On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

[YBE]

If women had to be us for a day & see how much heart it takes to randomly step to them, I think they'd take it a bit more easy on nikkas...

Nothing worse than getting shut down on a crowded subway train

"Oh...aight, that's cool"

When it works though

 

[Francis White]

Since i got out allot more now, i would say everyday i speak to random women, most of the time is too network, the rest i try too pick up. I got shot down after hanging with this girl for over 2 hours last sat, i was kind of mad, but then i thought about it, i live in NYC and would meet someone like her or better.

 

[KnowledgeOfSelf17]

Since i got out allot more now, i would say everyday i speak to random women, most of the time is too network, the rest i try too pick up. I got shot down after hanging with this girl for over 2 hours last sat, i was kind of mad, but then i thought about it, i live in NYC and would meet someone like her or better.

dude their is no reason out here, to be hung up on one women, when they came from all over the world to come here

 

[Turbulent]

last time i approached a chick i failed miserably but i still learned something (or rather it's something i already knew but for some reason didn't do at that specific time). basically, you gotta establish eye contact first. try to look at her without looking like a creepy rapist. once eye contact is established, smile slightly to show her you're attracted and see how she reacts, if you can sense she's open for you to approach (she'll smile back or something like that), approach. another good thing is when she breaks eye contact first. then you should approach right away. you've sort of established dominance at that point. when you approach, it doesn't really matter that much what you say. just make a comment about the surroundings or the moment and start a convo no matter how dull. what matters is that she clearly gets your intentions.

see if she's attracted and if you approach, all you have to do is not fukk it up. cause if she's attracted to you, at this point she's only looking for an excuse to spend more time with you and get to know you more. that is, any excuse that won't make her look too much desperate/slutty. and your job is to provide that.

my mistake with the chick i was talking about was that i didn't establish eye contact before approaching. so i basically looked like the guy that came out of nowhere, talking to her. see from her perspective she probably saw it as "this guy has been looking at me for god knows how long and then came up to me out of nowhere like a stalker". doesn't help that i approached from behind, lol.

anyway, my main point is that it doesn't matter how you approach, just establish eye contact and start a regular convo while making it clear you're attracted to her through your body language.

those pick up artist techniques have some pretty good nuggets of info sometimes too. some of it is kinda lame or BS and will have you doing too much but some of it is spot on. but realize you gotta approach while being yourself, not a character. and if being yourself doesn't work cause you're a lame or a bytch ass nikka then change who you are. become a better person and THEN start approaching chicks. that way you're not acting out of character cause it's the new you and it's real.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Join Date: Jun 2012

 

[MikelArteta]

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[KnowledgeOfSelf17]

so i'm new, my opinion is my opinion same as yours

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

who cares...

let em approach you

im done chasing females..fukk em

 

[SafeForWork]

When I was a child I did.

 

[KnowledgeOfSelf17]

real talk Turbulent , looking for eye contact makes an open door for whores, rich women, poor women, whatever, it's the universal thing dawg

 

[Lil Wango]

Just be yourself youngin. Talk about ur surroundings. Where yall at, what yall doing. Can't be afraid of rejection, my boy told me back in high school to look at it as hoopin, if u shoot 6-10 u 60% from the field and had a great game. The nikka Kobe 45% for his career

 

[TRUEST]

approaching women in public or anywhere really isn't for the faint of heart.

i approached a chick one time at a bookstore. i started up with something relatively lame, i'm like "how are you". she was a total b1tch. i dont remember what i said entirely. but she assumed i worked at the bookstore and thought i was trying to help her find a book. anyway, she answered me rather rudely and kept walking.

when she walked past me, the hips and ass on her was just too nice. i couldn't resist. so i followed her.

as she walked, she walked to an area of the bookstore that was less populated. i followed her and hit her up again. i'm like "excuse me miss. listen, i really hate to do this. matter of fact, i dont do this often. but i think we really should get to know each other. you seem like an interesting person and im really keen on finding out what there is to u"

at first, she had a look of confusion on her face, and as i continued talking, that look turned to a smirk, and then she cracked a full smile. i kept it short. got her number and bounced.

when we went on a date, she was like "i had to give you lots of credit for coming back again even after how i acted. i really thought you worked there and i didn't wanna be bothered". so she knew how much of a b1tch she was.

in this scenario, it worked out for me. but, there are lots of females who give the "get lost" attitude and actually mean it! lol. maybe this chick meant it too but had a change of mind at the audacity it took for me to actually come back to speak to her again.

 

[havoc00]

If I have a ski mask on and its dark I approach them a lot

 

[James Carter]

Chicks are sly when they approach,either staring you down or bringing up some random thing. Sometimes i be having a million thoughts swimming in my head and dont pick up the clues and chalk it to them just being nice. Missed some good ones

A role reversal with open these chicks eyes and bring balance back to the force

 

[TRUEST]

best advice is, when approaching chicks in public, keep it short and get the hell outta there asap. dont linger around especially if you get the number.