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Okay guys. I need to rant. and I need advice.

I'm so fukking tired of my restaurant job. I'm doing p[art of the server's job (bussing tables) and tbh, it wouldnt be so fukking bad if they (servers) tipped me for cleaning up their mess. (since they don't want to do it).

I talked to the managers about it, but they were:yeshrug: about it.

second, They now having me work at nights. I don't like working nights (I walk from work to home and vice versa). and I feel very unsafe. I told them I preferred to work in the mornings. I told them that prior to hiring me. But they disregarded that as well.

I think I'm actually gonna just fukking quit. I don't have anything backed up. But I'm just so fukking tired, weary, and fukking tired of the disrespect. from employees and sometimes customers alike.

I talked to my grams about it and she said she understood if I quit, But Im still on the fence about it.

The one thing i will miss is...the little money (like real little...i was lucky to even pay my phone bill) that i did get and helping out grams (like, im not even kidding when i say real little guys)

But I feel so very stressed out. I feel like I'm a slave..literally.


idk what to do ...well, i kinda do. But I'm just....:mjcry:

TLDR: I want to quit my job due to basically being treated like a slave, have nothing backed up. but all i want is a peace of mind. idk what to do. HELP!
 

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Okay guys. I need to rant. and I need advice.

I'm so fukking tired of my restaurant job. I'm doing p[art of the server's job (bussing tables) and tbh, it wouldnt be so fukking bad if they (servers) tipped me for cleaning up their mess. (since they don't want to do it).

I talked to the managers about it, but they were:yeshrug: about it.

second, They now having me work at nights. I don't like working nights (I walk from work to home and vice versa). and I feel very unsafe. I told them I preferred to work in the mornings. I told them that prior to hiring me. But they disregarded that as well.

I think I'm actually gonna just fukking quit. I don't have anything backed up. But I'm just so fukking tired, weary, and fukking tired of the disrespect. from employees and sometimes customers alike.

I talked to my grams about it and she said she understood if I quit, But Im still on the fence about it.

The one thing i will miss is...the little money (like real little...i was lucky to even pay my phone bill) that i did get and helping out grams (like, im not even kidding when i say real little guys)

But I feel so very stressed out. I feel like I'm a slave..literally.


idk what to do ...well, i kinda do. But I'm just....:mjcry:

TLDR: I want to quit my job due to basically being treated like a slave, have nothing backed up. but all i want is a peace of mind. idk what to do. HELP!

Is it required for you to do the server's job? Or is it just something you do to make your job easier? If it's the latter, I wouldn't do it and give them a dose of their own medicine. If the managers react to you not being able to sit people faster, tell them you are unable to do so because the servers aren't doing their job. I wouldn't clean sh*t if the servers are unappreciative.

As for working late nights, I can understand.
Sounds like you need a new job. I would be careful about quitting before having anything lined up because sometimes jobs are hard to come by, even retail and f&b jobs- due to the amount of competition out there. I would start looking for a new job pronto before quitting. And when you do decide to leave, put in two weeks. Therefore, you have work history on your resume and a reference if you need one.

If things get worse, just quit. It's not worth your health and sanity. There are temp services- temp banquet server jobs that you can do to put a little money in your pocket while you're looking for a main gig. People should be looking for banquet servers because spring (wedding season, plus other events) is when the banquet business start picking up.

Good luck. I hope things workout
 

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Okay guys. I need to rant. and I need advice.

I'm so fukking tired of my restaurant job. I'm doing p[art of the server's job (bussing tables) and tbh, it wouldnt be so fukking bad if they (servers) tipped me for cleaning up their mess. (since they don't want to do it).

I talked to the managers about it, but they were:yeshrug: about it.

second, They now having me work at nights. I don't like working nights (I walk from work to home and vice versa). and I feel very unsafe. I told them I preferred to work in the mornings. I told them that prior to hiring me. But they disregarded that as well.

I think I'm actually gonna just fukking quit. I don't have anything backed up. But I'm just so fukking tired, weary, and fukking tired of the disrespect. from employees and sometimes customers alike.

I talked to my grams about it and she said she understood if I quit, But Im still on the fence about it.

The one thing i will miss is...the little money (like real little...i was lucky to even pay my phone bill) that i did get and helping out grams (like, im not even kidding when i say real little guys)

But I feel so very stressed out. I feel like I'm a slave..literally.


idk what to do ...well, i kinda do. But I'm just....:mjcry:

TLDR: I want to quit my job due to basically being treated like a slave, have nothing backed up. but all i want is a peace of mind. idk what to do. HELP!
I think a couple of people here are about ten seconds from quitting their jobs. Sometimes enough is enough!

On Tuesday I thought taking my technician jacket off and just walking out of my second job.... but I thought about all the things that I wouldn't be able to do without that money so I'm sucking it up and continuing to work there.

You don't realize how disrespectful people are until you work with the public.... but as you said most of the time its not the customers its your co-workers that are mad disrespectful.

Do you what you feel is right and what you are comfortable with. I'm not gonna tell you to walk out of your job tomorrow, but if push comes to shove chuck up the dueces!
 

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Is it required for you to do the server's job? Or is it just something you do to make your job easier? If it's the latter, I wouldn't do it and give them a dose of their own medicine. If the managers react to you not being able to sit people faster, tell them you are unable to do so because the servers aren't doing their job. I wouldn't clean sh*t if the servers are unappreciative.

As for working late nights, I can understand.
Sounds like you need a new job. I would be careful about quitting before having anything lined up because sometimes jobs are hard to come by, even retail and f&b jobs- due to the amount of competition out there. I would start looking for a new job pronto before quitting. And when you do decide to leave, put in two weeks. Therefore, you have work history on your resume and a reference if you need one.

If things get worse, just quit. It's not worth your health and sanity. There are temp services- temp banquet server jobs that you can do to put a little money in your pocket while you're looking for a main gig. People should be looking for banquet servers because spring (wedding season, plus other events) is when the banquet business start picking up.

Good luck. I hope things workout

No, it wasn't even in the job description when I applied. I mean, when it gets busy, then I'm suppose to help out..but the thing is..even when it isn't busy, I'm always cleaning up their shyt, Only 3 servers clean up their tables, and those are the ones I appreciate the most. Not to mention, I work with minors (most of the servers) - So they don't even appreciate it.

And the managers, ugh. dont get me started- fukk it, I already started lol. But bruh, the managers be standing there at the register. while I'm bussing tables, they literally ask me to get the door...which wouldn't be problem - if I wasn't already doing something. fukk! I can only do one thing at a time!

Then they get on me about doing the dishes. and i'm not gonna blame the milkshake person because they get backed up. so i understand and try to help them out (they also appreciate that) But the servers stay be telling me to bus,bus,bus. and I tell them If someone don't get the dishes, then it will pile up, and pretty soon, the tables won't get clean, i remember this one bytch (server) got mad all because i wouldn't bus at that time.

and i do need a new job - But I'm at the point where I'm about to walk out (or in my case, just don't come in lol) and just say fukk it. They always mess with my hours, like, one week, i will only have 5 hours to work. and the next, like 10. They're now just giving me extra hours....and idk about y'all but i don't feel secure within this job if I can BARELY pay my cell phone bill and my grams (which all together is $140) with one check.

and thanks, I feel myself slowly, but surely, will go off the fukking handle. I'm not sure If I can handle even two more weeks of this.

I think a couple of people here are about ten seconds from quitting their jobs. Sometimes enough is enough!

On Tuesday I thought taking my technician jacket off and just walking out of my second job.... but I thought about all the things that I wouldn't be able to do without that money so I'm sucking it up and continuing to work there.

You don't realize how disrespectful people are until you work with the public.... but as you said most of the time its not the customers its your co-workers that are mad disrespectful.

Do you what you feel is right and what you are comfortable with. I'm not gonna tell you to walk out of your job tomorrow, but if push comes to shove chuck up the dueces!

Ah, yes, that's understandable. i don't ever want to be in that position - again. So I can relate to sucking it up...but I've been doing that too long with this job - and eventually. I'm gonna explode. ugh, this is semi-hard x.x


Thank you guys for being understanding. :mjcry:
 
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