Oh shyt, so they have "Scandal" Viewing Parties now? (photos included)

[Premeditated]

I'm going to throw my two cents into this mix. Afterwards y'all dumbass JEALOUS ninjas can eat shyt and DIE!

The reason why this show bothers so many of you ridiculous retards is quite apparent. It has nothing to do with "concern" for black women, black women's image or any of the other TIRED, RIDICULOUS, bullshyt posted in this thread. It has nothing to do with "confronting black women about their hypocrisy " (a stupid explanation if I've ever heard one considering this show is FICTIONAL). No the REAL reasons why this show bothers you ninjas is as follows:

1). You see the white man as a sexual threat. This is evident in the cries about "propaganda." There is a fear that black women and white men might actually view each other in a way YOU, retarded ninjas of Coli, have deemed inappropriate. After all, black women and white men aren't supposed to find each other attractive. Black women and white men aren't supposed to mix. Many black women have become more vocal about their attraction to white men. This shyt scares the fukk out of you.

2). Many of you have referred to the character played by Kerry Washington as a "whore" "bed wench" etc while also admitting YOU DON'T EVEN WATCH THE SHOW (sigh...fukking dumbasses). This policing of black women's sexuality (albeit a fictional black woman) is the only means that a powerless group men have in preventing what they again, see as a threat. Now of course this "shaming tactic" is not only idiotic...but it DOESN'T work. People are going to do what they do. Then there is this...

The reality is a black woman is far more likely to be a "whore" to a black man than to ANY white man. It's not white men out here making black women babymamas and single mothers. The white man's children are growing up in intact families in middle class clean communities, while those black women have by black men are more likely to be living in POVERTY.

By default, the black man has placed black women in the whore, babymamas, single mother, concubine role...because black men do NOT marry. So, it is ridiculous for you morons to try to shame a black woman for supposedly allowing herself to act in this role with a white man.

Truth be told, given the obvious short-comings of black men, black women would do themselves justice to favor being a white man's whore over being a black man's whore. IF a black woman gets knocked up by a white man he will likely take care of his children and perhaps even marry her. The same is NOT true for black men.

The benefits of being a white man whore FAR outweigh those of being a default black man's whore. As crude as that may sound...it is true!

I don't recommend any woman being a whore. I don't see it as something anyone should desire. I don't advocate the position and the only reason I'm mentioning it is because you jealous bitter ninjas have used the term over and over again here.

But let's get real here, if black women fancied playing the role it's best to go for those at the top of the totem pole and not the ninjas under their foot.

Some of you mentioned Edison, the black man, Olivia sidestepped. Edison was detestable. The man was borderline stalkerish (showing up at her apt and letting himself in). His personality was that of a brick wall. There was NO passion between them. No woman should ever force herself to be with a man she doesn't even like...let alone love. fukk out of here!

Fitz and Olivia have CHEMISTRY. They have that magic. It's not because the actor is white. Truth be told I couldn't stand the white guy Kerry played opposite of in Lakeview Terrace (I think that's the name). So, to answer one of the questions here....it's not simply because Fitz is played by a white actor. It's because he is played by a damn good actor. He and Kerry bring that FIRE. And the writing/plots are addictive.

3). Economically black men are the bottom of the barrel. It probably hurts like hell to see the cream of the crop black women getting it in with well-to-do white men. We get it...now just own up to the "hurt" and call it a day. Whether you like it or not, I predict there will more of this in the future.

4). Last but not least, black men hate Scandal and resent black women for loving the showing because the character operates outside of the black community and black men. As one blogger put it,...

"And that’s where the conversation gets controversial. Black men seem to be expressing discontent with Pope not because she’s the “other” in an extramarital affair, but because, debatably, she’s a confusing amalgam of sexual history, sexual modernity, and agency—and a badass wardrobe. She’s powerful, but not ‘loud’. Sexy, but not overtly provocative. Pope has reclaimed a level of humanity. And with this reclamation comes the privilege of complexity—a possible threat to Black male power.....Though she remains in a position of submission, to a White man, Pope has stepped from behind the Black man and cut the proverbial political line. There is this implicit “how dare you?” tone in Black men’s Twitter commentary about the show. Black women have played ‘other women’ to married Black men, for decades. It’s not until now that it’s an issue of morality. The show’s relational dynamics aren’t what we’re used to. And likely, because so much of Black men’s power has come from Black women’s oppression, this shift makes them uncomfortable"

@Rawtid pointed the above out, but you dumbass ninjas on this site are too damn stupid to comprehend.

Anyway, that's my two cents.

Have fun! I'm done with this thread.

Peace!

by a show of hands, who actually read this?

 

[PartyHeart]

@PartyHeart


Still want to keep playing dumb with your fellow bed wenches? or yall not playing?



http://www.thecoli.com/threads/after-review-tommy-sotomayor-is-a-necessary-evil.152776/





Still wanna run to the rescue @Willstyles ?....your damned if you do, damned if you dont with these bed wench boogerwolves.

Here are some quotes from the "receipt" your provided:

Too many weak men, too much woman pandering. Until men decide to stop playing little equality and political correctness games, letting our women try on the pants and play dress up........its going to get worse. Grab the women and tell them to educate themselves and get back in the kitchen. Then go upstairs and take the itunes and money away from the seeds and beat they're asses with a belt until they learn some sense. Tell your woman to turn off the scandal and turn on the damn stove. Men, turn off the tommy sotomayor and other bullshyt and be leaders. Enough is enough....

We are somewhat at fault. We forgot that we are the original kings of the Earth. We have the power to rebound but its a lack of ambition. Soon as we decide to do like old school real men and tell these women to sit down, shut up, turn the stove eye on and let us handle the real work again we can begin fixing the issues. Women show out because men let them.

Yes. You are such a friend to BW and our equality. How could I ever not take you seriously

 

[Busted_Toes]

Truthfully I don't take you seriously because you troll too much for my liking. Your points are probably valid somewhere but I often tend to look past your posts.


@Busted_Toes what part of Good day sir didn't you understand?

Your evading skills

 

[CASHAPP]

Lol This is what we deal with on the internet.

Black man: I wouldn't date a women with weave.

Hairhatted Hooligan: But white women wear weaves to!

Black man: I didn't specifically say black women. I meant all women, but in the case of black women, rarely do they wear weaves matching their natural texture.

The hairhatted hooligan with a 3rd grade education is either going to respond in two ways.

1. "Black women can have many different textures".. wtf does this even mean?

2. "It's not self hate. It's just a hair style" again.

.

We really need to make a thread on the Black women who seem to act like the Afro and Braids are the only two hairstyles they have the choice of having.

That seems to be one of the biggest reasons why they act this way. They believe because we have so many hairstyles from just shaving our head that we have a whole section in the Barber on the wall, yet there is still a thread on here where they actually tried to compare us cutting our hair to self-hate.

Absolutely no creativity at all with them. Even IF the afro and braids were the only form of natural hair they could have then so what, at least your being yourself and not selling out and having a lack of self esteem. But that isn't the case, they have other hairstyles they can have while keeping their hairstyle....from straightening their hair(ive never been the type to criticize them straightening their hair as long as its their own), having a bob cut, perm, etc.

Its hilarious to see women with grey hair and green hair running around trying to defend it. Just talking in circles. It seems like its true that it is pointless in arguing with a woman about something.

You know what makes me have no hope at all? The fact that it seems even the women who actually DO wear natural hair 100% of the time....if you were to ask them their opinion, there is still a high chance MOST of them would not criticize their sisters.

 

[Jone2three45]

LOL. I just don't get the back and forth. It's just stupid. None of us will make money or lose money off of Scandal. That's like arguing regarding my fave football team. Until they pay me to argue on their behalf we either won or we loss, period. Until I play a down or get injured on a tackle I'm just not that invested in arguing over ish that doesn't directly affect me or that I can't control.

Let's be honest,
History and fairy tales are two different things, most of us understand how powerful imagery can be. If you like the show(speaking in general to everyone who does), like it but don't get emotional when one points out faults about the show because there are many, you cannot deny how this show feeds the ego and fukks with the mental on many levels, it's has nothing to do with being weak or not, we know when we see bullshyt, i can't speak for every male on here but I care to see my fellow sisters in a right light, and not just seeking validity or false fairy tales.

 

[Busted_Toes]

@PartyHeart


Still want to keep playing dumb with your fellow bed wenches? or yall not playing?



http://www.thecoli.com/threads/after-review-tommy-sotomayor-is-a-necessary-evil.152776/





Still wanna run to the rescue @Willstyles ?....your damned if you do, damned if you dont with these bed wench boogerwolves.

nikka your arguing with a black feminist. Black feminist hate black men breh. There is nothing you can say that will get that bytch to even consider agreeing with you, she hates you because you are a black man.

 

[iBrowse]

30 pages

12 plehboi






50 posts per page

 

[Rawtid]

After 38 pages, some of you still can't read. Where did he state all bw/wm consist if the bw being a bed wench? Maybe it's time to turn off scandal, and go back to the basics with your education, honey. I guess English wasn't your forte.

The MAIN issue that black men have with the show, and with the women who support it, is the lack of understanding, on the part of black women, when it comes to the racial context of the relationship. Let's be real here, the dynamic of the powerful white male having his way with the black female is a VERY COMMON THEME THROUGHOUT AMERICAN HISTORY! And yes, whether we want to admit to it or not, black men are prickly about that subject.

But what man wouldn't be prickly about another man having UNFETTERED access to HIS woman? Do we need a refresher on how much white men did to separate white women from even the idea of being with black men? That would a whole course on American hisory, but I digress.

This is what he said... Applying "American History" to fictionional characters and essentially saying white men don't respect black women i.e "having his way with her"/bed wench. What you need him to specifically use the words bed wench?

Your stance regarding this thread clearly is not aligning with the issue others who disagree with me are having. Most of the comments are referring to Kerry's character as a bed wench. I'm replying to those comments specifially and if you don't agree with the original comments, why are you even attempting to interject? Did you read what he said? At this point you just want to quote me and try to belittle me or something but look dumb in process. Cause bed wench is being flown all over this thread and it's like you're ignoring it.

 

[Illuminatos]

I'm going to throw my two cents into this mix. Afterwards y'all dumbass JEALOUS ninjas can eat shyt and DIE!

The reason why this show bothers so many of you ridiculous retards is quite apparent. It has nothing to do with "concern" for black women, black women's image or any of the other TIRED, RIDICULOUS, bullshyt posted in this thread. It has nothing to do with "confronting black women about their hypocrisy " (a stupid explanation if I've ever heard one considering this show is FICTIONAL). No the REAL reasons why this show bothers you ninjas is as follows:

1). You see the white man as a sexual threat. This is evident in the cries about "propaganda." There is a fear that black women and white men might actually view each other in a way YOU, retarded ninjas of Coli, have deemed inappropriate. After all, black women and white men aren't supposed to find each other attractive. Black women and white men aren't supposed to mix. Many black women have become more vocal about their attraction to white men. This shyt scares the fukk out of you.

2). Many of you have referred to the character played by Kerry Washington as a "whore" "bed wench" etc while also admitting YOU DON'T EVEN WATCH THE SHOW (sigh...fukking dumbasses). This policing of black women's sexuality (albeit a fictional black woman) is the only means that a powerless group men have in preventing what they again, see as a threat. Now of course this "shaming tactic" is not only idiotic...but it DOESN'T work. People are going to do what they do. Then there is this...

The reality is a black woman is far more likely to be a "whore" to a black man than to ANY white man. It's not white men out here making black women babymamas and single mothers. The white man's children are growing up in intact families in middle class clean communities, while those black women have by black men are more likely to be living in POVERTY.

By default, the black man has placed black women in the whore, babymamas, single mother, concubine role...because black men do NOT marry. So, it is ridiculous for you morons to try to shame a black woman for supposedly allowing herself to act in this role with a white man.

Truth be told, given the obvious short-comings of black men, black women would do themselves justice to favor being a white man's whore over being a black man's whore. IF a black woman gets knocked up by a white man he will likely take care of his children and perhaps even marry her. The same is NOT true for black men.

The benefits of being a white man whore FAR outweigh those of being a default black man's whore. As crude as that may sound...it is true!

I don't recommend any woman being a whore. I don't see it as something anyone should desire. I don't advocate the position and the only reason I'm mentioning it is because you jealous bitter ninjas have used the term over and over again here.

But let's get real here, if black women fancied playing the role it's best to go for those at the top of the totem pole and not the ninjas under their foot.

Some of you mentioned Edison, the black man, Olivia sidestepped. Edison was detestable. The man was borderline stalkerish (showing up at her apt and letting himself in). His personality was that of a brick wall. There was NO passion between them. No woman should ever force herself to be with a man she doesn't even like...let alone love. fukk out of here!

Fitz and Olivia have CHEMISTRY. They have that magic. It's not because the actor is white. Truth be told I couldn't stand the white guy Kerry played opposite of in Lakeview Terrace (I think that's the name). So, to answer one of the questions here....it's not simply because Fitz is played by a white actor. It's because he is played by a damn good actor. He and Kerry bring that FIRE. And the writing/plots are addictive.

3). Economically black men are the bottom of the barrel. It probably hurts like hell to see the cream of the crop black women getting it in with well-to-do white men. We get it...now just own up to the "hurt" and call it a day. Whether you like it or not, I predict there will more of this in the future.

4). Last but not least, black men hate Scandal and resent black women for loving the showing because the character operates outside of the black community and black men. As one blogger put it,...

"And that’s where the conversation gets controversial. Black men seem to be expressing discontent with Pope not because she’s the “other” in an extramarital affair, but because, debatably, she’s a confusing amalgam of sexual history, sexual modernity, and agency—and a badass wardrobe. She’s powerful, but not ‘loud’. Sexy, but not overtly provocative. Pope has reclaimed a level of humanity. And with this reclamation comes the privilege of complexity—a possible threat to Black male power.....Though she remains in a position of submission, to a White man, Pope has stepped from behind the Black man and cut the proverbial political line. There is this implicit “how dare you?” tone in Black men’s Twitter commentary about the show. Black women have played ‘other women’ to married Black men, for decades. It’s not until now that it’s an issue of morality. The show’s relational dynamics aren’t what we’re used to. And likely, because so much of Black men’s power has come from Black women’s oppression, this shift makes them uncomfortable"

@Rawtid pointed the above out, but you dumbass ninjas on this site are too damn stupid to comprehend.

Anyway, that's my two cents.

Have fun! I'm done with this thread.

Peace!

So...who here actually read this shyt?

 

[PartyHeart]

Let's be honest,
History and fairy tales are two different things, most of us understand how powerful imagery can be. If you like the show(speaking in general to everyone who does), like it but don't get emotional when one points out faults about the show because there are many, you cannot deny how this show feeds the ego and fukks with the mental on many levels, it's has nothing to to with being weak or not, we know when we see bullshyt, i can't speak for every make on here but I care to see my fellow sisters in a right light, and not just seeking validity or fairy tales.

Do you know who Sarah Baartman was? Do you speak out against hip hop music/videos and the powerful (negative) imagery of Black women it creates?

nikka your arguing with a black feminist. Black feminist hate black men breh. There is nthing you can say that will get that bytch to even consider agreeing with you, she hates you because you are a black man.

I love it when it comes to this, because it means we're at that point in the debate when you know you can't contest my arguments so you have to first lie and then try to find a way dismiss my points and get others to do so as well so you never have to confront your bias and hypocrisy. Its such a sweet moment

 

[Busted_Toes]

Do you know who Sarah Baartman was? Do you speak out against hip hop music/videos and the powerful (negative) imagery of Black women it creates?



I love it when it comes to this, because it means we're at that point in the debate when you know you can't contest my arguments so you have to try to dismiss them and get others to so you never have to confront your lies and hypocrisy. Its such a sweet moment

You've said nothing profound just like your fellow white supremacist @MurderSheWrote. But continue, your black man hate is impressive

 

[Darts]

For what? I'm honestly surprised some of you are delusional enough to believe BW are obligated to go out of our way to go at the one anti-BM Black female that exists on here, while y'all not only allow the misogynists and anti-BW Black males run amok, a lot of you who cry the loudest and the foulest, are apart of those groups.

Stop asking people to do something for you that you don't do and aren't willing to do for them.

It's not obligation, its called being fair and balanced. When a male writes a streaming pile of shyt trolling or not, he is immediately checked/clowned by numerous male posters....when this female does the same...the silence is deafening from most female posters.

I guess that's why most dudes on here fukk with females like @Elle Driver...she often calls a spade a spade, even if it means disagreeing with other female posters.

 

[Mr.Black]

This shyt is realer than i thought Look how happy these women look

Jeezus Christ!

Grown and sexy??

judging by these wildebeasts it aint

 

[Rawtid]

Do you know who Sarah Baartman was? Do you speak out against hip hop music/videos and the powerful (negative) imagery of Black women it creates?



I love it when it comes to this, because it means we're at that point in the debate when you know you can't contest my arguments so you have to first lie and then try to find a way dismiss my points and get others to do so as well so you never have to confront your bias and hypocrisy. Its such a sweet moment

Hotentot Venus(sp)! Someone posted a story about her on facebook a week or so ago. That's the first time I had heard of her.

LMAO and now we're feminist...because we like a television show.

 

[iBrowse]

umm yes it is.

Their favorite tv show is the life & times of a god damn bed wench.

If i support that, i might as well go into work tomorrow and start tap dancing barefoot holding chicken, while all my white co-workers clap in unison as i grin from ear to ear.