The thing with the Souls series is not so much "work", but more of using logic in dire circumstances. Its RPG chess with a big award. There's a difference between grinding just to grind vs grinding to survive.
On that note, after three damn hours, I finally beat the first boss on Dark Souls 1 and beaten my first on Elden Ring. Folks never lie about these games being good as hell. Yes, these games are hard as fukk, but once you get the feel of it, its all logic and human error. You don't die in these games because of video game nonsense, you die in these games because you fukked up.
The shyt falls on you
, not the trash skeleton crew. Why would you go into a room with a bunch of enemies with swords? Why would you go near a bridge like shyt isn't going to pop off in an instant?
Trust the process, learn from your mistakes, get good, and die a lot.