‘Over 30, dating in LA is awful’

[Tr0yTV]

She is a bad actress. Fake tears to generate traffic to her socials. FDB

 

[Piff Perkins]

I think this chick is either too picky or a weirdo. No reason any decent looking chick would struggle with dating anywhere in America. American men have super low standards

Feels like she’s externalizing her personal problems with men into all women in LA

She’s in LA and clearly only dates white men. If you’re a successful white man in LA why would you date someone as dreary and weird as this chick when there are endless amounts of pawgs, Latinas and Asians to date? Not to mention the normal black women who don’t talk like a tumblr bot.

 

[Buzzed Lightyear]

That's some next level thirst trapping that'll get her some movie auditions.

 

[alpo]

That old nikka be right

 

[ThatTruth777]

Man you can tell them they're beautiful, show it and whatever else. They can look good but self-esteem is in the gutter.

 

[Ohene]

my parents been together for nearly 40 years, was it all peaches and rainbows? Nah but they stuck together. Many women from broken homes they never have experienced that, seeing dad and mom fight but work through their issues and get back together.

More than likely the cycle repeats for many of these broads, even if they get married they get divorced them generational curse and ties that have not been broken.


As I got older and cavorted with more and more women I stopped feeling sorry for the majority of them. Discernment is key and they have it but like you mentioned he's not this or he's not that.

Yup

you cant underestimate the importance of having an example of a healthy relationship right in front of you. As i got older there were times i even asked my parents if they were happy in their marriage, what they thought about marriage etc and they always gave grounded answers. Most importantly they always talked about the patience relationships required . Seeing and hearing everything gave me a realistic view of what a successful relationship looks like as opposed to a lot of the fairy tale bs that has been taught through the media

 

[Flywin Lannister]

30 (her life really just started..)
On TikTok

“why won’t a real man take me serious??”

Why won’t a real man take her serious?



















How about get yo ass off a children’s app.

And stop focusing on what you don’t have. You’ll get way more of it and exude more of it.

Hope she finds love

 

[#1 pick]

Its cringy watching a grown adult crying over anything outside of a death of a family member, maybe thats just me

Edit:

This woman can definently get a good man, she needs to readjust who she wants though

It's not that easy in cities like LA or DC. I used to date in DC and LO fukkING L, the females there that I at least dated were the worst. Hoes or worse.

That said, if she was in the suburb of Houston, she getting some church nikka for sure.

 

[Ohene]

I remember asking my mom one day why she chose to get with my dad

and her reason was simple

she said that if nothing else she knew that my dad would be somebody who could educate and provide for the children (he was a professor when they met).

I’m not saying women shouldnt strive for a bit more; after all life is far more complex than it was in the 80s. But compare that to the laundry list of shyt girls ask for nowadays.

 

[#1 pick]

Oh well,


Clearly she made some poor decisions in her 20’s so now she is paying for it now. Someone will scoop her up but this “I need to record my pain for social media” is getting really old. Get off line and go find someone

You can make great decisions in your 20s and still be assed out

 

[#1 pick]

She’s a very attractive black woman. I feel for her. She should move to the South. I’d put a baby in her and fulfill her life’s desires. I’d even work 60hrs a week to put a rock on her finger. Hell, I’d move to LA to wife her. I’ve heard it never rains in Southern California. I’ll bring that diamond girl, cuz iiiim so into you, cuz they tell me! It never rains in Southern California, and they tellll meee, it never rains in Southern California!

Lol, you don't know her dawg. Yall gotta stop putting rings on broads just cause they look good. Substance.... and looks

 

[Deafheaven]

situations like his has made me completely apathetic to womens sob stories.

I got a homegirl always whining about not finding someone worthwihle. Dates nothing but weirdo cacs, like literally carbon copies of each other and then wonders why they all fail. then tries to say shes pro black

her rationale is she can't date someone who doesn't have the same obscure ass interests as her (shes goth, likes metal etc, shyt most nikkas don't) and I'm like...you do realize you don't need to like every single thing your partner does to have a healthy relatoinship Nope, cac after cac after cac. I love her as a friend but every time she start talking about her latest failure I'm like Shes a very pretty girl too so its like nikkas don't holla but since they don't like death metal they not in contention. Women have the dumbest fukking checklists for partners imaginable.

 

[#1 pick]

A lot of these broads are the reason they’re single. I’m turning 30 this year And I was talking to this shorty that was constantly mentioning how men are the reason she’s been single for 6 years now.

we spoke for about 3-4 months. Needless to say, SHE is the reason she’s been single for 6 years. It’s true what they say. Pretty single women are either crazy, clingy or narcissistic they’re single for a reason. Have your fun and move on because it ALWAYS comes to light. You will come to the realization of “yeah this type of shyt is exactly why this bytch is single.” I’m out

nikkas ain't passing up on bad bytches for no reason

 

[#1 pick]

situations like his has made me completely apathetic to womens sob stories.

I got a homegirl always whining about not finding someone worthwihle. Dates nothing but weirdo cacs, like literally carbon copies of each other and then wonders why they all fail. then tries to say shes pro black

her rationale is she can't date someone who doesn't have the same obscure ass interests as her (shes goth, likes metal etc, shyt most nikkas don't) and I'm like...you do realize you don't need to like every single thing your partner does to have a healthy relatoinship Nope, cac after cac after cac. I love her as a friend but every time she start talking about her latest failure I'm like Shes a very pretty girl too so its like nikkas don't holla but since they don't like death metal they not in contention. Women have the dumbest fukking checklists for partners imaginable.

She's being LSA typish not realizing white guys generally don't like you like that. Not marriage and shyt. There is privilege to white supremacy. While they can date whoever, they can't exactly marry whoever.

 

[#1 pick]

brad and connor don't want to settle down with me



for every sad single women crying that she is getting old she's prob have shot down like 50 dudes for every year of life

Broderick called me a n mommy. Be weary of any BW that calls her mother, mommy. Momma, mom, ma, and mother is all good but mommy, naw