sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
hold on lemme roll me a L for this, yall just may provide positive feedback
Officially about to join team GMB
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BmoreGorilla
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It took talking to mama about all this to snap me outta my funk. When I talked to her earlier this week she said:Situations like this makes me feel that no woman will ever love you unconditionally except your mama and you grandma
**bumps some drake and 808s & heartbreaks**
"You gonna look back in 1 year and realize this skank did you a favor. File those papers baby
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BmoreGorilla
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Cases like these pop up every day and nikkas still got the nerve to parrot some "nah she's a good one I didn't scoop her from the club or anything she a real one" and then find out the hard way.
Get married brehs
Welcome to #GMB
Get married brehs
Welcome to #GMB
that new freedom though
nikka is (I'm guessing) 30+ with multiple kids, it's not going to be easy jumping back on the singles market
The axe murderer
For I am death and I ride on a pale horse
OP sorry to hear that. I've been through similar shyt myself with my wife of 4 years homie 
. Keep your head straight brah and stay strong.....Welcome to the @GMB fam.
. Keep your head straight brah and stay strong.....Welcome to the @GMB fam.
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
Its prolly gonna be easier than you think. I get hit on all the time and I can offer a lot of things most of these nikkas out here cant
NapsOldDroog
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I say this with a heavy heart but welcome to #GMBI mentioned in a thread a little while back how me and the wife been having issues. Turns out the issues weren't with US but with HER. Over the past few months she's been picking fights more and more for no reason.
Spending waaaaaaaay too much time at the "gym" talking about she "needs her space"
I kno what that kinda bullshyt talk means. So I started doing my homework. I kno she been working with this dusty as personal trainer. Got a hold of his IG account. Since it was marked private I had a female co worker of mine request to follow him and he accepted.
I now have screen shots over the past few months which indicate they were having an affair.
I have a cousin whose a lawyer who told me in MD all I need to prove is that there is a disposition for an affair to occur and the opportunity.
I got both and its all on IG. They thought they were slick marking shyt private. No need for a PI or witnesses. This is why I been laying low for the past few weeks. Gathering my evidence and getting a lawyer on the low. Finally confronted her last night:
Me: "So you been fukking your trainer huh"
Her: "You kno I wouldn't do that. We're just friends"
Me: "Oh yea? That's not what these screenshots and comments say"
Her: "How'd you get all that"
Me: " The Lord works in mysterious ways"
So she starts saying how dude filled an emotional void in her and made her feel good about herself blah blah blah.
That nikka just doing his job
Nothing wrong with me or the marriage. Point blank something is wrong with her. bytch wasn't unhappy enough with the marriage to leave but was unhappy enough with herself that she stepped out to fill some bullshyt void. Told me she had tried to end it several times but couldn't
Told the bytch she has until Saturday to get her shyt out and go to her mothers
Ill even help her pack. Already have an appointment Saturday morning to change the locks
Took the past few weeks to get perspective on this shyt and wrap my head around the fact everybodys life is gonna be changing. I get the idea she doesn't want the marriage to end but fukk it. Cant put up with that kind of disrespect
@Queen you were right she was plotting behind my back
But fukk her. Adultery is one of the only things in MD you can file for immediately. Bout to get this shyt wrapped up before the holidays. Only people that matter at this point are me and the kids
GMB you gotta new member
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Fixed that for you, breh.
But that 7-year itch is no joke.
Indeed I would. Been together 13 years. Year seven is tough. But people say that if you can get past it things are usually awesome again, as was the case for me.
Marriage is ups and downs and takes a lot of work. People who don't understand that will definitely be joining #teamGMB.
Me and my wife went through it at 5 years, it was pretty ugly for about a month or so. Never broke up however. We just celebrated our 7 year this past weekend. It does get exponentially better if both parties are willing to be totally honest and transparent with each other as well as be willing compromise. Transparency concerning thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs is the most important component during this time and throughout marriage. 5-7 years is just enough time to feel like you can still get out without losing too much of yourself in the process, which is why it happens around this time I think. That person that you idealized in the first couple years isn't exactly falling in line with the fantasy you had for them and if one or the other isn't willing to drop quite a few expectations they had for the relationship initially then it will probably end up in a divorce. Dropping expectations sounds bad but if your partner's pros can outweigh the cons of not getting what you want then that's when you can start embracing them for who they truly are, which is why it gets much better afterwards.
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Breh has his shyt together and his own home. He will be more than fine.
Dr. Narcisse
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I mentioned in a thread a little while back how me and the wife been having issues. Turns out the issues weren't with US but with HER. Over the past few months she's been picking fights more and more for no reason.
Spending waaaaaaaay too much time at the "gym" talking about she "needs her space"
I kno what that kinda bullshyt talk means. So I started doing my homework. I kno she been working with this dusty as personal trainer. Got a hold of his IG account. Since it was marked private I had a female co worker of mine request to follow him and he accepted.
I now have screen shots over the past few months which indicate they were having an affair.
I have a cousin whose a lawyer who told me in MD all I need to prove is that there is a disposition for an affair to occur and the opportunity.
I got both and its all on IG. They thought they were slick marking shyt private. No need for a PI or witnesses. This is why I been laying low for the past few weeks. Gathering my evidence and getting a lawyer on the low. Finally confronted her last night:
Me: "So you been fukking your trainer huh
Her: "You kno I wouldn't do that. We're just friends
Me: "Oh yea? That's not what these screenshots and comments say
Her: "How'd you get all that
Me: " The Lord works in mysterious ways
So she starts saying how dude filled an emotional void in her and made her feel good about herself blah blah blah.
That nikka just doing his job
Nothing wrong with me or the marriage. Point blank something is wrong with her. bytch wasn't unhappy enough with the marriage to leave but was unhappy enough with herself that she stepped out to fill some bullshyt void. Told me she had tried to end it several times but couldn't
Told the bytch she has until Saturday to get her shyt out and go to her mothers
Ill even help her pack. Already have an appointment Saturday morning to change the locks
Took the past few weeks to get perspective on this shyt and wrap my head around the fact everybodys life is gonna be changing. I get the idea she doesn't want the marriage to end but fukk it. Cant put up with that kind of disrespect
@Queen you were right she was plotting behind my back
But fukk her. Adultery is one of the only things in MD you can file for immediately. Bout to get this shyt wrapped up before the holidays. Only people that matter at this point are me and the kids
GMB you gotta new member
Get back on yo pimp shyt