Playing Devils Advocate: Should Black men have to look at ourselves for our women not respecting us?

[WELLDONE]

That has nothing to do with the premise of the thread tho. If anybody is deflecting its you

nikka this a drx thread anything goes my man

 

[VFib]

I'm so mad that good hearted woman had to be flat bootied.
:BigSmile:

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Alotta nikkas got it twisted, Woman dont want weak man period. Like if you're docile and limp wrist...a bytch basically, no woman is going to want to be with u. Alotta black men got it twisted bad, if you cant make a woman feel like a woman she'll never respect you. Because contrary to popular belief, if you're trying hard to do something, real black women will be your biggest supporter. Yall confuse black woman with thots. thots are cum dumpsters. but dumb nikkas chase them and lust after them , and when they get rejected or played, they wanna paint all BW with that brush. Why cant u just get with an avg looking, flat booty with a good heart BW nikka? Why do u need Trina in a pants suit nikka? the lord made that woman for u, but instead u spend everyday jerking your dikk off to porn and become all infatuated with porn sluts, and crave one. u want a damn ho, thats an educated and a good mom , that allow u to fukk other woman...u nikkas are delusional too btw

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm so mad that good hearted woman had to be flat bootied.

 

[freetroit]

Black men love calling themselves men and comparing their behavior to women's behavior to justify why they do what they do.

Quiet cac
You never been with a woman yet your so in tune with them
Sit down

 

[PeridotPuss]

I'm so mad that good hearted woman had to be flat bootied.
:BigSmile:

so many quotables.

@DrX went IN in the OP.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

This post is going to hurt a lot of peoples feelings.
Yeah.
Most Black men's problems can be attributed to two things.
1) Single mothers raising them.
2) Black men suffer from chronic immaturity.

I might get bashed for this but it needs to said that black men are generally the most immature men on the planet. A lot of us do not grow up. The way you see some black men in his 30's act, I guarantee he acted the same way in his teen years.
Ask him about his goals when he is 16. "p*ssy and paper bruh"
Ask him when he is 25 "p*ssy and paper bruh"
Ask him when he is 35 "p*ssy and paper brother"
Ask him when he is 45 "p*ssy and paper"
ad infinitum

Alot of black men do not mentally age past their teen years, and will make the same ignorant mistakes over and over again. Further evidence of this is how older cats can instantly connect with the younger ones despite being a generation apart. You want to know why? Because they talk about and strive for the same three things: p*ssy, Paper and sports.
I mean shyt, talking about money is cool though right? In the right context absolutely. If you talking about stocks, property, world markets and currencies, real estate, investments. But no, the conversation always involves what they will spend the money on; women, cars, clothes, drugs. The aversion to making a plan to save money (if you are capable of course) is telltale sign of immaturity.

Black women on average are much more mentally mature than black men. But they don't get out of this one either. Black women, despite their maturity, will make fukked up decisions for a mate. I mean fukked up.
They know who he is and what he does, what he will bring to the table and they still choose, thus creating a self perpetuating cycle. Women of all races do this but we do it at higher numbers. This wouldn't be a big deal if it was a limited, isolated thing. Unfortunately its not.

I love my people but it's looking more and more hopeless, I might have to abandon this whole 'We are in this together" and look out for my myself and my own, and if I can uplift anyone willing I will do my best to do so.

 

[freetroit]

So what exactly is yall fault?

Edit.... nevermind



It's really sad how much black people in this country seem to hate themselves and each other. It's really gotten ridiculous.

I told you

Fathers were defeated by their daughters and accepted defeat

Thats their fault

But once your father is gone you no longer have to honor his legacy

Compare the guys your father would want you to date

Compared to the guys women want to date

 

[Apollo Creed]

not all, im speaking on the ones that do....yes some are damaged and should be trashed...BUT the ones that are doing the right thing should be awarded tho

anyway this black thing at this point is pretty much on its way out, so yall better figure something or just realize their wont be no future

I never met a woman that didnt respect me so I cant relate .

BM who dont have their ish together tend to deal with women who arent worthy of being honored because they dont have any power to have leverage. Lotta BM and BW have a Mother son relationship instead of a Man and Woman relationship. White supremacy uses black women as their lap dogs because by nature the womans role is to manage and not build. Women will manage which ever system they live under, they will not disrupt it without the lead of a man willing to do so. By nature the man is the one who builds society and women manage it. The man is law and the woman is the judge/enforcer. So if the law of the land is the white man you cant be surprised BW are enforcing and judging you by those laws.

 

[freetroit]

I'm so mad that good hearted woman had to be flat bootied.
:BigSmile:

Vfib you gotta flat booty

You know you can go get implants and hydrogel right

Go get a big ass and stop crying

 

[PeridotPuss]

My serious opinion: Black men wide and large have been discouraged from and shut out of the traditional means of social success and as such, have defined their own forms of "achievement" and "power" sadly built largely around hypermasculinity, the destruction/management/dominance of (multiple) women, physical and superficial attributes and then appearing successful in those ways I just mentioned to each other.

Just my thoughts

 

[DrX]

nikka this a drx thread anything goes my man

yup....

 

[Matt504]

Quiet cac
You never been with a woman yet your so in tune with them
Sit down

You nikkas love speculating on other nikkas dikks. You the Steven A Smith of dikks.

 

[freetroit]

This post is going to hurt a lot of peoples feelings.
Yeah.
Most Black men's problems can be attributed to two things.
1) Single mothers raising them.
2) Black men suffer from chronic immaturity.

I might get bashed for this but it needs to said that black men are generally the most immature men on the planet. A lot of us do not grow up. The way you see some black men in his 30's act, I guarantee he acted the same way in his teen years.
Ask him about his goals when he is 16. "p*ssy and paper bruh"
Ask him when he is 25 "p*ssy and paper bruh"
Ask him when he is 35 "p*ssy and paper brother"
Ask him when he is 45 "p*ssy and paper"
ad infinitum

Alot of black men do not mentally age past their teen years, and will make the same ignorant mistakes over and over again. Further evidence of this is how older cats can instantly connect with the younger ones despite being a generation apart. You want to know why? Because they talk about and strive for the same three things: p*ssy, Paper and sports.
I mean shyt, talking about money is cool though right? In the right context absolutely. If you talking about stocks, property, world markets and currencies, real estate, investments. But no, the conversation always involves what they will spend the money on; women, cars, clothes, drugs. The aversion to making a plan to save money (if you are capable of course) is telltale sign of immaturity.

Black women on average are much more mentally mature than black men. But they don't get out of this one either. Black women, despite their maturity, will make fukked up decisions for a mate. I mean fukked up.
They know who he is and what he does, what he will bring to the table and they still choose, thus creating a self perpetuating cycle. Women of all races do this but we do it at higher numbers. This wouldn't be a big deal if it was a limited, isolated thing. Unfortunately its not.

I love my people but it's looking more and more hopeless, I might have to abandon this whole 'We are in this together" and look out for my myself and my own, and if I can uplift anyone willing I will do my best to do so.

You are right


Because black people under a systematic oppression are forced into child like roles

But back in the day there were lots of black men who did not play games

They were fazed out

Kinda like how the coli is being overun by cacs and fags today.

Those real black fathers were usurped in this country

Therefore the strong black father is an enemy of the state

 

[DrX]

This post is going to hurt a lot of peoples feelings.
Yeah.
Most Black men's problems can be attributed to two things.
1) Single mothers raising them.
2) Black men suffer from chronic immaturity.

I might get bashed for this but it needs to said that black men are generally the most immature men on the planet. A lot of us do not grow up. The way you see some black men in his 30's act, I guarantee he acted the same way in his teen years.
Ask him about his goals when he is 16. "p*ssy and paper bruh"
Ask him when he is 25 "p*ssy and paper bruh"
Ask him when he is 35 "p*ssy and paper brother"
Ask him when he is 45 "p*ssy and paper"
ad infinitum

Alot of black men do not mentally age past their teen years, and will make the same ignorant mistakes over and over again. Further evidence of this is how older cats can instantly connect with the younger ones despite being a generation apart. You want to know why? Because they talk about and strive for the same three things: p*ssy, Paper and sports.
I mean shyt, talking about money is cool though right? In the right context absolutely. If you talking about stocks, property, world markets and currencies, real estate, investments. But no, the conversation always involves what they will spend the money on; women, cars, clothes, drugs. The aversion to making a plan to save money (if you are capable of course) is telltale sign of immaturity.

Black women on average are much more mentally mature than black men. But they don't get out of this one either. Black women, despite their maturity, will make fukked up decisions for a mate. I mean fukked up.
They know who he is and what he does, what he will bring to the table and they still choose, thus creating a self perpetuating cycle. Women of all races do this but we do it at higher numbers. This wouldn't be a big deal if it was a limited, isolated thing. Unfortunately its not.

I love my people but it's looking more and more hopeless, I might have to abandon this whole 'We are in this together" and look out for my myself and my own, and if I can uplift anyone willing I will do my best to do so.

thats what im saying...look at that nikka beanie sigel...hes our elder and i cant even respect his behavior on the BC...its like nikka grow up

thats why the kids dont respect their elders...because u got older cats acting like the kids ....hell old nikkas only talk about bytches and paper....its a fukked up mentally cycle...nikkas in their 60s