People also were not medically advanced... there's a lot of things they could've had that affected them that were attributed to something else.
A woman not making a man strap early is nasty because you don't know how many different people have had that privilege.
It's one thing if you've been ongoing for a minute, but these are hard in the field. I ain't special. If I'm allowed to slide raw from day one, 20 others were. Something that wasn't being done since forever.
Plenty of people have good hygiene and can still catch something and/or be asymptomatic. Nasty in this convo isn't an issue of literal hygiene but clinical health and entrusting someone else with your health too early. The same reason we're encouraged to keep our mouth away from any holes early.
People have had raw sex since people have existed...
Sex in general is a privilege, I don't know that it's any more special doing it raw versus condom...
The reality is that most people could have something and be asymptomatic, I agree with you. But if you're scared, stay in the house, that's my general advice to anyone about anything. I refuse to live my life in fear of the worst, because I can apply that fear of the worst to literally anything...
So instead of living in fear, I'm judicious in my decision making and time. This doesn't mean I'm a perfect decision maker obviously, but I'm not fukking every woman I want or every woman who wants me. I take care of myself otherwise, I'm not afraid to go get tested, and I clean myself after sex...
Nothing is fool proof, condoms arents either. But I'm comfortable with how I've protected myself, I don't leave that in the hands of the woman. I protect myself. And whether the woman chooses to do that or not has no bearing on how I take care of myself...
I also don't fukk women who I know are into multiple partners. It's likely happened before, because I've slept with a decent amount of women, but if I "know" you are fukking multiple guys simultaneously, I just pass on it...
