Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
RHOA last week was wild 
how does one repel nikkas with amazing dikk but horrible lifestyles from you? Stay away from me 
PMS is real. I'm angry as fukk today and I have a "date" planned. I think I should cancel.
Do you ladies find that when you go out with a guy they are really possessive of you attention?
I went with a guy once who was all in his feelings because I was talked to the Uber driver on our whole 5 minute ride. I had been out with this guy plenty of times.
Another dude said he watched my eyes to make sure I wasn't checking out other dudes. He said "You take a quick look. But don't look back. You did good."
I was at this party with this guy and he sent over the gayest nikka he could find to try to get my number. The dude was flipping his dreds like a fukking Becky!
Of course it didn't work. Guys are so weird.
I went with a guy once who was all in his feelings because I was talked to the Uber driver on our whole 5 minute ride. I had been out with this guy plenty of times.
Another dude said he watched my eyes to make sure I wasn't checking out other dudes. He said "You take a quick look. But don't look back. You did good."
I was at this party with this guy and he sent over the gayest nikka he could find to try to get my number. The dude was flipping his dreds like a fukking Becky!
Of course it didn't work. Guys are so weird.
colicolicoli
Droid Gang
This thread seems pretty dead but I need advice from introverted women who have dated extroverted men:
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I don't even think I'm that "cold" just introverted. That's just the word he's used in the past to describe me.
I'm currently in trouble for some dumb shyt. My boyfriend needs 100% attention when we are together. I can't be on my phone or do any of the shyt I need or want to do. He spends the night 3 STRAIGHT days this week. On my day off, he texts me from work saying he wants to come by on his lunch break despite the fact that he is planning on spending the night again. I'm instantly annoyed because that means I gotta stop what I'm doing to entertain him.
I don't jump for joy as its my freaking off day and I need some time to myself. He gets mad so I tell him to just come on.
He comes over...sees I'm cleaning up my home & still gets pissed cause I don't want to stop cleaning up and chill with him.
He then gathers all his belongings and leaves.
I don't know what to do. It's like he doesn't understand I enjoy him being around but I don't need to be constantly interacting with him. My ex and I could chill in the same house & do our own things separately.
I've never dealt with a man that needs this much attention.
He sounds clingy as fukk and selfish if he can't understand that you need your space. From the things you are describing, it sounds like he's mad obsessive.
As an introverted person, I dealt with this before in my last relationship. I would say try talking it over with him about how you need your space if you haven't already.
If you already did that and he's still doing the same shyt, then the next best thing to do is to part ways.
I know I didn't give much of a thorough answer, but hopefully, the little bit helps.
recipe for disaster, dude is clingy and probably controlling as hell, next thing you know, you won't have any friends left because he'll run them off. Have fun for now but you need to come up with an escape plan
Like the previous two posters above me said. Your boy is clingy and obsessive as fukk.
You better have a real talk with him again. If he continues to act like a little boy then end the relationship and move on.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Ladies, what are we wearing this season? I lost a bunch of weight, so I have to buy all new everything. 
Black Cher
All Star
Ladies, what are we wearing this season? I lost a bunch of weight, so I have to buy all new everything.
I'm feeling floral dresses and peasant dresses, heeled boots, block heels and strappy sandals. Also basket bags, I love them!
chileeeee they saying sirratchetness a scammer out here
Please change your name backI'm feeling floral dresses and peasant dresses, heeled boots, block heels and strappy sandals. Also basket bags, I love them!
colicolicoli
Droid Gang
I really wish I still had mod powers so I could move this thread to TLR. I hate posting in the general Random Thoughts thread.