Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
I love when shyt don't go a guys way and they show they true colors.
So I've been talking to this guy on and off for a couple of weeks, really liked him. Very civilized man, sweet and smart. So he works for his family's construction company or whatnot and he flew out of state about 3 weeks ago to go do a project. He's giving me promises on being back by Valentines day when it actually doesn't matter about the darn holiday, I just miss his presence and want him around so we can hang.
So he tells me yesterday, he has a surprise for me. I'm thinking he probably sent me something thru the mail because for the last few days he's been indecisive about when he's coming back exactly since the project isn't done. We're on the phone till about 5 this morning and he tells me he's outside my placeI was all half asleep on the phone till I heard that. I'm trying to figure out why the hell he outside my place 5 am, unannounced and so I told him this. He snapped at me like he was pissed talking about I don't know what he went thru to get down here, blah, blah. I'm tryna tell him I'm appreciative for him flying out here but God dawg, he couldn't be a normal person and come at a more reasonable time and let me know. He always had an agenda coming over my place like that at that time. Too grown for guessing games
so he hung up in my face. Whateve.
Now today, after not hearing from him. I hit him up like so we done? He's like yes we are. I told him cool. Then he was like you a lying ass, confused, little girl. Like he started straight insulting me talking about I got a little girl mentality because I'm telling him he only coming over at that time for some cookies. So he tryna cover it up as if it's not by disrespecting me. He started calling me a bytch, and ended his text with a "die in traffic." Lol I don't know why that shyt actually had me laughing but boy I tell you, when shyt doesn't go they way, they true colors really show
I thought you was married?
And yeah peoples true color's coming out later is why I truly dislike dating
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
I see,
I honestly dont understand why him showing up at 5am was a big deal if he went out his way to make sure he got back for V-day. I mean, given the situation can it even be anything more "official" until your officially divorced?
All that extra die in traffic talk is
and at least you know what you would have been dealing with later on.But I'd been pissed too if for a special occasion I spent money and time and made sure I showed up to spend time with you and you was like nah its 5am you can't be showing up at my door randomly.
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
I see,
I honestly dont understand why him showing up at 5am was a big deal if he went out his way to make sure he got back for V-day. I mean, given the situation can it even be anything more "official" until your officially divorced?
All that extra die in traffic talk is
But I'd been pissed too if for a special occasion I spent money and time and made sure I showed up to spend time with you and you was like nah its 5am you can't be showing up at my door randomly.
So I'm wrong then?
CinnamonTequila
Playing that music too loud ;)
I see,
I honestly dont understand why him showing up at 5am was a big deal if he went out his way to make sure he got back for V-day. I mean, given the situation can it even be anything more "official" until your officially divorced?
All that extra die in traffic talk is
But I'd been pissed too if for a special occasion I spent money and time and made sure I showed up to spend time with you and you was like nah its 5am you can't be showing up at my door randomly.
I agree with Phoenix.
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
"Die in Traffic"
Sound like some shyt you'd see in some youtube comments.
Sound like some shyt you'd see in some youtube comments.
I'd say so, especially if he's showed up during booty call hours before.
This probably wasn't the occasion to blow him up about it if he had to really go out his way just to fly back and spend time with you for Vday.
I mean I get it, It needed to be addressed at some point. But seems like he just woke you up on the wrong side of the bed that morning
But at least you got to see what you was dealing with early. I don't think you should apologize after he told you to die in traffic tho. what kind of grown adult does that
CinnamonTequila
Playing that music too loud ;)
I think it was normal for him to be mad. But in my opinion that does not give him the right to call you a bytch or all those things he said.
If the guy is not that important to you, then just leave things like that.
If the guy is not that important to you, then just leave things like that.
@CinnamonTequila is that you in your avi? If so....
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
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I'd say so, especially if he's showed up during booty call hours before.
This probably wasn't the occasion to blow him up about it if he had to really go out his way just to fly back and spend time with you for Vday.
I mean I get it, It needed to be addressed at some point. But seems like he just woke you up on the wrong side of the bed that morning
But at least you got to see what you was dealing with early. I don't think you should apologize after he told you to die in traffic tho. what kind of grown adult does that
He never showed up for booty call before. We never even had sex.
I didn't blow up on him
I just told him if we could of done this at a better time. Immature men
CinnamonTequila
Playing that music too loud ;)
