White women are more forward in their approach. I always thought it was just anecdotal. It's not.
In college white women were never shy if they liked me.
"Jazz, I like you."
I only ever heard that from white girls. Black girls were more shy and coy. I'm not talking about being told that while in a relationship or even dating. I'm talking about me hanging out in the library on the computer and white girl comes up to me and tells me she likes me to my face. I never saw a black girl be that direct and cold blooded.
When I had a gf they could come to my dorm room and try to steal me from her. White women do not play if they want a man. Black women in my experience waste a lot of time. I don't understand where it comes from.
It's funny because the stereotype is that black women tend to express what they want and are more direct than white women but it's not my lived experience. If a white woman wants a man she makes it known. She does not play. Black girls get more direct with age but when I was younger they definitely weren't doing the whole "I like you" unless I went up to them. They felt they were too good to be that vulnerable with a boy.
I don't understand where it comes from and they are losing due to this strategy.