Oh shyt, so they have "Scandal" Viewing Parties now? (photos included)

[Rawtid]

Not to add to the madness, but why is this sentiment always throw around whenever black men disagree with the context of a WM/BM relationship? Obviously, there are white men who find black women attractive, we have many black people with European genes to prove that point. No reasonable black man would say different.

However, attraction and respect are two very different things....the kind of different that is TOTALLY NON-RELATED. A dude can bang a chick that he has no respect for and lose not one wink of sleep. Does that prove anything? And before you reply, I am NOT intimating that this applies to all WM/BF relationships/sex partner situations. I am saying that to think that because a white guy is attracted to you that he values you(on par with a white woman especially) is a MISNOMER....as it would be for any man.

The MAIN issue that black men have with the show, and with the women who support it, is the lack of understanding, on the part of black women, when it comes to the racial context of the relationship. Let's be real here, the dynamic of the powerful white male having his way with the black female is a VERY COMMON THEME THROUGHOUT AMERICAN HISTORY! And yes, whether we want to admit to it or not, black men are prickly about that subject.

But what man wouldn't be prickly about another man having UNFETTERED access to HIS woman? Do we need a refresher on how much white men did to separate white women from even the idea of being with black men? That would a whole course on American hisory, but I digress.

What's even funnier is that the same women who love seeing this coupling on Scandal would literally boycott the show off air IF the president was a black man cheating on his black wife with a white woman. TELL ME I'M LYING THO! And black women have the nerve to decry black men for being "jealous" when we have ALL TOO MANY websites, Youtube videos, articles, blog entries and talk show clips showing how much they didn't/don't/won't like seeing black men with non-black women.

So PLEASE stop with the off-handed bullsh#t!

Peace

Listen to me...Shut up.

You and others like you are basing your opinon on some generic issue you have with the black woman white man relationship and maybe television in general I'm not sure. My opininon is based on THIS show and the dynamic between the two characters. It is not one of bed wenchery, it's two people who acted on feelings they shouldn't have and basically got caught slipping and are trying to find a way out of it. Again, I'm not advocating for any woman to involve themselves with a married man but BASED ON THIS SHOW, that I've actually watched, I see how the fukk it went down and they have genuine feelings for each other. Race is not even a consideration.

Now if you're going to paint every BW/WM relationship with the same big stupid, generic ass brush(especially a ficticious one)...go right ahead. Jesus will still love you. But don't try to denouce my blackness, call me brain washed and accuse me of wanting to fukk white men just because I like a damn television show. That's the part pisses me off. How could you come to such a solid conclusion based one thing? It's just stupid.

 

[Coco Loco]

I don't post much, but when I do I find it fun calling out their hypocrisy and tearing holes in their baseless attacks against BW in general, not just Scandal related

As far as the rest of what you said, they don't watch it and don't need to watch it because when you really get down to it its clearly not really about the show. Its about having something else to dig and insult Black women over. And all of that- anti-Black female language that is arising amongst Black men is simply a deflection away from Black men's own issues. Imo it has nothing to do with Black women and what we are doing, because literally everything they accuse Black women of you can find evidence of Black men being just as bad if not outright worse about. All of this is projection.

I mean how could it not be when threads like this exist: http://www.thecoli.com/threads/chemistry-of-attraction-black-men-white-women-edition.113658/page-15 and these dudes are trying to make it like its BW who are yearning for WM approval lol (note: the thread starter himself was in there begging people to believe a bunch of white women desire BM, can you imagine the amount of 'bed wenches' thrown around if the sexes were reversed? )

Yes but friend how is that working out for you? You can't change ignorance. Even if what you're saying is logical you're still gonna be wrong according to them. One thing you have to realize with dealing with ignorant/close minded/one sided people is their counter arguments generally sway off topic which leads to endless counter arguments... Where this thread is presently.

Red bolded- And that is exactly why I'm asking why y'all are even entertaining them. The Coli is full of hypocrisy friend. Not all but a lot of posters are bored and full of sh!t. They need the internet to survive. I post when topics interest me but for the most part I rarely engage I just lurk and shake my head at the foolishness being typed on here. I love interacting with men who actually read books, read and watch the news, are cultured and venture outside of their 6 block radius. Again not all but a vast majority on here do not.

 

[PartyHeart]

Yes but it would be helpful if the women on here strongly denounced that absurd post/poster instead of ignoring it.

For what? I'm honestly surprised some of you are delusional enough to believe BW are obligated to go out of our way to go at the one anti-BM Black female that exists on here, while y'all not only allow the misogynists and anti-BW Black males run amok, a lot of you who cry the loudest and the foulest, are apart of those groups.

Stop asking people to do something for you that you don't do and aren't willing to do for them.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yes but friend how is that working out for you? You can't change ignorance. Even if what you're saying is logical you're still gonna be wrong according to them. One thing you have to realize with dealing with ignorant/close minded/one sided people is their counter arguments generally sway off topic which leads to endless counter arguments... Where this thread is presently.

Red bolded- And that is exactly why I'm asking why y'all are even entertaining them. The Coli is full of hypocrisy friend. Not all but a lot of posters are bored and full of sh!t. They need the internet to survive. I post when topics interest me but for the most part I rarely engage I just lurk and shake my head at the foolishness being typed on here. I love interacting with men who actually read books, read and watch the news, are cultured and venture outside of their 6 block radius. Again not all but a vast majority on here do not.

do u side with most of my opinions on race matters?

 

[pickles]

The black race is lost brehs Look at all the infighting between the sexes this show has created. The white devil is insidious and sneaky.

In the end though, I do believe it is a form of escapism for the people who watch it, just like everything else on tv. That said, peoples can't ignore the message that is being sent.


I wonder if she will have a lesbian affair to please the gays?

Is the creator of this show a bull dyke?

 

[iBrowse]

Yes! Pure duck tales of epic proportions because I need to lie to a bunch of avatars especially an avatar of Iman's hideous foot. Believe it or not this show has a huge fan base made up more than just women... black women to be exact. Black women who make up less than 10 percent of the population. Let me stop that's too much logic...

The ignorance and outrage regarding this show is hilariously sad. At the end of the day this is all coming from the mind of about 10 writers. I'll let that sink in just to show how irrelevant this fictional show is to our reality.

Good day sir.

so thats who the foot belongs to

 

[Busted_Toes]

Yes but friend how is that working out for you? You can't change ignorance. Even if what you're saying is logical you're still gonna be wrong according to them. One thing you have to realize with dealing with ignorant/close minded/one sided people is their counter arguments generally sway off topic which leads to endless counter arguments... Where this thread is presently.

Red bolded- And that is exactly why I'm asking why y'all are even entertaining them. The Coli is full of hypocrisy friend. Not all but a lot of posters are bored and full of sh!t. They need the internet to survive. I post when topics interest me but for the most part I rarely engage I just lurk and shake my head at the foolishness being typed on here. I love interacting with men who actually read books, read and watch the news, are cultured and venture outside of their 6 block radius. Again not all but a vast majority on here do not.

but your the ignorant close minded one?

If there was a tv show called "Picking Cotton" and it had black people in it picking cotton. There would be outrage right?
Same thing with Scandal, your cheerleading for a bed wench. A very real aspect of black american history. But you refuse to even address it, acknowledge it, you just dodge it. You can't even have a simple conversation about it. Yall pathetic. Jesus.

 

[Nintendough]

@PartyHeart


Still want to keep playing dumb with your fellow bed wenches? or yall not playing?



http://www.thecoli.com/threads/after-review-tommy-sotomayor-is-a-necessary-evil.152776/





Still wanna run to the rescue @Willstyles ?....your damned if you do, damned if you dont with these bed wench boogerwolves.

 

[PartyHeart]

Yes but friend how is that working out for you? You can't change ignorance. Even if what you're saying is logical you're still gonna be wrong according to them. One thing you have to realize with dealing with ignorant/close minded/one sided people is their counter arguments generally sway off topic which leads to endless counter arguments... Where this thread is presently.

Red bolded- And that is exactly why I'm asking why y'all are even entertaining them. The Coli is full of hypocrisy friend. Not all but a lot of posters are bored and full of sh!t. They need the internet to survive. I post when topics interest me but for the most part I rarely engage I just lurk and shake my head at the foolishness being typed on here. I love interacting with men who actually read books, read and watch the news, are cultured and venture outside of their 6 block radius. Again not all but a vast majority on here do not.

I lurk most of the time nowadays too, and mostly do that in HL. And I assume a lot of other folks lurk and read the unfettered ignorance without every being exposed to the other side of the coin. So it doesn't bother me to inject some truth in the dialogue every now again to check some of the stupidity, not for them, but for me and others. It doesn't take anything out of me to do so

 

[InfamousBlanco]

Listen to me...Shut up.

You and others like you are basing your opinon on some generic issue you have with the black woman white man relationship and maybe television in general I'm not sure. My opininon is based on THIS show and the dynamic between the two characters. It is not one of bed wenchery, it's two people who acted on feelings they shouldn't have and basically got caught slipping and are trying to find a way out of it. Again, I'm not advocating for any woman to involve themselves with a married man but BASED ON THIS SHOW, that I've actually watched, I see how the fukk it went down and they have genuine feelings for each other. Race is not even a consideration.

Now if you're going to paint every BW/WM relationship with the same big stupid, generic ass brush(especially a ficticious one)...go right ahead. Jesus will still love you. But don't try to denouce my blackness, call me brain washed and accuse me of wanting to fukk white men just because I like a damn television show. That's the part pisses me off. How could you come to such a solid conclusion based one thing? It's just stupid.

After 38 pages, some of you still can't read. Where did he state all bw/wm consist if the bw being a bed wench? Maybe it's time to turn off scandal, and go back to the basics with your education, honey. I guess English wasn't your forte.

 

[Coco Loco]

do u side with most of my opinions on race matters?

Truthfully I don't take you seriously because you troll too much for my liking. Your points are probably valid somewhere but I often tend to look past your posts.


@Busted_Toes what part of Good day sir didn't you understand?

 

[Rawtid]

What the purpose of a message board without discussion amongst the members? Sure it's going to be some name-calling, finger pointing, etc but a discussion is just an expression of opinion. If someone agrees with you cool, if not cool.

 

[Busted_Toes]

I lurk most of the time nowadays too, and mostly do that in HL. And I assume a lot of other folks lurk and read the unfettered ignorance without every being exposed to the other side of the coin. So it doesn't bother me to inject some truth in the dialogue every now again to check some of the stupidity, not for them, but for me and others. It doesn't take anything out of me to do so

You ain't saying nothing but the usual black feminist bullshyt. truth?

 

[iBrowse]

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Truthfully I don't take you seriously because you troll too much for my liking. Your points are probably valid somewhere but I often tend to look past your posts.

i just had 16 alerts..and i replied to urs first

do u see the connection?