this is all yall talk about #onhere
Only a BETA SIMP would think a woman is his equal & a combative woman challenging him often is IDEA.
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For every relationship there are different “levels”.
There is no “one size fits all” answer when it comes to modern day relationships.
I’m going to preface what i’m about to say and clarify that my particular beliefs are for BLACK RELATIONSHIPS only. I don’t give a damn about what white men and women are doing in their coupling and if you are a black man/woman in an interracial relationship then Allah bless you, but this ain’t for you either.
Black MEN and WOMEN as it pertains to us as African American are in a unique and unprecedented predicament when it comes to how we view ourselves within the lens of a society built off of our oppression. It is important to remember that there was a time during slavery when Black marriages weren’t recognized as official couplings, and it was routine for black families to be forcibly separated and sold. Black men didn’t know if their wives would still be THEIR wives on any given day. Not to mention their children.
On top of that, black women were routinely used as sex slaves for their masters. It was nothing for a black man to have to stand by and watch as his wife was mounted by a white master and used as little more than a cum bucket, him being powerless to do anything to stop it.
There are DEEP cultural and psychological scars and trauma that have worked to undermine cohesive coupling between black men and women. Black men have been emasculated and downtrodden. Denied jobs, career advancement, education, and the basic privileges of human decent since the formation of this nation. Black women have been treated even WORSE. As whores, maids, mammy’s, and cattle. We look at each other through a lens of stained glass. Thats why the need to be “dominant” is rampant amongst black men, because its something we’ve never truly experienced. Thats why the need to be appreciated and heard is rampant amongst black women, because again, having their thoughts and opinions valued and respected is something they’ve historically NEVER experienced.
Black men don’t need to “dominate” black women in the traditional sense. There is no need for physical violence or verbal abuse. There IS a need for respect and to be allowed to “lead” the household.
Black women don’t need to “undermine” black. Men or treat them as if they are disposable or a dime a dozen. There IS a need for a black woman’s opinion and expertise in any given area to be heeded.
Once we as an African American culture get over this bullshyt “competiton” that has been set up over centuries to keep us at each other’s throats, we’ll be better off. There is no such thing as “black male/female privilege” and once we figure THAT out we’ll be much more willing to admit that our thoughts, feelings, opinions are TOGETHER stronger than they ever have been apart
There is no “one size fits all” answer when it comes to modern day relationships.
I’m going to preface what i’m about to say and clarify that my particular beliefs are for BLACK RELATIONSHIPS only. I don’t give a damn about what white men and women are doing in their coupling and if you are a black man/woman in an interracial relationship then Allah bless you, but this ain’t for you either.
Black MEN and WOMEN as it pertains to us as African American are in a unique and unprecedented predicament when it comes to how we view ourselves within the lens of a society built off of our oppression. It is important to remember that there was a time during slavery when Black marriages weren’t recognized as official couplings, and it was routine for black families to be forcibly separated and sold. Black men didn’t know if their wives would still be THEIR wives on any given day. Not to mention their children.
On top of that, black women were routinely used as sex slaves for their masters. It was nothing for a black man to have to stand by and watch as his wife was mounted by a white master and used as little more than a cum bucket, him being powerless to do anything to stop it.
There are DEEP cultural and psychological scars and trauma that have worked to undermine cohesive coupling between black men and women. Black men have been emasculated and downtrodden. Denied jobs, career advancement, education, and the basic privileges of human decent since the formation of this nation. Black women have been treated even WORSE. As whores, maids, mammy’s, and cattle. We look at each other through a lens of stained glass. Thats why the need to be “dominant” is rampant amongst black men, because its something we’ve never truly experienced. Thats why the need to be appreciated and heard is rampant amongst black women, because again, having their thoughts and opinions valued and respected is something they’ve historically NEVER experienced.
Black men don’t need to “dominate” black women in the traditional sense. There is no need for physical violence or verbal abuse. There IS a need for respect and to be allowed to “lead” the household.
Black women don’t need to “undermine” black. Men or treat them as if they are disposable or a dime a dozen. There IS a need for a black woman’s opinion and expertise in any given area to be heeded.
Once we as an African American culture get over this bullshyt “competiton” that has been set up over centuries to keep us at each other’s throats, we’ll be better off. There is no such thing as “black male/female privilege” and once we figure THAT out we’ll be much more willing to admit that our thoughts, feelings, opinions are TOGETHER stronger than they ever have been apart
Bushmaster69
Superstar
I'm better educated than 98% of this board, legit. I only submit to my better.
Don't be so sure of yourself love.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Coming from most of you this is hilarious. You want black women to see you as men,and to be submissive?
Well black women don't trust that you have their best interest at heart ,not when you continue to stand by as they are opressed by other black men.
A poster talked about doing nothing while the slave masters raped their woman,well this is completely different circumstances.
Today you sit around while black women are being oppressed because you don't give a damn if its other black men doing it.
Or because you are actively doing the same thing,or have the same mentality so you silently are cosigning or don't want to seem like a "hater",or are to scared to hold other black men accountable.
You only want our woman under your thumbs for your own conveinience,not for their well being. So they should tell the majority of you to go to hell in a hand basket,though I do agree being submissive should be natural to a woman. But I've come to realize most of you don't deserve it yet,so should have to face the harsh realities of our womens defiant/hateful behavior to mirror the behavior and indifference we show or have shown. Once we actively do better as a collective,then I will begin to come down hard on black women who are not with the program. If you have a good one currently,shield her and protect her from the rest of these polluted/poisonous women out here.
Well black women don't trust that you have their best interest at heart ,not when you continue to stand by as they are opressed by other black men.
A poster talked about doing nothing while the slave masters raped their woman,well this is completely different circumstances.
Today you sit around while black women are being oppressed because you don't give a damn if its other black men doing it.
Or because you are actively doing the same thing,or have the same mentality so you silently are cosigning or don't want to seem like a "hater",or are to scared to hold other black men accountable.
You only want our woman under your thumbs for your own conveinience,not for their well being. So they should tell the majority of you to go to hell in a hand basket,though I do agree being submissive should be natural to a woman. But I've come to realize most of you don't deserve it yet,so should have to face the harsh realities of our womens defiant/hateful behavior to mirror the behavior and indifference we show or have shown. Once we actively do better as a collective,then I will begin to come down hard on black women who are not with the program. If you have a good one currently,shield her and protect her from the rest of these polluted/poisonous women out here.
Devilinurear
Veteran
Damn a lot of men in this new generation are not getting laid. I feel the sexual frustration with every post.
❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤
All Star
Quit tryin to be cool square ass herbHow many of your single friends baby showers did you attend today
❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤
All Star
Lmfaoo these incels getting out of hand
Amor fati
Superstar
You can't have two kings ruling in the same roof that shyt doesn't work, but these p*ssywhipped western simps lack logic.
the bossman
Superstar
Amor fati
Superstar
That's too excessive, there's no need to put hands on another adult unless you are defending yourself. At the end of the day the day tell her to fukk off.Period
anything less than this and she gone feel an open handed smack