I'm there all the time lol I guess trying to play it off. I made a joke, we laughed then she went on her way. After she left my co-worker came over and said "Hey, I think she likes you, she was asking me where you live. You should ask her to lunch or a movie, she's very pretty." I wanted to tell her that she has a bf but I want to see if M will end up mentioning him even though she hasn't so far.

It's weird though because every time I see her she's always smiling at me, I mean literally every time. She also doesn't know that I'm her friend on FB (I added her as a friend when she first started working at the store) so I was going to post on her page "Hey I didn't know we're friends on here" but she updated her status "Having an early breakfast with (BF's name) feeling loved :o" so I decided not to because it seemed weird, plus her bf might see it and wonder who I was then shyt happens. I might send her a message today since only she can see it and see what happens :manny: Like I said before, I really don't understand her intentions, any help?


dont even do it breh for real, all of these scenarios are possible

1. you smash her bf finds out to cover it up she screams she was raped you lose your job
2. you smash her bf finds out and beats you up or worse kill you
3. you smash and have the :jawalrus: on your face at work she reports to hr you get fired for sexual harrasment.
4. her bf could know her pw to her fb, i know serious relationships i was in i knew their passwords and you send that message
5. there are millions of single women out there that you dont work with RUN
 

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theres nothing good about getting involved with a female who has a bf and is constantly flirting with you. she is bringing a lot of trouble along with her and it isnt worth the hassle. ESPECIALLY if she works with you. think about what it says that 1) she has a bf and flirts with you 2) she works with you so she whenever she wants to she can screw you over in many ways.


once you cross a certain threshold with a scandolous woman, they try to keep you on board and in their sphere. if you try to leave, they try to keep you. you try to stay, they will lose interest or get you jealous. no matter what, dont let a woman catch you slipping and put that work on you
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So I posted about this girl at my job that has a bf but flirts with me all the time a while back (Let's call her "M") and I still don't understand her intent. Today she was talking to a co-worker in my dept, asking her where I lived and something else in Spanish (I couldn't make it out but I know she said my name). After they finished talking, M walked over to me smiling and asked if I lived at the store because I'm there all the time lol I guess trying to play it off. I made a joke, we laughed then she went on her way. After she left my co-worker came over and said "Hey, I think she likes you, she was asking me where you live. You should ask her to lunch or a movie, she's very pretty." I wanted to tell her that she has a bf but I want to see if M will end up mentioning him even though she hasn't so far.

It's weird though because every time I see her she's always smiling at me, I mean literally every time. She also doesn't know that I'm her friend on FB (I added her as a friend when she first started working at the store) so I was going to post on her page "Hey I didn't know we're friends on here" but she updated her status "Having an early breakfast with (BF's name) feeling loved :o" so I decided not to because it seemed weird, plus her bf might see it and wonder who I was then shyt happens. I might send her a message today since only she can see it and see what happens :manny: Like I said before, I really don't understand her intentions, any help?
my nikka.....before i say anything

you tryna wife this girl?

let me give you some game

you prolly already know this

but women just like attention. they gonna seek it anywhere they cant get it

lemme give you a lil story bout my situation and how it ties into this....work related

i worked in an office type setting. and it was with mainly women. all the men was either old or white. so i was the new "hood" "black" kid. of course i talked proper to admin and all that. but the women there all started to compete for my attention. it started gettin real bad to the point they started beeffin with each other. they all wanted me to 'notice' them. i got all they numbers and fukked 2 out of the 7. one of em wanted a relationship so i lost out on smashing. coulda fukked the other ones too but they was ugly. one thing i noticed is that they talk about each other ALL the time. but thats how bytches do. some of em had bfs but i didnt care. i had no intentions of commiting. and im sure they sensed that. these hoes just like to flirt. shyt is in they nature. but word started gettin around. feelings started gettin caught. gossiping started. they found out who was fukkin who. and shyt got crazy. ill never fukk with bytches at work again my nikka

but family...dont fukk that girl. let her slide man. you cant fukk with bytches at work.

she just using you for attention

nothing good comes out of fukkin bytches at work cause they get attached. and once you smash that lust of the chase is gone. and you gonna focus on other hoes. then disaster happen
 
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