Older lady breaks down in tears "I just wanna be somebody's something"

Space Cowboy

Christ is King
Bushed
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
4,454
Reputation
927
Daps
15,069
Reppin
CowboysNation
Men in general just die before their partners.

Even those who were healthy as oxes.

My parents were together for 36 years before my father passed at 70.

Mom is still kicking, has her activities and friend circle, she misses him(we all do) but you can't be mad at damn near 40 years of wedded bliss.

"Don't be mad that it's over, be happy it happened."

Now for those who NEVER had it/that, yeah bitterness is a likely companion.
I get it but it doesn't make things any less sad we don't get to be there for them generally. It also shows that as a man you have no time to waste. Let that thought seep in for the young ones here.
 

FLORIDA BOI

All Star
Joined
Nov 9, 2012
Messages
4,594
Reputation
1,094
Daps
10,530
Reppin
NULL
full
This is your king lololololol


Nikka sucking a beer :deadrose:
 

Justise M

Superstar
Joined
Nov 16, 2014
Messages
11,583
Reputation
3,674
Daps
60,192
sad, idk her situation but if she is physically able to and she really wants it that bad to the point where she would make this video. She should put effort into bettering her appearance. Do what you can, go to the gym, eat better, try and lose weight. She would have a better shot of finding what she looking for if she was more appealing to look at.

Or just admit you had her time and it's over. find a hobby that occupies your time, traveling, reading, etc...

but looking like that crying you want a man ain't gonna get it done. You actually have to put some work in
 

International Playa

Playa with a Passport
Joined
Nov 26, 2012
Messages
12,313
Reputation
2,103
Daps
52,490
Reppin
NULL
Honest truth

Shes not the only one going through it

Being a older dude and when i would mess around with sisters between 35 and 40 and some had a kid, they would break down behind closed doors to me when i end things about nobody wants them, they never going to find anyone, they don’t want to be alone..

Also alot of these women bodies and looks are not the same when they was 21,25,29 years old

The problem with them in my experience was they attitudes periods…

After those years of dealing with bums, liars, fake ballers who sold them wolf tickets , they end up bitter and mad at men and when someone with they shyt somewhat together comes around , they attitudes end up fukking them over, because they view you as one of them prior nikkas..

WISH HER THE BEST, BUT HER OPPORTUNITY OF FINDING SOMEONE IS OVER
I been running through the same especially women 35+, their attitude isn't that great.

I recently let go off a woman like this, she always used to say some slick disrespectful shyt to me, till 1 day I had enough.:hubie:
 

HARLEM AL

Your broad loves me.....
Joined
May 19, 2012
Messages
23,426
Reputation
4,315
Daps
94,187
Reppin
Harlem, NYC
Honest truth

Shes not the only one going through it

Being a older dude and when i would mess around with sisters between 35 and 40 and some had a kid, they would break down behind closed doors to me when i end things about nobody wants them, they never going to find anyone, they don’t want to be alone..

Also alot of these women bodies and looks are not the same when they was 21,25,29 years old

The problem with them in my experience was they attitudes periods…

After those years of dealing with bums, liars, fake ballers who sold them wolf tickets , they end up bitter and mad at men and when someone with they shyt somewhat together comes around , they attitudes end up fukking them over, because they view you as one of them prior nikkas..

WISH HER THE BEST, BUT HER OPPORTUNITY OF FINDING SOMEONE IS OVER
shyt playa, I got stories like this. Which is why I pretty much dont pay chicks any mind. I know how they feel behind close doors. All that I dont need no man shyt is bullshyt. First sign for need for companionship is having a dog.

This was ruff to watch. I hope she gets the help and love that she needs.
 
Joined
Dec 19, 2017
Messages
15,080
Reputation
4,057
Daps
60,453
It can be difficult for a few reasons:

There's something like 105 boys born for every 100 girls......but when you include violence, prisons etc., the Black male vs Black female ratio is going to be skewed once you hit adulthood.

Men die earlier than women regardless of race. As you get older, the gender ratio becomes more skewed. Women (usually) go to the doctor and get all the medications they need for their health issues. Men will tough it out, especially if they are single. Simple shyt that can be taken care of with a lifestyle change and some meds becomes an issue.

Not gonna judge her because we don't know what her life was like and what kind of men she had access to. She came up BEFORE internet dating so her circle wouldn't have been as big.

Big thing for men and women if single.....make friends. Go to church, volunteer, have a social circle. If she already has that but just wants a good man....that's different. With more Boomers retiring and aging, we may see more elder singles groups.
 

KidJSoul

Veteran
Joined
Oct 26, 2014
Messages
18,040
Reputation
3,296
Daps
78,758
Top