Question to the females here..a broke,loving ***** who shower you with attention or..

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

A paid,anti-lovey dovey[no i love you's,no pda..no constant 'baby u look good today'] nikka who cares bout u just the same
-makes sure you eating good
-roof over your head
-aint gotta worry bout any bills
-vacations,shopping,car notes all taken care of with no sweat
-lays pipe a couple times a week..
-aint trying to be with your ass all the time..but when he does...treats u like a queen
-Always out and bout doing fun stuff
-Compliments you seldomly
-Treats u with respect
-Hardly brings u around his friends
-short phone convos
-few texts

Broke nikka
Always up under you
Always says 'i love u'..mucho pda
Always micro-managing bills and watching his money
No extra $$ for shopping,eating out etc
Always complimenting you
Home body with no hobbies
shows u off to his friends
Treats u with respect

which one u would u rather be with?




p.s guys you're welcome to chime in..no homos,no trannies like **** and ClassyMe

 

[Sharp]

They're going to create a dude who is perfect.

 

[HelgaPataki]

A paid,anti-lovey dovey[no i love you's,no pda..no constant 'baby u look good today'] nikka who cares bout u just the same
-makes sure you eating good
-roof over your head
-aint gotta worry bout any bills
-vacations,shopping,car notes all taken care of with no sweat
-lays pipe a couple times a week..
-aint trying to be with your ass all the time..but when he does...treats u like a queen
-Always out and bout doing fun stuff
-Compliments you seldomly
-Treats u with respect
-Hardly brings u around his friends
-short phone convos
-few texts

i don't like lovey dovey anyway

 

[Petty Crocker]

I would take the "broke" dude..work with him, help him get a better job so we would be able to do more things outside of our usual...By the way you described him, it doesn't seem as if he's broke..seems like he doesn't have extra cash to do want he wants but he is able to make sure he's working and the bills are paid..

I cant speak for other women but I love compliments and intimacy..I want to be able to laugh and talk with my partner..I want him to be my best friend..no amount of money can make up for an out of touch neega.

 

[TRUEST]

A paid,anti-lovey dovey[no i love you's,no pda..no constant 'baby u look good today'] nikka who cares bout u just the same
-makes sure you eating good
-roof over your head
-aint gotta worry bout any bills
-vacations,shopping,car notes all taken care of with no sweat
-lays pipe a couple times a week..
-aint trying to be with your ass all the time..but when he does...treats u like a queen
-Always out and bout doing fun stuff
-Compliments you seldomly
-Treats u with respect
-Hardly brings u around his friends
-short phone convos
-few texts

Broke nikka
Always up under you
Always says 'i love u'..mucho pda
Always micro-managing bills and watching his money
No extra $$ for shopping,eating out etc
Always complimenting you
Home body with no hobbies
shows u off to his friends
Treats u with respect

which one u would u rather be with?




p.s guys you're welcome to chime in..no homos,no trannies like **** and ClassyMe

the options you provided are so far apart that 99% of the women that respond to this thread will pick the first one.

try moving some of the choices in option 1 to option 2, then u'll get realistic poll results

 

[Jasmine20]

I'll take the paid dude. I'm not a lovey dovey person either.

 

[Petty Crocker]

the options you provided are so far apart that 99% of the women that respond to this thread will pick the first one.

try moving some of the choices in option 1 to option 2, then u'll get realistic poll results

I must be that 1% then

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

I would take the "broke" dude..work with him, help him get a better job so we would be able to do more things outside of our usual...By the way you described him, it doesn't seem as if he's broke..seems like he doesn't have extra cash to do want he wants but he is able to make sure he's working and the bills are paid..

I cant speak for other women but I love compliments and intimacy..I want to be able to laugh and talk with my partner..I want him to be my best friend..no amount of money can make up for an out of touch neega.

How is he out of touch?

'Broke' dude is just getting by..

 

[AgentGrey]

I would take the "broke" dude..work with him, help him get a better job so we would be able to do more things outside of our usual...By the way you described him, it doesn't seem as if he's broke..seems like he doesn't have extra cash to do want he wants but he is able to make sure he's working and the bills are paid..

I cant speak for other women but I love compliments and intimacy..I want to be able to laugh and talk with my partner..I want him to be my best friend..no amount of money can make up for an out of touch neega.

tee you're gorgeous on the inside too

Spoiler

Is u?

and OP it sounds to me like you leaned it towards the rich nikka side.​

 

[Petty Crocker]

U said paid dude :
Hardly texts, short phone calls, never brings me around his friends, no I love you, and no compliments..why would I wanna be with a neega that does that? Sounds like I'm not his woman but more like a mistress..No thanks

And my job as a girlfriend is support and encourage my man..Hell, I can help him come up..pull a couple of strings, call in a couple favors and get him the better job

 

[Petty Crocker]

tee you're gorgeous on the inside too

Spoiler

Is u?

and OP it sounds to me like you leaned it towards the rich nikka side.​

Thank you baby.

 

[Luchini]

Probably the broke one. I like affection

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

and OP it sounds to me like you leaned it towards the rich nikka side.[/CENTER]

Well i was actually trying to go easy on the 'broke' nikka

Yall have seen one of these dudes

makes less than his girl..always tight with money..but he doesnt want to leave her side..very affectionate to the point he may seem like he compensating for something


and Sensational..i never said Paid nikka doesnt compliment..just not all the time
He is just not very affectionate and sentimental
But he care bout you a lot and makes sure all your needs are met..
Think i made that clear..

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

u clearly stacked the deck to favor the first one.

society clearly trying to teach go for the baller but most girls get screwed over by the scrubs anyway.

by the time u get to ballin, these girls already been ran thru by the dudes u wanna call "losers" cuz they ain't stackin chips. but they damn sure catchin bodies.

plus y u gotta ask what girls want anyway? lookin for online validation cuz reality don't work the way u want?

 

[Petty Crocker]

Well i was actually trying to go easy on the 'broke' nikka

Yall have seen one of these dudes

makes less than his girl..always tight with money..but he doesnt want to leave her side..very affectionate to the point he may seem like he compensating for something

and Sensational..i never said Paid nikka doesnt compliment..just not all the time
He is just not very affectionate and sentimental
But he care bout you a lot and makes sure all your needs are met..
Think i made that clear..

I'm just confused as to how he he can care about me and not be affectionate..I don't like dudes that are hard all the time..if there is anyone you should let your guard down with and be affectionate with is with your lady....and he is not meeting my needs if he's not doing that..I like reassurance and affirmations..to me silence leaves a lot of things up for misinterpretation