Older lady breaks down in tears "I just wanna be somebody's something"

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Sad. I actually know a woman that looks similar to her with 6 children and a few grandchildren. She married to a dude that's a bit shorter than her. (She in her 40s though. This woman might be a lot older though)

Oh well
She probably plays this on the daily
 

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A cautionary tale.

We don't know enough of her story to point a finger and say "See, that's what you get". What we can see, however, is that we aren't built for loneliness.

It is become popular for people, men and women, to regard themselves as a one man army who doesn't need anymore. Behind the bravado is pain that will turn to despair as time passes by.
 

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Honestly, all she can get is a extreme drunk and/or almost homeless man. Or an mentally ill man. That's better than nothing. :manny:
IF SHE DOES THAT, SHE'LL GET shytTED ON WHEN IT GOES BAD.

THEN THE RESPONSE IS THAT SHE SHOULD HAVE PICKED A REGULAR GUY AND THAT'S WHAT SHE GET FOR CHASING THE BADBOY.
 

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I wish her all the best. I’ve mentioned this Caribbean lady I know. 50+ years old. Legit looks like she’s in her early 30s. 9/10 looks. No children. But her strict religious upbringing stagnated her dating when she was younger.

She now laments her lack of freedom. I feel bad for her because she’s a nice lady but she is somewhat emotionally stunted. It’s hard on this market regardless of your looks.
 

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My Mom is single. Turned 66 last month. She tells me she at times she wishes she was still with my father. She helped raised my niece but my niece is now 19 and out to college.

She has no job and nothing really to look forward to everyday. She prays and lives with my sister. My sister takes her wherever she goes so my Mom gets out a few times a week. My mom is schizophrenic and the voices are tough for her in New York. She wants to move back to Belize but we fear she can’t manage alone.

I want happiness for my Mom, whatever that looks like. I wish she had a husband/partner to live the rest of her days with, but I don’t want a man to take advantage of her as well. I love you Mom! Don’t post on social media crying!
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Real talk it's sad out here for older women. My father passed in 2020 and Mom has been alone since and doesn't seem to want another man. Mom is nearly 70. Four more years.

Grandpa died in 2006 and yet grandma is still kicking and almost into her 90's.

Even the women that were married 30, 40, 50 years with no divorce more often than not end up alone. I wish there were more empathy towards women and their struggles later in life. We men need to take care of our health more to be there for the women in our lives longer. Women can outlive their husband by 10-20 years. Imagine being alone that long. shyt is sad.
 
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Real talk it's sad out here for older women. My father passed and Mom has been alone since and doesn't seem to want another man. Mom is nearly 70.

Grandpa died in 2006 and yet grandma is still kicking and almost into her 90's.

Even the women that were married 30, 40, 50 years with no divorce more often than not end up alone. I wish there were more empathy towards women and their struggles later in life. We men need to take care of our health more to be there for the women in our lives longer.
Men in general just die before their partners.

Even those who were healthy as oxes.

My parents were together for 36 years before my father passed at 70.

Mom is still kicking, has her activities and friend circle, she misses him(we all do) but you can't be mad at damn near 40 years of wedded bliss.

"Don't be mad that it's over, be happy it happened."

Now for those who NEVER had it/that, yeah bitterness is a likely companion.
 
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