Pawg is tired of this era of men NOT cold approaching

BaggerofTea

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I'll never NOT cold approach. Thats just who I am. It's treated me well in general despite the climate so I have no reason not to. It's only an issue if they aren't attracted to you or you dont know how to speak to women.

I dont think men dont do it because they are scared like she's claiming, they dont do it because women in general have told them not to. I just do it anyway because my ego tells me I'm an exception. Only way to know is to do it regardless.
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eh most dudes simply dont have a mouth piece.

haivng the ability to engage with a woman normally gives you the confidence to approach and make yourself available outside the influence of outside forces.

the ability to have adult engaging conversations with human beings is more important than you think.
 

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Phone calls are only for official business. You better just msg if you want to talk about sports or what you just ate. :ufdup:


Right, I mean, I don't just call a girl I just met, or whatever example fits, my boys call me a lot, we are all in our 30's mostly

I understand that as a new social norm, but 15 years ago, it was way less common to text with your boys/or whoever, and that in itself changed communication. You can't be as controlled, or as avoidant, on a phone call, whereas text can give such distance, and control to each party.

I think in person communication has overall changed too. I somewhat noticed a trend that people, not just in different cultures, are way less aware of people's space. Like moving out of the way. Or making space. They are just staring at phones.
 

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She saying she want some dikk :manny: Even men in here area find her attractive she’s saying she’s ready …what’s the problem it’s not that deep or discussion worthy
 

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Odd thing about this thread was I don't remember the women protesting cold calling and more to do with men disrespecting them when they don't want to talk to them. Also its funny how the opinion of an white women that repeats every wiz verse as all women
 

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Imma just say, if you feel the need to cold approach to meet women or need to be cold approached as a woman, you probably ain’t doing shyt in your life.

Way easier and better to meet people organically through things like church, community service, hobbies, etc….
 

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some brehs in Canada got game and got shamed via MeToo on social media, and one got taken to court for SE because she regretted kissing him because according to her, he didnt look like his pic on a dating app, He never smashed just some kisses.. she went to his crib.

You must be an old head, alot of you old heads haven't stepped out of the time machine. You had it good, but it's more scary now. Gotta pick and choose differently now.
What you just described isn’t cold approaching tho
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Do a lot of women really have no foresight?


How men get blamed from no longer cold approaching when EVERYTHING men used to do to pull women is considered predatory, toxic masculinity and men get publicly shamed or “metoo”d into oblivion.. especially black men.

Men are not going to want to get embarrassed, shamed, AND rejected.

Like I said, dudes have been thinking about passsports before the YouTube nikkas brought it to attention. Not even just bm
 

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What you just described isn’t cold approaching tho
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Of course, it was in response to a post about GAME, game is not just about cold approach. It can be used in any environment. That said, the consequences for this generation is not the same as it was for old heads back in the day. You see breh posted he got a police warning for cold approach.
 
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