I think it's helped me. I mean, I've always been somewhat good looking, but I just had hoe-ish characteristics about myself, and not having a dad kind of contributed to it.
What the thread did for me was, I don't know how to say it, but it basically showed me that it's not the end of the world. What I mean by that is, say if I approach a girl and I get rejected, well it's not the end of the world, or if I get dumped or fired; it's still not the end of the world.
Basically like drake said "I don't get bitter, I just get better"
so using your past to make a better future I guess.
One thing I learned though is that there's a time in your life when your heart tries to teach you to think with your head and not your heart.
As for hating women or single mothers, I don't do that, people are people and who am I to say shyt, I'm trying to learn that instead of having so much negative energy for someone, why not turn it into positive energy for myself.