Essential Quick gems for dealing with men thread :lolbron:

[BrokePhiBroke]

Ask purposeful questions and don't be afraid you'll run him away.

Actually LISTEN to the answer given.

Don't be afraid to get clarification on status.

Don't be afraid to date different men (being exclusive when you aren't) isn't helping you. You are only gonna feel like you've invested so much time that you'll begin to be comfortable even tho that particular man may not be for you and you're at a stand still.

Most importantly be a happy woman with or without a male companion.

Confidence is EVERYTHING...can't stress this enough.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Pick a mate based on their actions and not potential.

I'll add more detail

See, there could be this guy who has his priorities together. He has a career, education, a home, properties and has investments.


In your mind (we've all done this ladies) you think he HAS the potential to share his world with you. When I mean share, the actual courting, dropping gems about investments, vacations, supporting your dreams....

So what do you do? You stay and He keeps you there.

He may "groom" you to make you feel special ladies but that's how he gets you.

"Grooming" is my way of saying he'll take you out to the finest places, he may take you shopping and do shyt like that because it's chump change to him. Spending or giving you $300,500,1000 is like you giving a homeless man $5 meal from Popeyes. It's nothing to him


It's all about how he treats you not "treat" you. There is a HUGE difference. You can tell.

Pay attention to every detail

It's hard because some of us may like older and or established men. Just be careful ladies

 

[VFib]

I'm so used to dating extroverts. He is my first introvert. I'm not sure how two introverts work.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I'm so used to dating extroverts. He is my first introvert. I'm not sure how two introverts work.

That's interesting. Who approached?

 

[VFib]

That's interesting. Who approached?

He did, I think?

A friend ask him to take a pic of us and we went from there. It was a social setting.

 

[Darkslayer]

Ask purposeful questions and don't be afraid you'll run him away.

Actually LISTEN to the answer given.

Don't be afraid to get clarification on status.

Don't be afraid to date different men (being exclusive when you aren't) isn't helping you. You are only gonna feel like you've invested so much time that you'll begin to be comfortable even tho that particular man may not be for you and you're at a stand still.

Most importantly be a happy woman with or without a male companion.

Confidence is EVERYTHING...can't stress this enough.

As a man I hate the idea of a girl secretly keeping a safety net around. That means we’re always one argument away from some nikka running up in our girl

 

[ill_will82]

I'm so used to dating extroverts. He is my first introvert. I'm not sure how two introverts work.

I'm also an introvert and that does sound interesting dating another introvert. I hope that works out for you.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

As a man I hate the idea of a girl secretly keeping a safety net around. That means we’re always one argument away from some nikka running up in our girl

Dating and relationship are two different things.

Dating is getting to "know you stages" nobodies committed. You don't even know if you like each other yet. Why be exclusive and not date mutiple men at this stage?

Relationship is being committed. You both have determined you wanted exclusive rights to each other and basically you're forsaking all others without the vows. Running round with mutiple men at this point is cheating.

 

[DrX]

phi since when did u become a gender expert? u should write a book

 

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Legit gems in this thread

 

[iBrowse]

Legit gems in this thread

List 5 :eyeballmj:

 

[ill_will82]

When this thread happen? I just seen it popped up in my notifications.

 

[Sassy]

I was wondering where this thread went! I was looking for it.

 

[iBrowse]

I was wondering where this thread went! I was looking for it.

You’re welcome:hamsterak:

 

[Sassy]

You’re welcome:hamsterak:

The smiley tho