Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
@MarsPunka what's going on with your man? You ok?
I'm fine, just realized he's been taking me for granted so for the next couple of days in going to treat him the same way he's been treating me. Hopefully he can see how all these small things have been building up and why I feel the way I do instead of trying to explain and getting into an argument about it.
One of the ones from the astrology thread...well I used two different sites. He's Haitian so yeah two earrings in the pic but when I pick my daughter up I will give him another once over.
@Mirin4rmfar how old did u make today? Maybe u can get rid of ur Lebron hairline and go bald witcho 
self. Just joking. Happy birthday
self. Just joking. Happy birthdayDon't correct bad behavior with more bad behavior. You're going to need to have a discussion if you're feeling some kind of way. He may just be getting "comfortable" and not doing the same things he did to score you.
If you think it will cause an argument ask for "advice". "If a girl feels that her man is doing XYZ, what's the best way she should communicate that to him?" or something like that. I did the same to the guy I was dating because I got tired of him shutting down when it came time to talk about his feelings. Even he had to admit it was clever of me.
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Tit for tat is some childish crap you don't need to play. He isn't going to see it as the same thing he's doing to you. He's just going to see it as your problem.
Make it clear what you need. He doesn't know you yet after just a couple months.
Make it clear what you need. He doesn't know you yet after just a couple months.
Petty ass mom lmao! is she single?My mom actually gave me that advice (treat him like he's treating me)
No, married to my dad for almost 30 years
He's a young dude right?
He's probably doesn't think he's doing anything wrong or that he's spending enough time with you as it is. I remember not understanding that just because I spent 8 hours with my girl didn't mean the next day or soI could just not really worry about her... In my head clearly she should know that I care for her. I just spent the whole weekend with her.
ahhh I was young and foolish then
Just tellem and warn em
He's probably doesn't think he's doing anything wrong or that he's spending enough time with you as it is. I remember not understanding that just because I spent 8 hours with my girl didn't mean the next day or soI could just not really worry about her... In my head clearly she should know that I care for her. I just spent the whole weekend with her.
ahhh I was young and foolish then
Just tellem and warn em
He's a young dude right?
He's probably doesn't think he's doing anything wrong or that he's spending enough time with you as it is. I remember not understanding that just because I spent 8 hours with my girl didn't mean the next day or soI could just not really worry about her... In my head clearly she should know that I care for her. I just spent the whole weekend with her.
ahhh I was young and foolish then
Just tellem and warn em
I experienced this "I just saw you the other day" LMMFAO!!
I don't mind spending one day out of the week with him since we both work and he's currently in school but that's the thing. He cancelled on me this past Friday because he was too tired and the time we hung out before that he was an hour late because he fell asleep.He's a young dude right?
He's probably doesn't think he's doing anything wrong or that he's spending enough time with you as it is. I remember not understanding that just because I spent 8 hours with my girl didn't mean the next day or soI could just not really worry about her... In my head clearly she should know that I care for her. I just spent the whole weekend with her.
ahhh I was young and foolish then
Just tellem and warn em
Adding to that he doesn't call me like he used to or make any effort to set up any dates, so that's why I feel a little taken for granted atm.
Yeah he's just getting comfortable. Men are retarded. The asking for advice thing really worked for me any other way came off as nagging. I remember he used to say "I don't want to ruin my day with this".
My sister does it to her husband and admits it doesn't work. 
You still are going to have to have the conversation. Do you want it before or after he is annoyed?
I just looked at myself in the mirror and realized I put two different earrings in today.
I've been at work for 5 hours like this.
You still are going to have to have the conversation. Do you want it before or after he is annoyed?I just looked at myself in the mirror and realized I put two different earrings in today.
I've been at work for 5 hours like this.