I like when I finally just break off a bad habit. When I try to set definite goals the shyt doesn't work but I will wake up and be done with something. Like when I went natural, I tried a few times and failed but one day I decided i didn't feel like perming my hair anymore and didn't look back. The bad thing is I never remember when so I don't have an anniversary date to celebrate lol
Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
yall remember what movie he was in? i keep thinking it had something to do with the wayans?
i wanna see what he up to now
VFib
All Star
Life.
I have so many questions.
Why? Why? Why?
I'll never get any answers.
I have so many questions.
Why? Why? Why?
I'll never get any answers.
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
Me & my husband tryna work shyt out with eachother because I previously told him I want a divorce. He said he wants us to work things out and prove that we should be and stay together.
So I've been waiting...
And still waiting...
So we had this conversation this morning about how couples don't put in any efforts into eachother once they are in a relationship. He says females always expecting the guy to pamper them and "surprise" them but never the other way around. That the effort in that is a two way street.
I told him in our relationship it has been a one way street too. I was the one who sent out people to his job to surprise him with gifts, flowers and one of those fruity bouquet. I was the one who randomly give him gifts like clothes and shoes that I would see him drool over. On our last anniversary I planned and paid for us to go kayaking, took a ferry out on the ocean and out to eat on the beach.
His response was "when you go to an interview for a job do you continue to go to work as if you're going to that interview?" That actually made me feel.. off. I don't know how to feel about that to be honest.
So I've been waiting...
And still waiting...
So we had this conversation this morning about how couples don't put in any efforts into eachother once they are in a relationship. He says females always expecting the guy to pamper them and "surprise" them but never the other way around. That the effort in that is a two way street.
I told him in our relationship it has been a one way street too. I was the one who sent out people to his job to surprise him with gifts, flowers and one of those fruity bouquet. I was the one who randomly give him gifts like clothes and shoes that I would see him drool over. On our last anniversary I planned and paid for us to go kayaking, took a ferry out on the ocean and out to eat on the beach.
His response was "when you go to an interview for a job do you continue to go to work as if you're going to that interview?" That actually made me feel.. off. I don't know how to feel about that to be honest.
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
How much thirst is considered bad for your girlfriend or wife?
Like if you know you're going to smash tonight, telling the wifey all day through text and stuff that you feigning for that ass like a crackhead...is that bad?
Definitely NOT. Well.. to me. It makes me more excited.
arent you basically already #1?it's like I can't decide whether I want to look like this
or like this
Aceofspades404
Superstar
sorta, she's more toned and pear shaped. I like looking like that but also like #2.
How much thirst is considered bad for your girlfriend or wife?
Like if you know you're going to smash tonight, telling the wifey all day through text and stuff that you feigning for that ass like a crackhead...is that bad?
No such thing if ur partner got a high ass drive if anything u just warming up the car for her till she gets home then once u done having ur way with her I'm sure she will want more later on that night if not then that mornings and for the next several days or just want it all the time
All comes down to how high her drive is the chemistry u 2 have and how good it feels
To her
Either way it's a win win situation
wet landscapes
ghost
the skin of a well roasted sweet potato is one of the most delicious things on earth 
Elle Driver
Veteran
Breast feeding is painful as fukk. Jesus Christ.
VFib
All Star
I don't think I can be in a relationship/marriage where we are constantly in a screaming match. Legit screaming at the top of your lungs, with cursing and name calling. I don't understand how people do it.
I would think it was easier to just be single.
I would think it was easier to just be single.
Is that your situation now?
I can't even allow myself to do that in a relationship. Dont ever think I'd even come close to screaming at someone im with.
My ex-fiance thought it was wrong that we never shouted during an argument.
Just not my style. I'm not about that screaming/yelling life.