I couldn't have written this better. When you know your purpose and actively strive towards it everything seems to fall in place. Women will can see when a man is on his game and will be naturally attracted. When I raise my son I am going to stress the importance of being virtuous and ambitious. These two things accompanied with living an honest life will lead to a fulfilling life.Nothing is permanent but there are plenty of old fools.
This is what it is.
It's not even about trying to force gender roles because often the trivial shyt we attribute to manhood/woman hood don't mean much...but the basic male/female principles at work as forces of nature make it hard for a passive man to get in where he fits in, not only vaginally but in the world.
And when I say passive I don't mean passive as in nice...I just mean directionless. The same creative energy that makes you attractive to women is the same creative energy that propels you to do whatever it is that you came here to do.
The young man in the video doesn't know what to do with himself. He's not attractive, energetically because he's not shining...ambition is really a by product of having self worth and a feeling of purpose. And you can't find out what your sense of purpose is if you attention is constantly externalized...whether it be admiration or jealousy, you won't find your purpose in a woman or anything outside of you.