"Trina in a Pants suit"
Goddamn you nikkas are hilarious
Goddamn you nikkas are hilarious
Playing Devils Advocate: Should Black men have to look at ourselves for our women not respecting us?
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Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
I agree when I actually examine myself I think why should a woman choose me over the guy she really wants whether he is "good" or "bad" is irrelevant. Gotta work on yourself first
VFib
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To be honest, when I read your posts I picture you as a broken hearted 19-21 year old who had trouble getting the girls he wanted in HS.
But if you don't think you bash BW then my opinion shouldn't matter.
BTW, I don't hate black men. I'm marrying a great one next year.
But if you don't think you bash BW then my opinion shouldn't matter.
BTW, I don't hate black men. I'm marrying a great one next year.
@VFib @PeridotPuss @ChiefQueen y'all think that I bash black women like that? Or even hate black women?
I be honest, a lot of black men be slacking. Thinking about their dikks and ego over the bigger picture. That'd why there are a lot of Flava Flav's and Beanie Sigels in our community, in their 40s, 50s, and 60s thinking like teenagers. Even their children be likewhen their own father don't strive to be anything but a statistic. In this Era of police brutality and gentrification, America made it very clear that they got no more room for immature adults that don't think about wealth. This country is about to be a Banana Republic, so in other words, if you not born into wealth, you gonna stay broke forever. Social mobility will soon be a thing of the past as cost of living artificially inflates beyond control.
I'll say this.....
The more I examine feminism the more it reeks of pseudo-masculinity and I wouldn't be surprised if the founding people of this cancerous ideology were the elites men. So the irony to me at least in my opinion it is men's fault.
That's impossible you're always gonna offend someone no matter what.
The more I examine feminism the more it reeks of pseudo-masculinity and I wouldn't be surprised if the founding people of this cancerous ideology were
That's impossible you're always gonna offend someone no matter what.
Black american men need to finally accept the fact that you can't have what is basically a matrifocal bubble, in which your women and children go through another race of men for their provisions, yet get angry that they don't treat you like patriarchs.
HollowPoints2
Don Makaveli.
Great point.
American black men of today are not deserving of the respect from our women because we have not created the employment opportunities along with a support system that would keep them from becoming prostitutes or degrading themselves in any other way.
The only part I disagree with you on is when you criticized men who job stacking cans as a job. A two-parent income can maintain a family while working at McDonalds, Burger King or any other basic entry-level job. But hopefully he has bigger dreams and ambitions and is preparing himself to do better things.
So a man who makes an honest living regardless of what type of job it is,is deserving of respect from his women.
In your first paragraph you said a womend don't want to reproduce with someone who doesn't have much,but black women have been reproducing with Pookie and Ray Ray for the past 30 years who are dead broke unemployable felons.
So that part wasn't true.
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Yes, because black women actually have a valid reason to be tired. We don't provide jobs for them, ourselves or our children.. Can someone explain how that's respectable? Then on top of that, we bytch about how we don't get the treatment other men get (while not providing what other mens' patriarchys provide)
Black men rely on white men to employ, feed, clothe, protect, house etc himself and his people. We don't build our own shyt together, we just go to them for jobs, resources, etc
If you have to rely on another race of men to eat, what does that really say? Like if right now, white men started laying off a large amount of black men at random (more than they already are doing), how would most legally get paid? Would it push us to create our own jobs finally? Would we even know how? No matter how you slice it, we're too dependent on other races of men.
The answer is this. If black men don't want to be viewed and treated as dependent, we need to own our own shyt (and protect it ourselves) instead of going through another race of men for it. Own our businesses, houses, etc. I guarantee you we'd see a more positive shift in black women, and less of us would come online complaining about being treated differently than other races of men. Would things be perfect? No, but there would definitely be a noticeable positive shift.
The problem is, Black men as a group want the respect that other races receive from their women, without providing as much as they do for their women.
nikkas used to blame it all on the white man but now that we see other "minority" men building and practicing group economics, that excuse is getting old and the truth is becoming plain to see.
And me saying this does not mean i'm saying black women are perfect. That's what kills me, these dudes on here act like if you critique black men, then you're saying black women are above critique. I've critiqued black women plenty of times, but this topic is about us. If the topic were about black women then i would specify what they need to improve on, but it's about black men. These dudes can never stay on topic when it's about us and immediately deflect, "B-b-but what about what THEY'RE DOING
" Can't nikkas stay on topic for once instead of changing the subject to black women, white men, anybody else except ourselves
Black men rely on white men to employ, feed, clothe, protect, house etc himself and his people. We don't build our own shyt together, we just go to them for jobs, resources, etc
If you have to rely on another race of men to eat, what does that really say? Like if right now, white men started laying off a large amount of black men at random (more than they already are doing), how would most legally get paid? Would it push us to create our own jobs finally? Would we even know how? No matter how you slice it, we're too dependent on other races of men.
The answer is this. If black men don't want to be viewed and treated as dependent, we need to own our own shyt (and protect it ourselves) instead of going through another race of men for it. Own our businesses, houses, etc. I guarantee you we'd see a more positive shift in black women, and less of us would come online complaining about being treated differently than other races of men. Would things be perfect? No, but there would definitely be a noticeable positive shift.
The problem is, Black men as a group want the respect that other races receive from their women, without providing as much as they do for their women.
nikkas used to blame it all on the white man but now that we see other "minority" men building and practicing group economics, that excuse is getting old and the truth is becoming plain to see.
And me saying this does not mean i'm saying black women are perfect. That's what kills me, these dudes on here act like if you critique black men, then you're saying black women are above critique. I've critiqued black women plenty of times, but this topic is about us. If the topic were about black women then i would specify what they need to improve on, but it's about black men. These dudes can never stay on topic when it's about us and immediately deflect, "B-b-but what about what THEY'RE DOING
" Can't nikkas stay on topic for once instead of changing the subject to black women, white men, anybody else except ourselves
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
50 year old black gangbanger doing gang handshakes with a nikka half his age being broadcast on t.v. nikkas lost.
Black men pay taxes yet there communities have been deprived of crucial infrastructure
When the government you pay taxes to deprives your community of the infrastructure you already payed for hopelessness sets in
Since womem dont respect us for not being allowed to build in this foreign land where we are only 13 percent of the population
Should black men and women stop dealing with each other for the next 100 years?
Because becoming self sufficient in a country where you were never meant to build will take a while
Since no man wants to build and sacrifice for a woman that doesnt respect him
And no woman wants to respect a man that is not building for her and her children
I say black people might as well not even deal with each other no more
Because our women feel devoid of any role in this so called building and its all on the men
I say fukk it
When the government you pay taxes to deprives your community of the infrastructure you already payed for hopelessness sets in
Since womem dont respect us for not being allowed to build in this foreign land where we are only 13 percent of the population
Should black men and women stop dealing with each other for the next 100 years?
Because becoming self sufficient in a country where you were never meant to build will take a while
Since no man wants to build and sacrifice for a woman that doesnt respect him
And no woman wants to respect a man that is not building for her and her children
I say black people might as well not even deal with each other no more
Because our women feel devoid of any role in this so called building and its all on the men
I say fukk it
HollowPoints2
Don Makaveli.
The first course of action should be black men contacting the Congressional Black Caucus and other black political representatives who have misled their constituents.
It's going to have to start in the political arena first by asking hard questions in regards to the policies the Democrat Party offers the black community.
It's the Democrat philosophy that has destroyed the black family so until that philosophy is challenged by questions, it will continue.
If you don't want to be Republican fine, just get the Democrat Party to change their platform because it has not benefited the black community over the past 40 years.
That's your only option if you're not willing to switch parties.
Fix or change the part of your in.
Black Sinatra
Raised Glass to the Squandered Potentials..
Black men should be looking at themselves daily.
Without regard to how black women, men, society treats you.
This is a quantifiable de-evolution of intrinsic awareness of self. Every year/generation post this internet era has resulted in a curious byproduct to the human ego. Currently, a hazardous percentage of a persons self worth is expected to be redeemed from external social entities. There are sweeping populations of western males that truly cannot with confidence and clarity identify "who they are and what they stand for."
Honestly brehs. I can't emphasize enough of the power of introspection combined with self determined principle and value setting. It's really that easy. In my younger and adult life, nothing has served me better than being able to honestly conduct myself according to my value and principle; equally being able to articulate my mind....being even keeled. Too many men are being emotionally polarized these days...too invested to make a mature navigation among simple subjects. Unbalanced men. Black men should take great strides to manufacture the best version of themselves and evolve until death. Black women are women first and a woman of substance will ALWAYS be attracted to a man of substance.
Without regard to how black women, men, society treats you.
This is a quantifiable de-evolution of intrinsic awareness of self. Every year/generation post this internet era has resulted in a curious byproduct to the human ego. Currently, a hazardous percentage of a persons self worth is expected to be redeemed from external social entities. There are sweeping populations of western males that truly cannot with confidence and clarity identify "who they are and what they stand for."
Honestly brehs. I can't emphasize enough of the power of introspection combined with self determined principle and value setting. It's really that easy. In my younger and adult life, nothing has served me better than being able to honestly conduct myself according to my value and principle; equally being able to articulate my mind....being even keeled. Too many men are being emotionally polarized these days...too invested to make a mature navigation among simple subjects. Unbalanced men. Black men should take great strides to manufacture the best version of themselves and evolve until death. Black women are women first and a woman of substance will ALWAYS be attracted to a man of substance.
BrandonBanks
Arab Money
luciddreamer
All Star
Some of yall need to get out more and see the world honestly...or volunteer with the at risk young black men yall talk so highly of.
The BasedFather
Task Force
I've already abandoned that ideology. I only look out for myself, my family and people who seek help and I've never felt more peaceful. Not about to stress myself out worrying for black people if they don't want change. Our "community" is like a ship that's slowly sinking and won't be repaired anytime soon and I'm not about to sit around waiting for people to miraculously change because life is too short.
I've recently become open to interracial dating as well
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Wow, that may be one of the best posts I've ever read on here